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AAkasha -> If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/25/2006 10:35:30 AM)

Male subs who are very into dildo play and cock sucking but consider sucking a real dick to be a hard limit, why?

Is it purely for safety reasons, and in your fantasies you do imagine a real man's cock in your mouth as your Mistress commands you to perform?

Or do you not even imagine or fantasize about having a real dick in your mouth?  What if you knew it would turn her on incredibly; would you change your mind? What if it were part of an anonymous but safe situation where you were forced to suck multiple dildos and eventually the real thing?

I am curious why there are many male subs that considering sucking a realistic strap on dick to be the MOST erotic act at all, but when it comes to real cock sucking, they aren't just "not interested" -- they are downright homophobic.  If the cock is only an extension of your Mistress as you worship it, what is the difference, if done safely, of a man's dick in your mouth as she commands your performance?  It is, after all, her dick you are sucking; she made it happen, she put it in place, and she ordered you on your knees to start sucking. 

Akasha



DelightMachine -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/25/2006 10:55:54 AM)

Whenever any Domme asks me to do something that's been a hard limit for me -- or even when I thought about my hard limits long enough -- it starts to be a turn on for me. It's part of the dynamic of submission, for me and for some other people that have said the same thing.

Sucking on a fake dick is probably a step in the process for these submissives, and if they are truly submissive, if their Mistresses put it in their minds that the Mistresses like that, the submissives will probably come around, in time. And as the submissive becomes more submissive, the inhibitions fall away.

If a sub didn't have inhibitions, there wouldn't be any pleasure for the Dommes in overcoming them.



shygirldesires -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/25/2006 11:16:16 AM)

i have another thought.....Akasha.... do some Dominant men ever wonder why his girl loves cock so much he would fantacize about it himself? 

sucking a strap-on, erotic?   LOL



ownedgirlie -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/25/2006 11:23:53 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: shygirldesires

i have another thought.....Akasha.... do some Dominant men ever wonder why his girl loves cock so much he would fantacize about it himself? 

sucking a strap-on, erotic?   LOL


Sucking on anything can be erotic, in the right context.  i wouldn't laugh at something that might be special for someone else.

You pose an interesting question Akasha...i look forward to responses from male submissives.




talltxsub -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/25/2006 12:25:56 PM)

In the right circumstances it would be extremely erotic, and at the same time would demonstrate my submission to her. Sucking him for her? VERY hot.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/25/2006 1:41:19 PM)

I'd say the same reason that I adore fantasizing about being put in a medical lab, raped and forced to breed...but would not at all want to actually go through with it.

And also to say- a dildo isn't a man's cock.  The same reason that lesbians can enjoy dildos but have no interest in actually having a man with a cock in front of them.  They are simply two different dynamics and situations.



MHOO314 -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/25/2006 1:44:41 PM)

Because they don't come in yummy flavors, like chocolate?



subrob1967 -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/25/2006 6:08:06 PM)

1)A dildo can't cum
2) A Domme with a strap on is still a female, and not male
3) It has nothing to do with homophobia, I have several gay friends, but I wouldn't suck their dicks.
4) I'm just repulsed by the thought of submitting to a man, and asking me to suck cock is asking me to submit to a man, IMO



littlesarbonn -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/25/2006 6:48:58 PM)

A dildo does not = the personality of another male in the room at the same time. I'm not a real fan of dildos but when they've been used in a scene or session, I've NEVER fantasized or even imagined there was another guy attached to that thing.



Urza -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/26/2006 1:22:56 PM)

It's a really good play on gender, sucking a dildo is an amazing turn on for me.

I guess it's a control thing that a Female can if they wanted use a cock but us men can't have a vagina, i find it humiliating also and if a Mistress told me to suck her cock, i would be there in a second flat, i guess it's because i'm being told to do it. However if a Mistress told me to suck a male dick well it's weird thinking about it because you're actually bringing a man to climax and phychologically that's seen as a gay or bi thing to do. But hey personally if a Mistress told me to suck a guys dick, provided it had a condom over it i'd make him cum harder than he ever did before.




Cloudz -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/26/2006 5:26:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DelightMachine

Whenever any Domme asks me to do something that's been a hard limit for me -- or even when I thought about my hard limits long enough -- it starts to be a turn on for me. It's part of the dynamic of submission, for me and for some other people that have said the same thing.

Sucking on a fake dick is probably a step in the process for these submissives, and if they are truly submissive, if their Mistresses put it in their minds that the Mistresses like that, the submissives will probably come around, in time. And as the submissive becomes more submissive, the inhibitions fall away.

If a sub didn't have inhibitions, there wouldn't be any pleasure for the Dommes in overcoming them.


Very well stated.



Cloudz -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/26/2006 5:35:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: talltxsub

In the right circumstances it would be extremely erotic, and at the same time would demonstrate my submission to her. Sucking him for her? VERY hot.


Speaking only for myself...yea...it is HOT...VERY VERY HOT



TeeGO -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/28/2006 3:19:50 AM)

It's not the same thing.  I'm not interested in sucking on a dildo, but it's not a limit.  But forced Bi is a hard limit.  Your asking why I don't like apples if I like oranges.



Jasmyn -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/28/2006 4:36:40 AM)

Nicely said dm ;)



johat -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/28/2006 4:43:21 AM)

i seek a size queen. if she forced me to suck huge cocks, in the proper enviroment, she's on my xmas list



Fawne -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/28/2006 8:24:31 AM)

I don't know exactly, because I am a female slave to a male master.
 
But: I'd get a kick out of saying "Suck my dick, bitch" to a guy.  [sm=evil.gif]
 
Trivia.... but I'd imagine it is different. Mistress' cock is different. Hers alone. Not some strange dude's. <giggle>
 
love, fawne



Fawne -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/28/2006 8:33:01 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Urza
I guess it's a control thing that a Female can if they wanted use a cock but us men can't have a vagina.

 
Well... you do have at least one soft, tender, vulnerable entrance that can be penetrated and f*cked, correct?
 
smile, fawne



sultryvoice -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/29/2006 1:12:47 PM)

I love to see men suck other men's cocks. I saw quite a bit of it this past weekend. No matter who or where, it's a huge turn on for me. They can be straight, bi or gay..It doesn't matter at all to me..

Respectfully,
sultry



unownedredhead -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/29/2006 1:39:13 PM)

Sucking a dildo or watching someone else suck a dildo does nothing for me.  But, wave a real dick at me and I get that deep down ache and want to suck it like an all day sucker.  Especially if it is a big one, and eye bugging oh, my god I am going to die if I don't get to touch it.....big one.



iwearpanties -> RE: If you're going to suck my dick, why stop there? (3/31/2006 4:12:24 AM)

well my turn at this i am a sub male and yes its a humiliation and a embrassment  but also very exciting too be forecd too sux either a dildo or the real things  . this type of submission i think has a lot too do with mind f**king or roleplaying in the submisves head . weather its forced or not  i know many a cd / sissy type male its crossed there minds toobe made too sumitt too a male cock and i think the a strap on is for trainning him/ her too get them ready for the real thing weather it happens or not .  so the fantsizes and roleplay as wellas mind games these i think go hand and hand ?????? i admitt as a sub / into wearing females things bras and panties and such the idea of forced realy is the sub feeling  he not doing it on his own  but being made so the thgotush of doing it are of pleaseing that DOm or Domme  hope i said this so you understand . and yes i have had too dress in fme and did the deed of suxing



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