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LadyPact -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 3:54:12 AM)
So the point was to start the same tired, old line on a thread that was originally created to help people? The thread was bumped unnecessarily. That doesn't negate the fact that, at it's creation, it was being put up to be a reference thread to be included in the FAQ section. The reason for that was the frequency that people were asking for help with what they should include or avoid in putting on their profiles. It's a very common thing for people to ask around here and this thread was helping those who had the question and avoiding a lot of duplicate threads (by various people) on the same topic. Is it really necessary to turn it into another personal agenda thread?

naughtynick81 -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 3:55:58 AM)
Hmmm how well would it go if I made a thread that expressed that many women don't know how to make good profiles or are clueless dumbos There would be outrage from the superior gender as viewed in political correctness 2010

BonesFromAsh -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 3:59:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: naughtynick81 Hmmm how well would it go if I made a thread that expressed that many women don't know how to make good profiles or are clueless dumbos There would be outrage from the superior gender as viewed in political correctness 2010 Your reading comprehension seems to be lacking. Did you even bother to read the original post? So, instead of taking the time to create a helpful and in depth thread of your own, you choose to piss and moan the same old 'poor me/poor men' song and dance on a 9 month old revieved thread? Have a lovely day.

naughtynick81 -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 4:08:09 AM)
Oh I will, have a lovely day. I perfectly know if the same amount of moaning was made towards women, it would be an instant political incorrect attack against it. There is no such thing as a freedom of speech attack when going in the opposite direction. Have fun

Lucylastic -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 4:11:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: naughtynick81 It seems that someone wants to drag women back to before the suffragette movement to me. That he is unable to connect with women who have opinions that differ from his but has no interest in working towards changing the differences except by annoying said women. Self destruct button is primed and ready to go. Its a shame ROFL how so? Are you saying a man is not allowed to disagree? Where did I say that? based on your postings Ive bothered to read, its a problem YOU have, not all males. Irony much? I do not think you know what that means or how it works in a sentence Freedom of speech is only acceptable in one direction I guess, Im not the government, I can tell you what I think, I can also ignore you, thats not restricting anything besides your ego.You are the one who is saying all us women are wrong for not thinking the way you do Agrees with Lady P, and not going to respond again, as I have nothing to add to the OP

tazzygirl -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 4:25:34 AM)
~FR Ladies, nick is just doing his best to gain your attention, and you are feeding his ego by giving it to him. treat him like the truly naughty boy he is and ignore his temper tantrums.

naughtynick81 -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 4:27:33 AM)
quote: Ladies, nick is just doing his best to gain your attention, and you are feeding his ego by giving it to him. treat him like the truly naughty boy he is and ignore his temper tantrums. LOL ignore the truth with all cost ladies

SorceressJ -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 5:00:09 AM)
Honey, truth is subjective, and you wouldn't know the truth if it bit the head of your theoretical dick off. But tazzy is right. Ignoring your rampant whining is of course the best answer. Imma go have coffee with Lucy now, while you stamp your little feet in impotent frustration that you can do absolutely nothing about. You're just not worth it. Cheerio. [:D]

poise -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 5:25:49 AM)
Dear Nick. What you aren't seeing are the many many posts by men that are asking how to find a dominant woman. Most of the posters here are in a relationship, so they aren't contributing just to get attention to themselves, but are truly offering advice to those that need it. If you really had an issue with posts being made to make men feel "dumb" then why haven't you resurrected the 10 page How To Find A Woman thread? Is it because it was started by a man, and therefore it's ok if a man assumes all other men are dumb? Since you haven't made an issue of that thread, I can only assume you are eager for any attention you can get by the lovely ladies in this thread, and have no trouble making yourself look like an ass to get it. Is this what you do in your relationships too...behaving as a bratty sub?

Lucylastic -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 5:54:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SorceressJ Imma go have coffee with Lucy now, I have ginger snaps tooo

tazzygirl -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 5:59:39 AM)
~squeezes my way into that party hehe

Lucylastic -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 6:11:51 AM)
now thats more like it... gets more cookies n coffee and takes it over to P&RS ...I admit thread. Coffeee for all, see you there:)

LadyPact -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 6:56:20 AM)
Oh, look. An offer of a cookie and an opportunity to bring the thread back on topic. I went back and read the original post. Then, I went and took a look at My own profile and journal entries. At what was actually a shock to Me, My profile does reflect the majority of the advice that was given in the original post. 1. Your Photograph: Know your audience. Your primary photo should be one that either shows your face, or shows you doing something in a vanilla environment. Even though I'm in leather, My pic shows My face. 2. Your Screen Name Yeah, I'm good there. 3. Your Checklist Hey, believe it or not, I even have some of those even though I'm here primarily for the BDSM part. 4. Your Self-Summary I don't consider the text of My profile great. What I do consider it to be is a vague outline to allow others to determine whether they will be compatible with Me. I mention some specifics that are geared towards that end. High protocol, active in the BDSM community, and the fact that I'm poly are loud and clear. 5. Your Journal Has entries that span over three years of things that I've been doing, particularly heavy on events where I've participated. So, it's really not like I'm recommending advice to do something that I'm not capable of or not willing to do Myself. The things that have been suggested on this thread and others are here to tell people what many women have said they are more likely to respond positively when they see them. People can complain about the fact that they don't like the shape of the wheel all they want. You can't deny it works better than a square.

Iholdthestrings -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 7:18:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: naughtynick81 To me, the idea of the thread meant, men are dumb and clueless who need help and women are always right. Anyway...carry on. That's based on a faulty assumption, which is that it's only men looking for a female Dominant. It's not. While the OP did address submissive men, I don't think that's the point. I think she writes from that POV because that's where she's coming from. I know the piece I posted was not at all gender specific, and more about helping the unattached submissive/slave put together a profile that has a better chance of getting (and holding) a Domme's attention. I don't think any one gender or group of people holds the monopoly on "dumb and clueless", nor do I think that ignorance is the same thing as stupidity. Imagine you wanted to take up as a house-painter. You've never painted a house before, but you're pretty sure that house-painting is something you'd enjoy doing. You hear of a place where you can get a job painting, and you're on your first day of the job. Another painter sees you working, and sees that you're just painting in random directions until an area is covered, and there are drips and thick spots that aren't going to dry properly and you've forgotten to take off the shutters first. Instead of telling you that you're stupid and you should never have taken up house-painting if you didn't know what you were doing, this person says to you, "I've done this work before. Let me show you where you're making mistakes, and give you some ideas for doing a better and more efficient job next time." We're not trying to make anyone feel stupid; we're trying to help them achieve the goal they set out for themselves. We know what gets our attention, and what loses it. We're putting that information out there, in the hopes that it will not only help us to see you and understand what you're trying to achieve, but also so that you can better convey (to us) who you are, and why we should be paying attention in the first place.

VideoAdminTheta -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (11/9/2010 9:16:11 AM)
It is preferred that you start a new thread if you wish to discuss the same topic if the thread is over six months old. If you would like to reference the older thread, you can link to it from the new thread. Considering there are some good additions to this thread, I will leave those posts; but those that deserve removal, will be removed. This thread will now be locked.

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