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CaringandReal -> RE: can you own a Dominant (2/11/2010 5:25:07 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
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why cant we feel that same ownership in a more egalitarian, vanillaish manner.
if this slave wanted to feel ownership in an egalitarian, vanilla-ish manner, she wouldn't have gone fishing in an alternative relationship dynamic pond.
Word.
It's the actions within a relationship that inform your mind and emotions that you are owned, and the great majority of these actions are ones that would never occur to a vanilla partner, no matter how possessive they are, to do. All a possessive vanilla person cares about is that your gentials and emotions don't go wandering too close to anybody else's. While some masters may care if you fuck others, other masters don't care at all, but they will lay down rigid and detailed orders to follow about avoiding STDs and pregnancy. This is something that would never occur to your standard possessive vanilla partner to do largely because the vanilla partner does not regard you as his property to maintain, but rather as another equal-in-all-important-ways, person who must be threatened, manipulated, guilt-tripped, tricked, charmed, seduced, reasoned with, or otherwise convinced into not wanting to stray.
Posssessiveness is /= to ownership.
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