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men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 1:45:52 PM   
azjojoba


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Status: offline 		You don't hear as much about men spanking men. Most of the internet stuff involves men and women.

Does this go on more than we hear, and is the spanking used as a punishment or an erotic foreplay?
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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 1:50:31 PM   
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For the record, I love watching gay dominants spanking straight submissives... amongst other things ;-)

But I'm a twisted girl like that.

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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 2:03:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think the reason you probably don't hear as much about it is because most porn is made by and aimed at heterosexual men. There are a few good gay/bi kink sites out there, though.

TieGuyUK
BoyBondageBliss
BoundBoys
BadBoySpanking
StraightHell (unfortunately not available in the UK)

That's all I could think of off the top of my head.

As for why you don't hear about it being talked about as much on fetish forums... I can only guess that's because there are more heterosexual people (or people currently in heterosexual relationships) frequenting those forums.


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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 2:09:48 PM   
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I think the reason you probably don't hear as much about it is because most porn is made by and aimed at heterosexual men.


I'm not sure he was looking for porn, but thanks for the eye candy, little pervert ;-)

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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 2:15:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

You don't hear as much about men spanking men. Most of the internet stuff involves men and women.



Someone who had not LOOKED FOR such things will think so..i
If spanking of men by men is a turn on for you..YOU will find.it..
 
IN your face pop ups and side pop ups..freebies are generally geared to the
 same old same old..
ANY fetish..desire can be found on the net...while most of the  SURFACE stuff
is mainly geared to the main USE of  it...or WHO is using/paying for it...which is undoubtedly the average everyday beat to a cunt/dic or fuk scene..person
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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 2:16:20 PM   
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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

You don't hear as much about men spanking men. Most of the internet stuff involves men and women.

Does this go on more than we hear, and is the spanking used as a punishment or an erotic foreplay?

For certain values of "we", yes.  Are you thinking about turning to men since you've alienated all the women here?

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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 2:16:30 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
I'm not sure he was looking for porn, but thanks for the eye candy, little pervert ;-)
- LA


lol, I realised that after I commented, so I went back and added the last paragraph. Clearly I have a one-track mind today. ;P

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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 2:38:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sodsta

lol, I realised that after I commented, so I went back and added the last paragraph. Clearly I have a one-track mind today. ;P



Nothing wrong with one track minds -- as long as the track is going in the right direction. Thanks for the kinky links.

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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 2:41:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: stef

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ORIGINAL: azjojoba

For certain values of "we", yes.  Are you thinking about turning to men since you've alienated all the women here?

~stef



What makes you think I have alienated all the women?

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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 2:42:49 PM   
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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 2:47:18 PM   
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it's called professional sports.

Hahahahaha!  Bingo!

And, oh, yes, it certainly happens a lot.  Go out to a gay bar, especially a leather bar or dance club and you'll see so much ass swatting you'll think you're in an NFL locker room.

As far as on the internet, I agree, it's not something brought up that often, compared to the heterosexual counterparts.  But I do know my pet does enjoy a good solid swat or ten. ;)

To be honest though, it took me a long while to become at all comfortable with even that.  Restraints I'm fine with, love cages, my tastes run the gambit from mild to WTF!?, but striking him even "playfully" or "pleasurably" is something that's taken some major getting used to.  Even still, at times, I'm not comfortable with it, and just won't do it.

EDIT:  To Add:
Sodsta... You naughty thing with those links!  I like you already. ;)


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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 2:48:08 PM   
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ORIGINAL: domiguy

it's called professional sports.


And tomorrow is Superbowl! Lots of man slapping man's ass action for me to enjoy!

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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 2:51:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BKSir
EDIT:  To Add:
Sodsta... You naughty thing with those links!  I like you already. ;)


I like to spread the joy. ;P

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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 2:54:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lance here: OF COURSE there is!  As others have said "Pay for it and you'll get to see it."  The very, very best thing about CM is that it's free!  Remember that gays are about 1/10th of the general population.  BDSMers are about 12 to 15% (maybe as high as 20%) of the general population.  That makes gay BDSMers (also known as Leathermen) to be less than 2% of the general population.  Then add in the fact that MANY gay men (Leather or not) go where they do not interact with straights (Bdsmers or not) and you'll quickly understand that there's probaly way less than 1% of men looking for man-on-man interaction.  Oh, and then we have to add this particular fetish to our calcs - very few Leathermen are into such BDSM-lite types of play.  When I have used spanking, it's only as warm-up, not an end in itself.  (GEt it? "... an END in itself.... LOL!)

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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 2:58:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ok so the real question is Lance... gonna let me watch you spank a boy? ;-)

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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 3:09:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Ok so the real question is Lance... gonna let me watch you spank a boy? ;-)

- LA


If you are watching he can spank me!

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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 3:17:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Ok so the real question is Lance... gonna let me watch you spank a boy? ;-)

- LA


Only allowable if I get to watch too. ;)


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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 3:43:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		azjojoba: Thanks for "volunteering," but I have my hands full with the gay boys. (Get it? ..... have my HANDS full.... LOL)

To others that want to see me "work" a boy (as he spins on a "Catherine's Wheel) I did make a DVD for a distributor.  He is bound to wheel, he is spun (inc. upside down), and I flog and cane him as he rotates.  Just tried to make a link for y'all...... No can do.  Will contact distibutor and see if I can find out why link isn't working.


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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 3:55:57 PM   
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RE: men spanking men? - 2/6/2010 6:27:57 PM   
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I know a number of men in real life who class themselves as tops or bottoms who get off on the corporal punishment aspect - either giving or receiving, thus they do not have a preference per se for either males or females.  Gotta love spankos




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