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Madame4a -> RE: Disclosure of Private Information (2/10/2010 12:43:30 PM)
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ORIGINAL: MissBeautiful2U
*smile* Thanks to everyone for reinforcing what I was already thinking.
If this was someone who just said he wanted to play, I might feel differently. He says he wants to be Mine. Of course, he says the right things.
When I said I tend to text more than speak by phone, I meant that in general, not with him. Clearly I don't have his phone number. I did tell him that if he wanted to continue this, I would expect him to at a minimum go out and buy a prepaid phone so I have some means of contacting him.
But really, deep down, I know if it seems too good to be true, it probably is. And when flags come up like this, one ought to heed them.
For those who commented about "demands" of one who is not yours, my question was more along the lines of when should certain things happen? What would be a red flag?
I think that if you want to be Mine, you probably should be willing to trust me enough to call... unless there is someone else at home. I may have broken one of my safety rules (and shame on me for that oversight) but I am not going to bring someone into my home who cannot trust me enough to share his phone number. Realistically,I am not frightened of him... just think he probably has someone else at home. If I cannot be trusted enough with a number, then how can he trust me to tie him up and do whatever I want?
I think a compromise though, just in case he is real, might be to continue having vanilla dates in public, but no private play time until he can trust me more.
My red flag is what I made bold and underlined... more than the lack of phone number... I might be wrong but you described a very brief meeting.. yes? Once.. right? and he knows he wants to be yours? Sounds to me like whoever walked into his field of vision that night would work. Sorry..
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