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MsDDom -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (2/19/2010 10:04:15 AM)

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While every woman’s definition varies, most will agree on two points:


* If you are only seeking the kink activities, the play, you should clearly state you are only interested in acting as a bottom.
* If you wish to submit your will over to another person and have a relationship based on authority transfer, then you are a submissive/slave.


I definitely agree with this MOST of all b/c it sets the tone. Many subs/slaves don't understand that these two points can make or break communication.  And when, for example, a sub/slave who appears as a bottom gets a NO, he then wants to challenge OR say the Domme/Mistress is not "dominant enough"...he neglects that she is NOT looking for a bottom play partner. We all have our choice.

Reading and comprehending is definitely important for a male sub/slave.




moghalman -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/20/2010 5:25:14 AM)

Just wanted to add my 2 cents. This was a great OP, thanks Domin8tingUrDrmz. I have tried to incorporate your suggestions without making my profile to *heavy*. I hope its made my profile more appealing!



Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/20/2010 5:29:52 AM)

I think your revised edition is much better. Quite frankly, you now sound like a whole person, which is wonderful.

BTW, would you share your recipe for "Smoked Paprika encrusted Roast Potatoes"? They sound yummy. [;)]



moghalman -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/20/2010 7:17:07 AM)

Why thank you :-) Yes they are very yummy indeed :-D

Recipe is as follows, sorry if its not precise:

- Get potatoes (good roastiing potatoes are best as it makes things easier when trying to get that all elusive crust however the irish in me doesn't discriminate!)
- Par Boil them in a pan (note: keep the peel on)
- You want to boil them for long enough that they look like the skins are about to come off
- Remove fom the boil, empty all the water and then shake the pan vigorously, what you want to achieve here is to roughen the surface of the potatoes
- Turn on the oven and preheat to around 250 degrees centigrade
- Pour some smoked paprika into a roasting dish and then (this is the fun part - gets messy!) roll the potatoes around in the paprika untill they get a good coating, the amount of coating depends on your taste but I love things hot so I make sure they are well covered. There might be some little bits of potato skin that have come off but don't worry, its all good!
- A modification of this (which I havent yet mastered) I made up a little roasting marinade (smoke paprika, a little olive oil, cumin seeds) My guess is this will make the potatoes an even more yummy coating but the problem is that the mixture tends to coagulate so maybe leave out the olive oil.
- Place in the oven in the middle shelf and then leave for 40-50minutes
- Check the potatoes and turn them over regularly
- When you like the look of them they are done!

Hope this helps, if you come over to london it'd be a pleasure to make you some :-)





dreamerdreaming -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/20/2010 7:26:18 AM)

 oops.



mnottertail -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/20/2010 7:29:51 AM)

I wonder if you heated the olive oil if it would thin the mixture.

Ronne



Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/20/2010 7:31:49 AM)

Thank you for sharing [:)]. I'm definately giving them a try with the added cumin.



Tantriqu -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/20/2010 10:58:25 AM)


Just bought a fresh tilapia and banana leaves from the Chinese market and was looking for a good side dish to go with the fish packets, so thanks for the recipe: Empress Potatoes from a moghul, perhaps? [;)]

So in exchange, here's a tip:
I don't bake or fry with olive oil since its smoking point [i.e., point at which heat causes it to decompose] is lower than vegetable oils [olives are fruit!] and which is likely the denaturing/coagulation you've experienced. Very highly refined olive oil has a higher smoking point, but the unrefined flavourful extra-virgin type we love for flavour smokes at quite low temperatures.

If I want the flavour of olive oil, I add it after cooking, or mix it 50:50 with a high-smoking point oil [here in Canada we use sunflower oil] if the temperature is below 175'C/350'F: over that, I'd only use straight sunflower.
It's the same with butter: cutting it with sunflower oil not only decreases the amount you use, but the mixture has a higher smoking point similar to ghee.

Now I'm going to have my favourite Spanish lunch: crusty bread scraped with garlic and tomato and dipped in lovely cloudy extra-virgin olive oil...

Bon appetit `a tous!



perfectflaw00 -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/20/2010 11:02:11 AM)

great tips and advice in this thread definitely incorporated them into my profile.



SurrenderForMe -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/20/2010 11:11:56 AM)

This is too funny.  I caught the header and then the post about 'Just bought a fresh tilapia and banana leaves from the Chinese market and was looking for a good side dish to go with the fish packets, so thanks for the recipe: Empress Potatoes from a moghul, perhaps? '

Yes, this is just what I look for on someones profile, the smoking point for oils and what someone is eating.







moghalman -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/20/2010 11:13:22 AM)

Hmm..possibly - this is a problem that makes me think I'll need my physics text book!



Tantriqu -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/20/2010 11:24:09 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SurrenderForMe
Yes, this is just what I look for on someones profile, the smoking point for oils and what someone is eating.



The paprika potatoes recipe was requested as above, a CO member confessed a difficulty, I replied with my opinion to assist.
No harm, no foul, and the tastiest threadjack I've seen in these troll-filled waters.
And good men should be encouraged to cook well and put that on their profiles, don't you think?
Boo yah!



moghalman -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/20/2010 11:28:15 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Tantriqu


Just bought a fresh tilapia and banana leaves from the Chinese market and was looking for a good side dish to go with the fish packets, so thanks for the recipe: Empress Potatoes from a moghul, perhaps? [;)


Wow thats so cool that in my own little way I'm contributing to your lovely meal..never heard of tilapia before but they look like a very heart healthy option!

Empress Potatoes from a moghul..indeed...as it happens this particular moghul had 10 empresses!! What a tiger :-D


quote:

ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

So in exchange, here's a tip:
I don't bake or fry with olive oil since its smoking point [i.e., point at which heat causes it to decompose] is lower than vegetable oils [olives are fruit!] and which is likely the denaturing/coagulation you've experienced. Very highly refined olive oil has a higher smoking point, but the unrefined flavourful extra-virgin type we love for flavour smokes at quite low temperatures.

If I want the flavour of olive oil, I add it after cooking, or mix it 50:50 with a high-smoking point oil [here in Canada we use sunflower oil] if the temperature is below 175'C/350'F: over that, I'd only use straight sunflower.
It's the same with butter: cutting it with sunflower oil not only decreases the amount you use, but the mixture has a higher smoking point similar to ghee.

Now I'm going to have my favourite Spanish lunch: crusty bread scraped with garlic and tomato and dipped in lovely cloudy extra-virgin olive oil...

Bon appetit `a tous!


Thanks for the tip - I'll certainly bear that in mind next time I doth my chef's cap. In the mean time enjoy your lunch!



lobodomslavery -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/20/2010 2:44:20 PM)

The only emails I get these days are from people utterly unsuitable so I doubt the advice would help me. Only joking. Im not just interested in a serious relationship at the minute but for those who are this advice is very good. Well played
Kevin



Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/21/2010 7:40:58 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SurrenderForMe

This is too funny.  I caught the header and then the post about 'Just bought a fresh tilapia and banana leaves from the Chinese market and was looking for a good side dish to go with the fish packets, so thanks for the recipe: Empress Potatoes from a moghul, perhaps? '

Yes, this is just what I look for on someones profile, the smoking point for oils and what someone is eating.




Would you prefer the status quo? You know, where men either put nothing in their profiles, or fill it with kink requests?

I'd much rather read about the meals they can prepare well, anyday. I want to see who they are aside from their kink, and if cooking is part of that...that's all good in my opinion.



Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (3/21/2010 7:42:12 AM)


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ORIGINAL: perfectflaw00

great tips and advice in this thread definitely incorporated them into my profile.


I'm glad you found this thread useful. I hope your extra effort works favorably for you.



BoyLookinToLearn -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (6/14/2010 7:44:51 PM)

Thanks for the great posting. I've attempted to clean up my profile (though I'm quite sure its still a little unfocused) and incorporate as much as I could from your advice above. You're a great boon to the community!



AAkasha -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (6/14/2010 8:07:26 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BoyLookinToLearn

Thanks for the great posting. I've attempted to clean up my profile (though I'm quite sure its still a little unfocused) and incorporate as much as I could from your advice above. You're a great boon to the community!


Nice profile.  Incredible hair.  And Canadian. If you played hockey, I would be in trouble.

Akasha



ciaphascain -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (6/14/2010 10:15:54 PM)

As a smart friend of mine once told me about creating online profiles: "Your first line should be your yearly income, the second line should be a picture of a nice but not too extravagent house. The rest you leave blank for mystery reasons."

Amazingly enough he tended to get laid quite a bit by that. Hmm, go figure.



cloudboy -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (6/15/2010 7:23:09 AM)

I tend to regard profiles the way Richard Bolles regards resumes......



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