CallaFirestormBW
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What do you guys think? What is the "norm" when it comes to Master/slave? Is the "too serious" line a bunch of BS? ~fast reply~ The thing is, for the guy you were talking to, the "too serious" line is absolutely NOT a bunch of BS... but for you, maybe it -is- BS. The thing is, there really -is- no "norm". Heck, we can't even decide which things fit into BDSM and which things fit into D/s, and where lines cross... or even if there -are- any lines! The important thing is for you to not settle... hold out for the relationship that allows you to fulfill -your- nature, and which, concomitantly, allows your Master to fulfill hir nature. Yes, it's going to take a while -- but if you're clear about who you are and what you want, and you stick to relationships that are going to nurture both parties by allowing you to both be who you are, it will be worth the time. Calla
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*** Said to me recently: "Look, I know you're the "voice of reason"... but dammit, I LIKE being unreasonable!!!!" "Your mind is more interested in the challenge of becoming than the challenge of doing." Jon Benson, Bodybuilder/Trainer
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