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what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 3:05:34 AM   
kendrapain


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Status: offline 		what should a mistress do when a slave begs for hard core punishment
when in fact that slave know he does not have tolerance to take that type of session
what happen to all the real slaves ?
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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 3:17:48 AM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		I dont think I'm understanding your post fully, can you explain more...

This is what I think it means so far.

There is a slave, they are begging their Master or Mistress for some "intense sensation" yet at the same time the slave knows he cant handle what he is asking for?
I dont get the part where you say " what happens to all the real slaves" what does that mean?

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 3:39:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kendrapain

what should a mistress do when a slave begs for hard core punishment
when in fact that slave know he does not have tolerance to take that type of session
what happen to all the real slaves ?


You are the Mistress, he is the slave?    He is begging for something you are not willing to give?  Then the answer "No" comes to mind, or, "I will take your request under consideration and you are not to mention it again"

As the Mistress, his well being is your prime concern.

You ask what happened to all the real slaves, in the north american cultural history what can be considered as "real" slavery was abolished and rightly so, so in answer to your question, the real slaves were given their freedom.

In the BDSM context, the gap between the fantasy of consensual slavery and the actuality of being one can be something the people aspiring to slavery fail to grasp.

People with what I call a slave heart are rare, people with an idealized fantasy of what it is are many.

It is up to you to be willing to take the time and effort to seperate the wheat from the chaff.

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 3:47:14 AM   
WomenOwner


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Status: offline 		Nothing happened to them. They still exist. Many are not members of this website with its majority of fakers,both male and female who pretend to be something they are not. It is easy for them to hide behind the anonimity of the internet and play mindgames. What few people do exist on this website or often rejected by women and men like ourselves because we fail to recognise they are genuine.

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 3:50:38 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kendrapain

what should a mistress do when a slave begs for hard core punishment
when in fact that slave know he does not have tolerance to take that type of session
what happen to all the real slaves ?


i get the impression you are willing but do not want to hurt your slave.  if that is the case why not just use lighter toys that make a lot of noise, or take him to the point where he begs you to stop then give him a ciouple more to make your point and show him that he cannot take it.  it would serve to give him respect for your opinion and judgement.

Lots of real slaves, it not so much whats real its moreso finding someone who matches you.

good luck
r1


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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 4:07:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kendrapain

what should a mistress do when a slave begs for hard core punishment
when in fact that slave know he does not have tolerance to take that type of session
what happen to all the real slaves ?


There are some real sub/slaves still out here ! Although his wellbeing is your concern M'am  if he is begging you for pain perhaps you could still carry out the task but meter it at "your" discretion
Of course letting him "think" he will be getting "hardcore" punishment .. 

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 4:15:18 AM   
kendrapain


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Status: offline 		dont get me wrong I will give my slave what i know he can take .
what i mean is there are slaves that ask for things they know they cant handle
understand i am a pro domme so when a slave ask for a stren mistress who is hard core they buckle up in fear
now dont get me wrong i love the look of fear on a mans face when i step in the room but you must know what you are getting your self into when the time comes

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 4:19:31 AM   
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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 4:20:04 AM   
kendrapain


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Status: offline 		I hear you it takes away the true meaning of punishment if you are calling mercy every time you hear the sound of the whip

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 4:21:47 AM   
slavejali


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Status: offline 		kendrapain: yes the fantasy and ideal can be very different than the reality.

It used to amuse me a bit going into chatrooms and watching the online scening, people being hit with all kindsa things..yet I wondered if they really knew...having your legs spread apart and having your cunt caned...........really hurts *grin*

People are going to have fantasies but if they are really serious about playing them out  they just have to be sensible enough to put those fantasies into the hands of someone who has experience and can take them safely towards them.

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 4:27:12 AM   
kendrapain


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Status: offline 		you are so right ,thats why i have started a new thing with my slave he knows that when he ask for mercy
he gets more and when he ask for more he gets nothing at all

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 4:28:44 AM   
dave1212


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ORIGINAL: kendrapain

dont get me wrong I will give my slave what i know he can take .
what i mean is there are slaves that ask for things they know they cant handle
understand i am a pro domme so when a slave ask for a stren mistress who is hard core they buckle up in fear
now dont get me wrong i love the look of fear on a mans face when i step in the room but you must know what you are getting your self into when the time comes


Well M'am subs and slaves will at times unfortunately beg for something that they cannot handle usually in eagerness to please thier Mistress/Domme  without actually thinking about the consequences perhap's this should be explained in detail to him ?

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 4:32:35 AM   
kendrapain


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Status: offline 		that is true but if you know your place then you know that the punishment you know you need is going to be given to you the right way from your mistress you know just what it is you are getting your self into

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 4:39:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		The Dominant is ultimately responsible for the care both mentally and physically of the slave / submissive. One might slowly bring them up as an intro to such rather than starting right there. Build ups mentally and physically work well to the end result.

I refrain from labeling anything "true".

Sometimes one's eyes and imagination / fantasies are bigger than real applications.

The Dominant's responsibility is to bring the fantasy and real together safely.

It is all about awareness and perception and a matter of benchmarking them.


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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 4:56:48 AM   
IronBear


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ORIGINAL: kendrapain

what should a mistress do when a slave begs for hard core punishment
when in fact that slave know he does not have tolerance to take that type of session
what happen to all the real slaves ?

 
Kindly define "REAL SLAVE" for me.

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 5:11:48 AM   
journeyslave


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ORIGINAL: kendrapain

dont get me wrong I will give my slave what i know he can take .
what i mean is there are slaves that ask for things they know they cant handle

Maybe they are looking to grow??????
Peace,
cathy

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 5:16:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: kendrapain

what should a mistress do when a slave begs for hard core punishment
when in fact that slave know he does not have tolerance to take that type of session
what happen to all the real slaves ?


Why does the fact that he cannot take "that kind of pain" not make him a real slave?
 
I agree with IronBear---define "real slave" and why this one is not real because he seeks something he cannot handle?

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 5:28:13 AM   
Real0ne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kendrapain
dont get me wrong I will give my slave what i know he can take .
what i mean is there are slaves that ask for things they know they cant handle
understand i am a pro domme so when a slave ask for a stren mistress who is hard core they buckle up in fear

now you did not say this was from a pro venue, that changes things considerably.
the dude might be married with children and cant go home to his wife with marks and a host of other variations could change your approach to be different than a lifestyle arrangement.


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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 6:59:25 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: kendrapain

dont get me wrong I will give my slave what i know he can take .
what i mean is there are slaves that ask for things they know they cant handle
understand i am a pro domme so when a slave ask for a stren mistress who is hard core they buckle up in fear
now dont get me wrong i love the look of fear on a mans face when i step in the room but you must know what you are getting your self into when the time comes


What does this have to do with "being a real slave" -- whatever the heck a "real slave" is?

Sounds more like a masochist to me or someone with a fantasy.

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RE: what happen to all the real slaves - 3/26/2006 7:26:10 AM   
MrDiscipline44


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Status: offline 		If you're a "Pro-Domme" then give the bastard what he pays for. Hell, he is paying you to beat him, not coddle him. He wants a "hardcore" session then give him a "hardcore" session and quit bullshitting.

But if he's not paying you then thats a different story. If he is actually yours, if you have actually enslaved him then he does as you say, you don't do as he begs. If he wants a "hardcore" session so bad, make his ass earn it. When he does, then you give him his reward. And if while getting his reward he begs you to stop, you gag him. He wanted it, he needs to take it then. In the future, he'll think more indepth about what he begs as his reward.

I'm in a bit of a sadistic mood today.

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