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BootSadist -> RE: Elements of Manliness: How good you have to become to be a better man ? (1/27/2010 10:37:11 AM)
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Nice post.... I ain't gonna dissect the inner workings of the mind of someone from Dastan's country but I think that there's something right to his words, and something wrong too...I know him outside this forum and this site, so i can explain a lot..probably going to get myself shot in the head for this, but nevermind...I don't visit his country until next December, so I'm good..
Das: being a man in today's world isn't being a tough-as-a-rock, no-crying hardcase able to become the mixture between Jungle Jim and MacGyver that you think. Yes, it comes with the TRADITIONAL image of the male gender, but it doesn't hold true as the core that identifies us as men.
I can cook, fix the plumbing or the walls and some electric wiring and car mechanic basics, I can troubleshoot a computer in a basic level and I can do it with a manual ( MacGyver's Repair Encyclopedia for Dummies, in my case, LOL) , I can hunt, I can handle weapons, firewarms and traditional, and fight better than most men having 4 black belts. Yet I don't think that defines me as a man, or a Dominant, nor does it highlight that status or becomes a badge of merit, part of a list of requisites to get a degree as Dominant or Man.
Now, I do hear what you say.....a man has to be taught, formed to become all the things he can be and the best he can at all that, but in your country, if my memory doesn't fail, you apply that to both genders but only ask the males to prove it. It's a reverse or negative machismo/chauvinism. I don't say you have a bad intention or a bad culture/country but man, lighten up...
My own take is that somehow, your country makes you so AFRAID of women, actually, of women REJECTING you more than Women themselves, that you think NOBODY will LOVE you if you don't PROVE your skills and that you'll get as much LOVE and happiness from a woman as the amount of your WORTH, being that placed in a material definition of skills and experiences.
If Dommes were shopping for sub-bots, you'd see them ordering Subs in their profiles giving measurements like "Must be tall, body mass index of 28 with 10% bodyfat and 7-8 inches size along with a PhD and an IQ over 190.." like they were ordering a car, and deciding between two subs for the extra inch of their penis size or their difference in IQ points or the standard of their PhD's or muscle sizes. That isn't how it works. For what I can gather, your whole FEAR here is coming up SHORT, so you want to know how many items ont he checklist are there so you can apply yourself to test as an A+ on each single one to get YOUR own Megan Fox/Angelina Jolie look-alike Domme with matching credentials.
For someone with your life experiences, I'd never imagine you'd try to make life harder for yourself.
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