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Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 12:02:25 AM   
JuliaahTG


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Status: offline 		are there any subs who are expecting a non-professional relationship that actually pay a tribute to a Domme? The reason I ask this is a Domme and I were recently emailing back and forth and things seemed to be going well, but after a few emails she said that I needed to give her a cash gift in order to prove myself as 'genuine.' It just seems wrong to ask for cash in order to start a real D/s relationship outside of the professional realm. Maybe someone could shed some light on the subject...
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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 1:42:53 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		You're not sure what to make of a stranger trying to solicit money from you?

Really?

Focus.

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 1:46:00 AM   
Focus50


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Focus.

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 2:05:02 AM   
igor2003


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ORIGINAL: JuliaahTG

are there any subs who are expecting a non-professional relationship that actually pay a tribute to a Domme? The reason I ask this is a Domme and I were recently emailing back and forth and things seemed to be going well, but after a few emails she said that I needed to give her a cash gift in order to prove myself as 'genuine.' It just seems wrong to ask for cash in order to start a real D/s relationship outside of the professional realm. Maybe someone could shed some light on the subject...


Usually I just say something like, "Sorry, but I'm looking for a personal relationship, not a professional relationship," and quit talking to them. But lately, more and more my reply is something more like, "Wow, what a coincidence! Because of all of the gold-digging psuedo-dommes out there that try to take unfair advantage of subs and not give anything in return I've had to start charging tribute too, so that I can know the domme is genuine!" That's usually the end of it.

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 5:38:14 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Igor, I love that!
They aren't professionals because they don't propose to exchange services for money. They're scammers because they solicit money for nothing.

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 8:17:36 AM   
osf


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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 9:49:52 AM   
JuliaahTG


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Status: offline 		thanks for the welcome focus50, and I did focus tell her thanks but no thanks. IT just seemed a little odd to me and was wondering if anyone was falling for these types of Dommes. If I was looking for a Pro I would pay one, but one that asks me to pay just to verify my realness? Do many Dommes like this try to take advantage of "weak" minded subs? Do any of them get away with it? I'm submissive but not stupid.

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 10:25:24 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		She is a scammer you did the right thing.

Matt's litleone

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 11:24:28 AM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		Paypal me $100 and I'll let you know how to handle it.....

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 11:26:54 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Hey now...........I just want a waffle iron!

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 11:39:05 AM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Hey now...........I just want a waffle iron!


Sounds kinky.......weirdo

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 11:47:02 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Awww gee Aileen thank you! You say the sweetest things.

Now I am trying to think of kinky things to do with a waffle iron...


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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 1:09:50 PM   
JBGolden


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Status: offline 		Well, I would hope not! If you don't go in knowing their pro from the beginning, anybody that would pay anybody else anything is just asking to get fleeced. You did the right thing.

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 2:01:27 PM   
OnlineFunForYou


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ORIGINAL: igor2003
Because of all of the gold-digging psuedo-dommes out there that try to take unfair advantage of subs and not give anything in return I've had to start charging tribute too, so that I can know the domme is genuine!"

It's the same with people requiring money because their time is valuable... as if ours would not be as valuable as theirs.

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 4:03:33 PM   
AnimusRex


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
Now I am trying to think of kinky things to do with a waffle iron...



A male slave's penis fits between the two halves...then the device is plugged in.
Said male slave has about 2 minutes to answer questions before he gets a rather interesting pattern branded into his manhood.

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< Message edited by AnimusRex -- 1/28/2010 4:04:31 PM >

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 4:05:28 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		Yeahhhh, if I had any interest in penises or the torturing of said appendage. 

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 4:08:18 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		Much of the domme thing is all dough and no show.  Most of them are really fat anyways.

You were lucky.


LaT loves cock.

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/28/2010 7:18:53 PM   
heartcream


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ORIGINAL: domiguy

Much of the domme thing is all dough and no show.  Most of them are really fat anyways.

You were lucky.


LaT loves cock.


Oh domi, didya have too many beers? Lady Tiger loves waffles.

*ruffles his hair

Silly.

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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/29/2010 7:39:33 AM   
thishereboi


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Status: offline 		I would write her back and tell her you hadn't thought of that, but yes it is an outstanding idea. Then I would tell her I would be more than happy to send her some cash to prove you are genuine, right after you receive her check for $100 proving she is also genuine. I mean it works both ways right?

Now then, after she dumps you, because she realizes she's not going to get lucky today, write the following on a piece of paper. " I will never give money to ANYONE on the internet"

Paste the paper on the top of your monitor where you can see it when your on CM and continue your search. Good luck with that.


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RE: Paying tribute... - 1/29/2010 7:42:34 AM   
thishereboi


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Awww gee Aileen thank you! You say the sweetest things.

Now I am trying to think of kinky things to do with a waffle iron...



You could always play "time for your mammogram" but it would be more fun if the waffle iron were see through like the real machines are.


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