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High Heels - 1/29/2010 8:27:38 AM   
kinkienesss


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Status: offline 		Ok recently i was discussing shoe  choices with someone and i was wondering what everyone thinks, are thin pointy heels to be reserved for dommes only and slaves and subs left the chunky clunky heels.???

What are your thoughts?


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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 8:28:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		Seriously?  There are going to be rules on who gets what shoe now?  

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 8:29:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		Lol no i just wanted peoples opinions

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 8:30:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		For those of us who are impact players, the wider heels are often more comfortable and provide greater stability.  The boots in My pic are a wide heel and those are what I wear to play in.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 8:31:17 AM   
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when I put on heals, I want the ones that make who I'm wearing them for pull off my dress and fuck me right there..

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 8:32:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Too often the shoe issue is associated with the Domme and some subboi licking it or whatever the hell those people do.
 
I think high heels/stilettoes look great on any woman who can make it work.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 8:36:13 AM   
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NO..

when I put on heals, I want the ones that make who I'm wearing them for pull off my dress and fuck me right there..


I had a boyfriend once who was so into really high stiletto heels...he would put my legs over his shoulders and while fucking me, he would hold the stiletto heels like reins...it was hawwwwwwwwwwt.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 8:37:17 AM   
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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 8:41:18 AM   
AlexandraLynch


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Status: offline 		I'm plenty dominant and I top in riding boots. That's due to having an injured foot that can't do heels any more. 

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 8:42:23 AM   
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ORIGINAL: onlyfreelycaged

NO..

when I put on heals, I want the ones that make who I'm wearing them for pull off my dress and fuck me right there..


I had a boyfriend once who was so into really high stiletto heels...he would put my legs over his shoulders and while fucking me, he would hold the stiletto heels like reins...it was hawwwwwwwwwwt.


Pushing the heel into your slut's mouth as you fuck her is also recommended for hotness.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 8:45:58 AM   
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No chunky heels here.  Stilettos or spikes only.  Way more feminine.


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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 8:50:18 AM   
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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 8:58:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kinkienesss

Ok recently i was discussing shoe  choices with someone and i was wondering what everyone thinks, are thin pointy heels to be reserved for dommes only and slaves and subs left the chunky clunky heels.???

What are your thoughts?



This is entirely my taste, of course, but to me, slaves are better suited barefoot. Provocative and stylish things are more the province of the dominant female in my mind. The only time erotic accessories—like heels or g-strings—make sense is when the female is being purposefully objectified, wearing the items that project male (or female) desire, but even in this, it's very minimal and serves more to accentuate body parts and sweeten fleshly allure.


ETA: I like thin, pointy heels with a high rise.


< Message edited by MarcEsadrian -- 1/29/2010 9:00:24 AM >

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 9:04:30 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I am rather partial to bare feet and my favourite old jeans myself.

But, I don't think the shoe heel makes or breaks the woman.


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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 10:13:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kinkienesss

Ok recently i was discussing shoe  choices with someone and i was wondering what everyone thinks, are thin pointy heels to be reserved for dommes only and slaves and subs left the chunky clunky heels.???

What are your thoughts?



I like thin, pointed heels; they're far more feminine and deadly looking. They double as instruments of torture, too, which I find very convenient. The look and feel of heels is important to me; they are extensions of the foot and accentuate the natural proclivity many men have of fetishizing Women's feet. Sometimes the fetish becomes all about the shoes themselves, so it behooves women to choose these particular instruments of seduction wisely in their ensemble. :-)

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 10:20:49 AM   
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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 10:25:33 AM   
HisSweetElysium


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Status: offline 		 my knees can't really handle the spiky heels anymore, at least, not if I'm expected to be on my feet, LOL.  I go for a more goth style, I looove my big ass 5 inch platform boots with the buckles all over them though, i think they look hot personally and very fetish-esque.  I have about 5 pairs in different heights and buckle combos and I get compliments every time I wear them.  

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 10:26:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kinkienesss

Ok recently i was discussing shoe  choices with someone and i was wondering what everyone thinks, are thin pointy heels to be reserved for dommes only and slaves and subs left the chunky clunky heels.???

What are your thoughts?


For mine, heels are *feminine* and have nothing to do with a Domme or sub persuasion. But I don't like the extreme heights some favour as too many women look gangly and awkward trying to move in them (even if they don't think they do...). Two to 3 inches height is a good compromise of sexy and practical.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 10:27:20 AM   
LadyOddsworth


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Status: offline 		I wear what I like; tonight, tall platform, wide heeled, black patten leather.

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RE: High Heels - 1/29/2010 12:41:36 PM   
shatteredmelody


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Status: offline 		Considering my feet don't fit into most heeled boots/shoes (curse you flat, wide feet!) , I don't wear heels a whole lot. Or when I do, they are very chunky to give extra support to my feet. I'd most certainly fall down in a thin heel.

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