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How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 1/31/2010 8:49:24 PM

curiousdeviant

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My vanilla GF and my vanilla self recently had a discussion about various fantasies we each have. One of hers is what she described as a rape fantasy. We discussed in detail, and she understands that this type of fantasy is one you can never truly fulfill in some sense, however I would like to fulfill it as best I can.

I'm sure some female subs here have had similar fantasies, and I was wondering if you would be willing to share with me some of the best things your partners have done to try to satisfy your desires to feel "taken".

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 1/31/2010 8:56:57 PM

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Hi, I have done this numerous times with my partners. It all depends on the details of your fantasy; how much you can recreate it. The imagination is really the most erotic organ when it comes to these things, but I will tell you what I did the first time I did this in college.

We got a room at a seedy motel. I pretended to be a woman on business who drove all night and found this one place. I was really tired so I went to get a drink at a bar and then went right back to the room.

I am sleeping and all of a sudden, a hand is on top of my mouth and a knife is at my neck. It is pitch black. I start to scream and he says, shut the fuck up bitch; I saw you tonight flashing your tits at the bar, Miss Businesswoman and now, you are going to get raped in all your holes.

I attempt to fight and he whips out some handcuffs, rope and manages to tie me down, rip my nightgown off and have his way with for hours.

I pass out and wake up in the morning and he is gone.

Of course, my boyfriend was there all along, but the mindfuck really worked well.

Other times more recently, my guy just knocks on my door and pushes hi way in and with no words, just takes me however he wants with no thought to what I want (but of course I love it).

So that kind of stuff. Have fun and be safe.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 1/31/2010 9:05:36 PM

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Mmm, rapeplay is one of my favorites. Most recently, I was driving to meet him and he texted me when I was about 15 minutes away and said, "leave the dog in the car, come in and put your keys down, don't turn on the light." We hadn't talked about it ahead of time, although he had told me to wear something I didn't plan to ever wear again.

I walked in and it was completely dark inside. I put my keys down and then he grabbed me from behind. I fought back (did a little property damage--oops), but pretty quickly, he overpowered me and had me tied up and gagged. He played it like we were at my house and he was an intruder who had been hiding and waiting for me.

As sexyred said, be safe. Also, it's easy to overlook property damage that can happen, but think ahead of time about moving delicate items out of the way, etc., keeping in mind that you can't completely predict how she will react and how/where her limbs might flail, etc.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 1/31/2010 9:11:05 PM

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Yes, lucy is right; especially in the motel, crappy as it was, lol.

I think we knocked over a lamp but we did not break it.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 1/31/2010 9:32:37 PM

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We discussed in detail, and she understands that this type of fantasy is one you can never truly fulfill in some sense, however I would like to fulfill it as best I can.

Rape her with half your dick?

Seriously, this is a all or none issue.

From a Dominant's point of view you've got to go for it. You can be careful beforehand to get the conditions right, but if you switch off and get all 'considerate' in the act, the moment is gone.

Established trust is the key. Then deliver the goods. With a mask on.

Back to lurid subbie exploits.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 1/31/2010 9:53:22 PM

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Who would want half a dick?? Ruins the whole rape thing if it doesn't hurt...a little.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 4:27:38 AM

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Did she say she wants it fulfilled? Because you need to understand that for most of us fantasies are just that, things to be titillated about in thought but not to be lived out.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 5:59:27 AM

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ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

From a Dominant's point of view you've got to go for it. You can be careful beforehand to get the conditions right, but if you switch off and get all 'considerate' in the act, the moment is gone.

What EW said is absolutely crucial. Do all your prep ahead of time--have the delicate lamps, etc. moved out of harm's way, have your ropes and other restraints and whatever toys you want to use ready--and then once the attack starts, you're raping her and you don't care about her cries or the lamps going crash. From what my owner has said, it's a particular mindset you have to get into and you can't be "kind of in it," you have to be completely in it.

As the "victim," I have to feel that my needs/desires don't matter and aren't being considered.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 8:38:03 AM

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If she identifies as vanilla, even if she wants to roleplay the fantasy, having it actually hurt might go beyond her boundaries (or just not work for her in reality). I agree with DesFIP that she might enjoy the fantasy but not actually want to do it. If she does want to, make sure you discuss safewords with her ahead of time. You can also test the waters by being a little rough with her, adding some fantasy elements to regular sex with her, and so forth.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 8:40:14 AM

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Did she say she wants it fulfilled? Because you need to understand that for most of us fantasies are just that, things to be titillated about in thought but not to be lived out.

No, SHE did not say a thing; he did, on their behalf, it seems. He said he wanted to try and fulfill it safely for both of them. So I did my small part in relating what I did to fulfill my own fantasy and it went perfectly.

Of course, some fantasies are just that, but that was not the question from the OP, was it?

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 8:53:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Did she say she wants it fulfilled? Because you need to understand that for most of us fantasies are just that, things to be titillated about in thought but not to be lived out.

I understand what you are saying.

My response was predicated on the unknown fact that it is something they both want and have agreed to.

If she is just conversing about fantasies at this point, then yes, there are more steps to take. And it may just be intended to remain a fantasy for her.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 9:34:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: EbonyWood

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Did she say she wants it fulfilled? Because you need to understand that for most of us fantasies are just that, things to be titillated about in thought but not to be lived out.

I understand what you are saying.

My response was predicated on the unknown fact that it is something they both want and have agreed to.

If she is just conversing about fantasies at this point, then yes, there are more steps to take. And it may just be intended to remain a fantasy for her.

Yep, best to make sure its a fantasy she wants to have fulfilled and not just a 'ooo that sounds hot' sort of scenario.

I had a boyfriend I told about my rape fantasy. He tried to fulfill 'my fantasy' AFTER we broke up.....

PS - notarized consent in triplicate with a video of her confessing her desire to be raped helps too (teasing)

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 9:55:55 AM

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How would I go about it?

Test the waters, tell her your ideas while you're fucking her, then maybe a while later, bring up the subject: "you know that scene I was talking about that made you squirt? Would you like it to actually happen?"

Should give you a good start. The excellent and inventive posts above should give you all the pointers for continuation and fulfilment.

I'm bookmarking the thread, for sure

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 11:40:02 AM

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Well i have personally not ever done this but i heard of one sub wanted to do it. Her Master scared the crap out of her, went to to her house and hid in her closet. She want to hang something up and he grabbed her. She did not know it was him he had a mask on. After thing were over he took off the mask and let her see it was him. The relatonnship did not last long after that.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 11:46:50 AM

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Well i have personally not ever done this but i heard of one sub wanted to do it. Her Master scared the crap out of her, went to to her house and hid in her closet. She want to hang something up and he grabbed her. She did not know it was him he had a mask on. After thing were over he took off the mask and let her see it was him. The relatonnship did not last long after that.

Matt's littleone

Yep, thats nonconsensual, LO, and has no place in society, let alone WIITWD. I hope she was ok.

It would have been good at the time if he could have faced some consequences.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 11:54:04 AM

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i am not vanilla and when i was young i thought i wanted to try it. It lasted about one minute before i called it off. That was over twenty years ago and it still makes me shutter.

Be careful, it could backfire on you and she could end up with her not wanting you to touch her anymore or worse; she could get so mad at you one day and turn you in for rape. It's been known to happen.

Maybe you should start off slow and not set up an elaborate scene and see how it goes.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 12:49:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: ForeverOwned

i am not vanilla and when i was young i thought i wanted to try it. It lasted about one minute before i called it off. That was over twenty years ago and it still makes me shutter.

Be careful, it could backfire on you and she could end up with her not wanting you to touch her anymore or worse; she could get so mad at you one day and turn you in for rape. It's been known to happen.

Maybe you should start off slow and not set up an elaborate scene and see how it goes.

Can you imagine how short the scene would have gone if the girl was slender?....Probably less than ten or twelve seconds.

Now addressing your other ridiculous point. It's a rather dumb statement.

Everything sexually that you do with someone could backfire in your face if the chick is not right in the noggin'.....Totally consentual good ol' vanilla sex could lead to a rape charge if the chica ain't all that mentally sound. Want to add in a whip, flogger or some good ol' vaginal tearing, that the old folks used to love so much, and you could potentially have a recipe for disaster and incarceration if you be bangin' away at your grey matter impaired peeps.

My advice is to rape away. You got a woman that ain't gonna run to the heat or her burly brothers then fuck that bitch hard. Be sure to tape it.

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That is why we have devloped the "Domiguy Rapeapalooooza fun pack" It not only provides a hidden camera but superior sound quality so you can capture all the subtle consentual nuances of your rapeplay which, when introduced in court, will go along way to keep you on the highway and convicts out of your dirt road.

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Have fun!!!

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 4:14:40 PM

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give her a safe word. that way you can go for it, knowing that she knows she has an 'out' means you can make it as realistic as you feel she wants without worrying if youre going too far.

by the same token she can 'relax' knowing that she has some control over the situation. now she may well not like the idea of that, but just give her the safe word anyway. Red is the usual one. impress upon her that if she screams 'stop' or 'get the fuck of me' that wont work. but if she shouts 'red' youll stop.

it just gives you way more freedom to enjoy.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 5:07:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Did she say she wants it fulfilled? Because you need to understand that for most of us fantasies are just that, things to be titillated about in thought but not to be lived out.

No, SHE did not say a thing; he did, on their behalf, it seems. He said he wanted to try and fulfill it safely for both of them. So I did my small part in relating what I did to fulfill my own fantasy and it went perfectly.

Of course, some fantasies are just that, but that was not the question from the OP, was it?

True Red. But if it turns out she didn't want this one acted out, he could find himself in jail for doing so unconsensually. Many people believe that any fantasy someone has is one they want to do. Too often this isn't the case.

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RE: How do I entertain my vanilla GF's rape fantasy? - 2/1/2010 9:18:12 PM

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Whether she actually wants to act it out isn't the only issue - the other thing that you have to ask her is what kind of rape fantasy she wants. Rape fantasies are something like the second most common female fantasy, and that's a lot of women, with a lot of different psychological and sexual desires.

Personally, I've never gone for the sudden, surprising, violent rape fantasies, but I absolutely adore the idea of being "taken" - despite my struggling and begging - by a man who is stronger than me and who promises he won't hurt me if I do exactly what I'm told. Your girlfriend, as you declared, is vanilla, and as such may not find pain or humiliation particularly pleasurable. She's not a sub who is used to being obedient, and is not a masochist, who is used to being hurt. She may more or less be imagining a rape fantasy as being forcibly dominated.

So really, what you have to do is ask her. Get the basic details out of her (how she imagines her attacker acting before and during, how she imagines him reacting if she struggles or resists, etc) and then find ways to surprise her without going too far over the line. Because the thing is, all of us can tell you what our rape fantasies are, and give you ideas (and I hope everyone does, because I want ideas for my own rape fantasies

) but the important person here is your girlfriend, since it's her fantasy.

Ok, now that I've gotten that out of the way... my personal advice is to physically overpower her, and then laugh mockingly and tell her how easy it was to do. Then, while jerking her arms above her head (or grabbing a fistful of her hair and yanking her down to the ground), tell her how completely helpless she is to stop you from doing whatever you want with her, all night long. Then, while you fuck her every which way in every room of the house, keep a running dialogue of how helpless she is and emphasize it with little physical movements that keep her off-balance and feeling physically weaker than you. I know it sounds really mild, but the psychology of it is very likely what she's fantasized about. Plus, a running dialogue (with you forcing her to respond) will help you keep tabs on how she's doing (what she enjoys, what she doesn't, what scares her, etc). Good luck!

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