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LaTigresse -> RE: What turns you off about bdsm? (2/1/2010 4:12:52 AM)
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ORIGINAL: winterlight
Is there anything that you cannot stand in regards to it as far as play, people or anything else?
There is nothing specific about BDSM that turns me off.
To explain.......I kind of look at BDSM as a buffet. There may be some dishes I have no interest in having. Some dishes I don't even want to watch someone else have. Some dishes I am sure I will want in the future but not right now. Some dishes I've tried and were just not worth the caloric intake. A few dishes that will usually draw me to them every single time. A few I will want if they are presented just perfectly. And so on.
Just as with BDSM, I would not like a buffet where I was expected to have some of everything, or even accept that others will have a few things. Sorry but cooked spinach is just sick and wrong no matter what![:D] Yet, silly bitch that I am, will chop up fresh spinach and put it in my favourite pho, or mix it in the cheeses of some italian dishes I love.
I will not even want to go to the buffet every time I am hungry. Perhaps a yummy pork T sandwich and fries will do the trick perfectly.
It's my buffet, my choices, my timing. Everyone else can visit when ever, where ever, have what ever. They should not expect me to agree with all of their choices just as I don't expect them to agree with mine. They don't have to watch me eat a bloody rare steak and I won't demand they find it morally right. Just as they better not expect me to agree with their eating a big nasty pile of steamed spinach.
There is a VERY good chance, I will not want a large number of fellow buffet goings as dining partners. A good chance I don't even want to be in the same dining room. I accept that quite a few will feel the same about me. Just because we all enjoy visiting the same buffet does not make us family........just some people that all like the buffet and what it offers.
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