Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

A Question about clothes,


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> A Question about clothes, Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 8:03:56 PM   
ValkeryieLover


Posts: 1
Joined: 11/13/2009
Status: offline 		Hello all,  Recently  I was turned away from a alternative club for not fitting the clothing profile. Normally i wouldn't give a damm what people think of how I dress. However I do want to get in the club and think it might be beneficial to find out What clothes are typically considered Dominant per say.
Profile   Post #: 1
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 8:25:41 PM   
HisFlame


Posts: 10
Joined: 12/1/2009
Status: offline 		Black shirt, black slacks and black boots or dress shoes are usually a safe bet and most men usually have those in their closet

(in reply to ValkeryieLover)
Profile   Post #: 2
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 8:26:28 PM   
Aylee


Posts: 24103
Joined: 10/14/2007
Status: offline 		Do you have a link to the clothing profile of the club?  Or can you explain what it is? 

Other than that, black seems to be rather popular.

_____________________________

Ceterum censeo Carthaginem esse delendam

I don’t always wgah’nagl fhtagn. But when I do, I ph’nglui mglw’nafh R’lyeh.

(in reply to ValkeryieLover)
Profile   Post #: 3
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 8:55:04 PM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline 		Sheesh.  We don't know what the club's dress policy is.  Call the club and ask!

_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

(in reply to Aylee)
Profile   Post #: 4
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 9:08:42 PM   
CalifChick


Posts: 10717
Joined: 10/28/2007
From: California
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ValkeryieLover

What clothes are typically considered Dominant per say.


What clothes are dominant?  The ones that command "kneel bitch"?

Cali


_____________________________

AKA "The Undisputed Goddess of Sarcasm", "Big Bad Cali" and "Yum Bum". Advisor to the Subbie Mafia, founding member of the W.A.C. and the Judgmental Bitches Brigade, member of the Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's and Team Troll

(in reply to ValkeryieLover)
Profile   Post #: 5
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 9:11:53 PM   
sexyred1


Posts: 8998
Joined: 8/9/2007
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ValkeryieLover

Hello all,  Recently  I was turned away from a alternative club for not fitting the clothing profile. Normally i wouldn't give a damm what people think of how I dress. However I do want to get in the club and think it might be beneficial to find out What clothes are typically considered Dominant per say.


I love your screename. You could go dressed as Thor; he was quite Dominant. But the bouncer may not be into Wagner. :)

(in reply to ValkeryieLover)
Profile   Post #: 6
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 9:14:28 PM   
DarkSteven


Posts: 28072
Joined: 5/2/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

quote:

ORIGINAL: ValkeryieLover

What clothes are typically considered Dominant per say.


What clothes are dominant?  The ones that command "kneel bitch"?

Cali



I'm not sure what the right answer is, but I have found that Hello Kitty doesn't quite fill the bill. 


_____________________________

"You women....

The small-breasted ones want larger breasts. The large-breasted ones want smaller ones. The straight-haired ones curl their hair, and the curly-haired ones straighten theirs...

Quit fretting. We men love you."

(in reply to CalifChick)
Profile   Post #: 7
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 9:18:34 PM   
CalifChick


Posts: 10717
Joined: 10/28/2007
From: California
Status: offline 		Perhaps not, but a nice fedora may do the trick.

Cali


_____________________________

AKA "The Undisputed Goddess of Sarcasm", "Big Bad Cali" and "Yum Bum". Advisor to the Subbie Mafia, founding member of the W.A.C. and the Judgmental Bitches Brigade, member of the Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair-a's and Team Troll

(in reply to DarkSteven)
Profile   Post #: 8
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 9:21:01 PM   
WestBaySlave


Posts: 501
Joined: 9/24/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: CalifChick

quote:

ORIGINAL: ValkeryieLover

What clothes are typically considered Dominant per say.


What clothes are dominant?  The ones that command "kneel bitch"?

Cali



I'm not sure what the right answer is, but I have found that Hello Kitty doesn't quite fill the bill. 



You be wrong about that.

(in reply to DarkSteven)
Profile   Post #: 9
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 9:27:09 PM   
peppermint


Posts: 5169
Joined: 10/18/2005
From: Montana
Status: offline 		You need to talk to someone at the club where you wish to go and find out what THEIR dress code is.  

(in reply to ValkeryieLover)
Profile   Post #: 10
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 11:00:44 PM   
Aileen1968


Posts: 6062
Joined: 12/12/2007
From: I miss Shore, New Jersey
Status: offline 		Hawaiian shirts. All true dominants own Hawaiian shirts in bright tropical colors. They are never turned away.

_____________________________



(in reply to ValkeryieLover)
Profile   Post #: 11
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 11:28:10 PM   
LanceHughes


Posts: 4737
Joined: 2/12/2004
Status: offline 		Zero words.  Just an arrow...






<-----------

_____________________________

"Train 'em the right way - my way." Lance Hughes
"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer, but wish we didn't." Erica Jong

10 fluffy points
50 nz points

Member: VAA's posse

(in reply to Aileen1968)
Profile   Post #: 12
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 11:29:20 PM   
pyroaquatic


Posts: 1535
Joined: 12/4/2006
From: Pyroaquatica
Status: offline 		what are these articles you speak of?

_____________________________

You are what your deep, driving desire is.
As your desire is, so is your will.
As your will is, so is your deed.
As your deed is, so is your destiny.
-Brihadaranyaka Upanishad IV.4.5

(in reply to ValkeryieLover)
Profile   Post #: 13
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 11:31:25 PM   
LanceHughes


Posts: 4737
Joined: 2/12/2004
Status: offline 		It would help to know what was rejected.

_____________________________

"Train 'em the right way - my way." Lance Hughes
"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer, but wish we didn't." Erica Jong

10 fluffy points
50 nz points

Member: VAA's posse

(in reply to pyroaquatic)
Profile   Post #: 14
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/1/2010 11:42:20 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

Zero words.  Just an arrow...






<-----------

I'll second that arrow, and I'll raise you a skirt.  <wink>

OP, every public BDSM club these days has a website.  This is a clear case of you didn't do your research.  Many clubs don't allow what is termed 'street clothes'.  (Fuck, I just dated Myself.)  In other words, if you look like you just wandered into the club from off of the street, and were a lookie loo kind of person, you're not getting in.  Some things that I have seen rejected at the door include flip flops, khaki shorts, cut offs (on males), cruddy t-shirts, and so on.

Clubs have a dress code for a reason.  It is to promote atmosphere for the attendees.  Next time, take a look at the website for the establishment before you go.



BTW, why was this posted in the submissive forum?


_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to LanceHughes)
Profile   Post #: 15
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/2/2010 12:06:20 AM   
myotherself


Posts: 7157
Joined: 3/9/2006
From: The cold bit of the UK
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact



BTW, why was this posted in the submissive forum?



cos we subs know everything?

_____________________________

There's nowt so queer as folk


(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 16
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/2/2010 12:25:04 AM   
WyldHrt


Posts: 6412
Joined: 6/5/2008
Status: offline
quote:

cos we subs know everything?

Hope you aren't within reach of her dragon's tongue, Myo!


_____________________________

"MotherFUCKER!" is NOT a safeword!!"- Steel
"We've had complaints about 'orgy noises'. This is not the neighborhood for that kind of thing"- PVE Cop

Resident "Hypnotic Eyes", "Cleavage" and "Toy Whore"
Subby Mafia, VAA Posse & Team Troll!

(in reply to myotherself)
Profile   Post #: 17
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/2/2010 12:28:18 AM   
antipode


Posts: 1787
Joined: 4/19/2004
Status: offline
quote:

I was turned away from a alternative club


I doubt it. I find it very you were right there and weren't told what was wrong. You probably have to be 21 to enter.

(in reply to ValkeryieLover)
Profile   Post #: 18
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/2/2010 1:07:09 AM   
ForeverOwned


Posts: 269
Joined: 2/5/2008
Status: offline 		We, have only one club here that i know of that has a strict dress code. We don't go, because it is filled with wanna be's and never was.

We, try to go to the places where the people are down to earth and everything is relaxed.

(in reply to antipode)
Profile   Post #: 19
RE: A Question about clothes, - 2/2/2010 6:44:17 AM   
LanceHughes


Posts: 4737
Joined: 2/12/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: antipode

quote:

I was turned away from a alternative club


I doubt it. I find it very you were right there and weren't told what was wrong. You probably have to be 21 to enter.



BINGO!

Yes, when you say "alternate club," I bet you mean "BAR catering to the goth, etc. community."

"Dress codes" are not legal in Colorado....... wannabes ruined some of the best Leather Bars in Denver by forcing the issue.  Use ta' was - the general populace was afeared of even entering because of the rep of the bar (which was enhanced by doorman enforcing the dress code.)

END OF THREAD!
 
P.S.  Yeah.... why  is this in sub forum?  If you want to know "How to distinguish a Dom from a sub by clothing," start a diferrent thread, maybe in BDSM General.

< Message edited by LanceHughes -- 2/2/2010 6:46:18 AM >

_____________________________

"Train 'em the right way - my way." Lance Hughes
"Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer, but wish we didn't." Erica Jong

10 fluffy points
50 nz points

Member: VAA's posse

(in reply to antipode)
Profile   Post #: 20
Page:   [1] 2   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Submissive >> A Question about clothes, Page: [1] 2   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.078