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Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:26:04 PM   
sultryvoice


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Status: offline 		Can someone tell me why on earth a so called Dominant would write a submissive and is very rude to her. I just had someone do this, I wrote him and said he was being rude and why.That was when I sawthat he blocked me. I just don't get it. Am I missing something here?

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:28:52 PM   
truesub4u


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Goody Goody,.... another e-mail post.

Because they're ignorant... because they're showing they have no earthly idea what the hell they're doing? I really don't know why people do the things they do... guess makes it funner than knowing.


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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:31:16 PM   
SpankMuhButt


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Status: offline 		I have never posted here, So hello to all. I had to respond to this post because I have one man who has emailed me 3 times with very rude emails and yet each time I tried to respond he has me blocked. I have never spoken to him, so he knows nothing about me. But from reading his journals looks like the man has been burned quite a few times and is a bit bitter. Also don't get why he even looks at my profile and feels the need to write me, me being in NY and him in Canada.........oh well such is life and I pity anyone who would consider that man.
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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:32:33 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		To the Op...Ach! just look at it like it was a rite of passage....be well....tempting

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:33:06 PM   
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quote:

Can someone tell me why on earth a so called Dominant would write a submissive and is very rude to her. I just had someone do this, I wrote him and said he was being rude and why.That was when I sawthat he blocked me. I just don't get it. Am I missing something here? 



I have the answer.
/nods earnestly

They are idiotic, immature, little children disguising as adults, looking to get off playing on the computer while their mommies and daddies are gone for the night.

/nods

Uh huh. That's it.



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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:36:05 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		To spank....He in his juvenile way is trying to get your attention.Kind of like hitting girl on playground and then running away giggling....be well...Tempting...oh yeah!,,forgot....ignore him or block him..no biggie...:0)

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:36:17 PM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sultryvoice

Can someone tell me why on earth a so called Dominant would write a submissive and is very rude to her. I just had someone do this, I wrote him and said he was being rude and why.That was when I sawthat he blocked me. I just don't get it. Am I missing something here?

Respectfully,
sultry


sultry! it's so good to see you again--well some men confuse Domineering with Dominant---they are the sunday night wankers with a teenie winkie---smile, revel in your awesomeness and move on.

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:37:53 PM   
IrishMist


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quote:

they are the sunday night wankers with a teenie winkie---


OMG I busted out laughing on that one

Nicely said

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:39:45 PM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		If he blocked you before you could even give your reply then he is doing this you on purpose and most likely 100's of others as well.
 
Why you ask?  I am sure he is wounded, angry, and dysfunctional about how to proses all the hurt on disappointment of his life and so is lashing out, crying out for help.
 
But every time you get an email like this remember it is a blessing in two ways, one, he eliminates himself from your dance card right away instead hiding his true nature and you waste precious time with him. And two your not him, you are not so angry at the world that you have to resort to sociopath behavior to have some little boost in self esteem.



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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:40:48 PM   
SpankMuhButt


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Status: offline 		Ahhh is that the trick he is playing, trying to get my attention? lol little man. But what cracks me up is when they send you an email telling you, you are hot and when you respond with a thank you but nothing more or not the way they want you too..........the next few emails get nasty, had one man tell me I wasn't all that, and that i was ugly..............hmmm 2 emails prior I was hot, LOL,

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:41:05 PM   
sultryvoice


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Status: offline 		LOL...I have to agree with all of your observations. This man is no where near where I live and he just is bitter to a high degree. But, why would my age and being from the south be so bad to him? He happens to be from the south also. He made rude comments comparing "Scarlett" types of women to me only because I am southern. I also noticed he is a short fat man...lol..Bonaparte complex maybe???

Respectfully,
sultry

I hope the mods are not going to come down on me about this post either!

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:42:53 PM   
preciousgem


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Status: offline 		cause they think they are smarter then every one they write to and enjoy being mean and rude and @$$es to people cause they are not happy with thier life. they dont want to look at themselfs and see that there is some thing wrong they would rather think that there is something wrong with every one around them. it is sad to say it happens alot in life if you dont fit in to a box that that person wants you to fit in to you must be flucked up. why would i want to live in a box that some one wants me to live in when i am more happy being me and not really caring what others think of me.

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:45:04 PM   
sultryvoice


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Status: offline 		Thank you for your kind words Mistress Hathor...

Respectfully,
sultry

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:45:41 PM   
feastie


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1/8/2006 6:07:14 PM
 






There are many people on this site with whom I do not agree.  There's nothing wrong with that, everyone is entitled to his/her own opinion.  However, if you take it upon yourself to address another's profile, especially in a negative manner, then you certainly must allow the person an opportunity to respond.  Anything else is cowardly.  One such coward wrote me today, stating the following: "sounds like your looking for a HUSBAND.  find a dating service." Now, it may come as a shock to this man's delicate lack of sensibilities, but there are people for whom D/s and marriage make for a perfect relationship.  I am not ashamed of the fact that I am indeed desirous of a lifelong relationship.  I am neither ashamed or humiliated by this man's statement on my profile.  Further, I have no need for his inane and impolite prattle.When I attempted to reply thus to his email, he'd blocked me.  How very manly and exceedingly dominant of him.  I wonder indeed, how he managed to find leathers with that bright, yellow stripe down the back of them.

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:50:08 PM   
IronBear


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quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

Ummm...this might put me on the mod's bad side but....


quote:

Can someone tell me why on earth a so called Dominant would write a submissive and is very rude to her. I just had someone do this, I wrote him and said he was being rude and why.That was when I sawthat he blocked me. I just don't get it. Am I missing something here? 



I have the answer.
/nods earnestly

They are idiotic, immature, little children disguising as adults, looking to get off playing on the computer while their mommies and daddies are gone for the night.

/nods

Uh huh. That's it.




If I may lovely lady They also have a large problem with a microscopic organ which their fleas laugh at.... People like this are erhh hummmm (looks to see if a Mod hand is ready to pound me into the floor) .. They are somewhat lacking .. in manners and moral fibre.... The OP simply terrified the crap outa them.. she'd delightful and he was shyte scaredofher... Maybe he needed her to collar him.....

< Message edited by IronBear -- 3/26/2006 5:51:24 PM >

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:50:13 PM   
sultryvoice


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Status: offline 		feastie,

I do like what you said. You also hit the proverbial nail on the head! It's such a shame these people have to act in this manner. They must be some very lonely ones..

Resepctfully,
sultry

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:53:33 PM   
brightspot


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Status: offline 		Hello sultry,
I have always thought your pic and this new one very attractive.
I feel too, it is probably a teen getting his kicks on a boring evening when the folks are out.
It has nothing to do with you I'm sure, just some little dick wanting to feel a sense of control.
I wouldn't even respond, use that block button yourself, if you don't respond showing your upset his game dosen't work.
It's just not worth your time and energy, save that for the sincere ones.
 
Welcome back....

*Brightspot




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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 5:56:53 PM   
sultryvoice


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Status: offline 		Iron Bear, your wit always gets to me. You give such great answers about human nature! Good to see you again..

Respectfully,
sultry

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 6:01:08 PM   
litaTshai


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Status: offline 		i also have gotten a few rude e-mails.  something i never experienced on strictly Gorean sites.  maybe just lucky?

my thought is that there are Some Who confuse Mastering with humiliating.

i don't know whether there are some submissives who like or need to be humiliated, but if there are i am sure not ALL of them want or need that.

i suppose it might be a quick way for Him to find those who do.  or, as i said, He may be ignorant enough to think all submissives want that.

just the thoughts of a slave,

respectfully submitted,

lita {Tshai}

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RE: Rude Emails - 3/26/2006 6:01:37 PM   
angelic


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Status: offline 		ok... it happened to me too... did the e-mailer compare you to a Domme, saying you had no business being on this site?  This person did it twice to me, the 2nd time i was ready... read the e-mail, then blocked his sorry ass!  (didn't bother responding to his 2nd e-mail, the first one i tried to respond to i found out i was blocked... i even started a thread about it when it happened too) LOL

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