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biron -> Getting letdown (1/29/2010 1:32:14 PM)

It's really rather annoying!
I'm 32 and have a thing for anal.So I bought a strapon because of this.
I've had maybe 5 or 6 people say "oooh!I've always wanted to do that to a man!" and have then said they are up for it.But when it comes down to it they chicken out.
Very annoying indeed![:@]




sunshinemiss -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 1:33:29 PM)

Maybe... get a relationship before ... getting down?




domiguy -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 1:33:49 PM)

Maybe you butthole is extra stanky?




Jeffff -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 1:35:22 PM)

Ya know... I knew that was you when I read it up on top....LOL




LaTigresse -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 1:36:50 PM)

Me too!




CarrieO -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 1:38:56 PM)

Well, after looking at your profile, I get the impression you aren't looking for a relationship...just no-strings strap-on play.

Have to considered a pro domme?  You may have better luck.




LadyPact -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 1:41:44 PM)

If you couldn't walk up to most females, ask them if they wanted to fuck, and get their agreement, why would you think strap on play would be any different?




DesFIP -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 2:34:42 PM)

Just because they've always wanted to do that to a man doesn't mean you are the man they want to do it to.
You want nsa sex, they don't.




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 2:37:30 PM)

"Fuck me in the ass" said the analobsessed masochist."

"NO, said the sadist."

[:D]




Lockit -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 2:39:16 PM)

Well... when someone fails to provide a sexual service for you... there is always the do-it-yourself plan.




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 2:39:19 PM)

Speaking from my perspective, it just isn't as much fun when the man wants fucked more than I do....  j'ust saying.




Lockit -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 2:40:36 PM)

Ohhhh bubbles... pretty, pretty bubbles! Nice Winsome!




Aylee -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 2:41:12 PM)

Maybe you could nail it to the door and just crawl backwards toward it? 




sunshinemiss -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 3:19:53 PM)

To the OP:

You know, this kind of post... it's really a journal entry.




sexyred1 -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 3:25:34 PM)

Getting let down by not finding a chick with a strap on?

OP, in the grad scheme of life, there are worse things to be let down by....perspective is a good thing.




CountrySong -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 3:33:33 PM)

ladyPact - If you couldn't walk up to most females, ask them if they wanted to fuck, and get their agreement, why would you think strap on play would be any different? You mean that does not work! [image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m23.gif[/image] Darn there goes my whole approach! [sm=excuseme.gif]
LOL [sm=rofl.gif]




CountrySong -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 3:35:36 PM)

Aylee - Maybe you could nail it to the door and just crawl backwards toward it? 
Then he could get nailed! (I just could not pass up the PUNishment.) [8|]




Lucienne -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 3:35:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: biron
I've had maybe 5 or 6 people say "oooh!I've always wanted to do that to a man!" and have then said they are up for it.But when it comes down to it they chicken out.



Oh hell... I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and ask you to break this down. Give me a more detailed description of "when it comes down to it." It seems like it could mean anything from them chickening out from showing up for a coffee date to the two of you naked in bed, her working your ass with her finger and deciding she's just not ready to go the full strap-on route. If "when it comes down to it" is closer to the former than the latter than it really is you as a human being, not your ass, that is being rejected. If it's closer to the latter, then I would point out that strapping one on and pumping it up a guy's ass takes a little more thought, preparation and confidence than trying something like, say, being the object of body worship for the first time. The fact that you bought the strap-on prior to locating a woman to use it suggests that you don't present as particularly patient in this regard. Your high expectations and sense of impatience is unlikely to boost the confidence of your (at this point, imaginary) partner.

Yours in Love of Ass Play,

Lucienne




DarkSteven -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 5:18:43 PM)

OP, let's put this in perspective.  You say this has happened to you five or six times.  Is that out of five or six times, and you're batting zero, or is it out of two thousand women?

If it's five or six times out of five or six times, then I wouldn't be titling the thread Getting Let Down.  I would be titling it What the Hell is Wrong with Me?




Aylee -> RE: Getting letdown (1/29/2010 6:33:29 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: CountrySong

Aylee - Maybe you could nail it to the door and just crawl backwards toward it? 
Then he could get nailed! (I just could not pass up the PUNishment.) [8|]


You know me, just trying to find a helpful solution!  [:)]

Besides, didn't they do something similar in that movie, Tokeyo Decadance or something like that? 




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