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RE: Responsibility...who does what? - 3/26/2006 10:50:31 AM

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In your relationship ( D/s, s/D, M/s, s/M) what do YOU assume responsibility for the most--note I didn't ask who but what.

In my relationships I am responsible for planning and time management. Basically setting up dates, communicating events, keeping everyone on track with traveling and get-togethers, from the day to day gym schedule to big weekend conventions.

As well, pretty much being the poly mentor/leader for my partners who are in their first poly situation. They look to me as their example.

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RE: Responsibility...who does what? - 3/26/2006 1:14:14 PM

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AND all the research at which I marvel how good you are!

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RE: Responsibility...who does what? - 3/26/2006 1:59:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: MHOO314
In your relationship ( D/s, s/D, M/s, s/M) what do YOU assume responsibility for the most--note I didn't ask who but what.

For my health, my job, my family/friendships, and my basic living necessities.

*After* that comes Sir and our dynamic. And, it is Sir's wishes that it be that way.

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RE: Responsibility...who does what? - 3/26/2006 2:02:57 PM

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Yes, My slave will be responsible for many things... for instance, cleaning the kitchen after meals. But it's My responsibility to see that he *does* it. He'll be responsible for making sure we don't run out of milk, or bread or (God forbid!) meat <LOL> or the car run out of gas. But if we do run out of (whatever), yes, it's his fault for letting it happen, but Mine for not 1) checking in with him to make sure he was paying attention, as well as 2) training him properly to be on top of things.

In my relationship, that doesn't work.

It's *my* responsibility to make sure I do the things I'm supposed to do. It's not Sir's responsibility to check up after me, especially on the more mundane/regular duties.

It's his responsibility to point out to me if I'm not doing it to his satisfaction - but it's mine to make sure it gets *done*.

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RE: Responsibility...who does what? - 3/26/2006 2:13:38 PM

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I am responsible for me. What else is there? Sure I keep the freezer full and the fridge. . . but ultimitlly I am responsible to myself. BTW I am doing a terrible job at it. Not that either are empty.

How does one cry "help"?

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RE: Responsibility...who does what? - 3/26/2006 2:15:05 PM

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i am responsible for keeping him aprised of my frame of mind at all times - of every thought, feeling, consideration, joy, fear, and concern that passes through me. For obeying and following his word. And accepting such word and all decisions, like 'em or hate 'em. For "staying in place." For taking care of his property. For knowing him - his likes, dislikes, preferences, etc., and conforming to them. For adoring him and behaving as such. For serving in any way required. For anticipating his needs and desires and working toward pleasing him by meeting these desires.

He accepts responsibility for leading my growth and development and training, and for making informed decisions according to his desires and my best interest & well being.

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RE: Responsibility...who does what? - 3/26/2006 2:18:44 PM

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<smiles> you T/two have your acts together, that's for sure.

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RE: Responsibility...who does what? - 3/26/2006 2:21:42 PM

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~ smiles back ~

Oh trust me, we do have our "moments." LOL Typically those occur when i do not fulfill all or part of my responsibility as stated above