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WyldHrt -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/11/2010 9:25:48 PM)
quote: I'm not going to flame you Why thankies. [:D] quote: but I have to say that yes I am confused. You can be a great dominant guy (hi ladies, message me any time[;)]) that is a great Dom, but couldn't you also be a great dominant guy that is a terrible Dom? What's the difference? Now you are talking compatibility, and that is completely down to the people involved in the relationship. My "perfect" Dom would be someone else's "Meh" or "Hell, no!", and vice versa. This is the problem with asking many women what it is that women want. Doms aren't "one size fits all" and neither are subs. [;)]

osf -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/11/2010 9:29:47 PM)
bottom line, he's a great dominate if she thinks he's a great dominate

lucylucy -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/11/2010 9:32:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: osf bottom line, he's a great dominate if she thinks he's a great dominate And he may be a great Dom with one woman and not so great with another.

osf -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/11/2010 9:33:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lucylucy quote: ORIGINAL: osf bottom line, he's a great dominate if she thinks he's a great dominate And he may be a great Dom with one woman and not so great with another. zakly

chelseasway -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 12:52:56 AM)
For me a great dom is a great man. He's interested in more than just bdsm and he's interested in me.

allthatjaz -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 3:03:11 AM)
Comfortable being himself and the ability to be consistent. A good imagination and the ability to use that imagination. Self confident but not too big an ego. Honest but diplomatic. Loving and caring and the ability for that to shine through. Self assertive and not too weak to be alwasy making compromises. Generous and accepting of generosity, appreciative. Can listen as well as talk. Adventurous and perhaps a little impulsive. Someone who doesn't need a title or anything that would take me away from reality. Energetic and enthusiastic. Someone who isn't afraid to show his vulnerable side or believe its a sign of weakness to cook me a meal or stack the dishwasher on occasion. Someone who can love me and allow me to love him back. Inspirational and complimentary. Competitive in life but not amongst other dominants. Laid back, generally happy. sporty and reasonably fit. cultured. Brave enough to take me on a fabulous BDSM journey without taking all of this too seriously. I was just discribing my partner!

OriginallyFromLA -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 6:19:40 AM)
quote: Comfortable being himself and the ability to be consistent. A good imagination and the ability to use that imagination. Self confident but not too big an ego. Honest but diplomatic. Loving and caring and the ability for that to shine through. Self assertive and not too weak to be alwasy making compromises. Generous and accepting of generosity, appreciative. Can listen as well as talk. Adventurous and perhaps a little impulsive. Someone who doesn't need a title or anything that would take me away from reality. Energetic and enthusiastic. Someone who isn't afraid to show his vulnerable side or believe its a sign of weakness to cook me a meal or stack the dishwasher on occasion. Someone who can love me and allow me to love him back. Inspirational and complimentary. Competitive in life but not amongst other dominants. Laid back, generally happy. sporty and reasonably fit. cultured. Me, Me, Me, Me, Me...Me, Me, Me, Me, Me, Me..... Me, Me, Me, Me, Me, Me, Me! (anyone remember the movie Groundhog Day[8D]) quote: Brave enough to take me on a fabulous BDSM journey without taking all of this too seriously. Ahh here we go. The Fabulous BDSM Journey. Care to go into a little more detail? I ride a motorcycle. I am a veteran rider and have ridden all over the US. Can anyone guess what I ride? God help you if you guess wrong! I get it, BDSM relationships are relationships first, at least here in these threads they are. But as I have found out, there is a large percentage of people that DON'T frequent the boards for whom it is all just a game (again just like regular relationships). I guess what it boils down to is I assumed that as a member here, we all had at least one thing in common, and since we did we would all be one level deeper and be able to bypass a lot of the protocol you have to deal with in a vanilla relationship just to find out who it is you're dealing with.

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 6:34:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OriginallyFromLA I guess what it boils down to is I assumed that as a member here, we all had at least one thing in common, and since we did we would all be one level deeper and be able to bypass a lot of the protocol you have to deal with in a vanilla relationship just to find out who it is you're dealing with. What is with people wanting BDSM to be a shortcut to communication and getting to know the person? How many different types of motorcycles are there out there? Why do you think there isn't just one motorcycle to serve the desires of all motorcycle enthusiasts? Why do you ride the one you ride? Why did you PICK that particular model? Why do you think someone might pick a completely different model? Now tell us who you want to ride bitch in your life? What ONE quality, do you think ALL dominant men are going to want their bitch seat riding slut to be like? Think there'll be one quality everyone agrees upon? Are you starting to understand that BDSM is still made up of individuals with individual preferences?

Jeffff -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 6:46:00 AM)
We are all very special! God has blessed kinky folks! We are better than everyone else! Do you know that I can spot your kink just walking down the street and catching a glimpse of you? My kink-dar is THAT good Let this resonate in the community! Jeff

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 6:49:32 AM)
Just because this amused me: Motorcycles (Dominants) have been produced in myriad configurations for innumerable purposes. Most motorcycles (Dominants) fall into one of three main categories — street (Tops), off-road (Doms), and dual-purpose (Masters)— depending on the surface (s-type) they are intended to be used on. A few specialty machines do not fall into one of these categories (Switches). Each configuration offers either specialized advantage or broad capability, and each design creates a different riding posture.

osf -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 7:33:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff We are all very special! God has blessed kinky folks! We are better than everyone else! Do you know that I can spot your kink just walking down the street and catching a glimpse of you? My kink-dar is THAT good Let this resonate in the community! Jeff not all are special i'm the only unspecial person on earth

lucylucy -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 7:44:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OriginallyFromLA I guess what it boils down to is I assumed that as a member here, we all had at least one thing in common, and since we did we would all be one level deeper and be able to bypass a lot of the protocol you have to deal with in a vanilla relationship just to find out who it is you're dealing with. The part I bolded stands out to me as problematic. I found when I was dating that lots of people know what they WISH they were but don't actually know what they ARE. I met a lot of lovely men who wanted to be confident but just weren't. They wanted to be modest but just weren't. Hell, they wanted to be 6' tall but just weren't. Their profiles all said confident, modest, 6'. Except for the height, which can be objectively measured, most characteristics are part of a continuum and it's easy to kid yourself about where on the continuum you fall. Sure, it would be nice to bypass the bs and get down to "here's who I am" and "here's who you are." But to do that, you gotta know who you are. That's the tough part.

LanceHughes -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 7:49:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance Who makes a great dom? I can't ever be absolutely sure but my guess is.... Jeff (cuz he's my fav) Merc LadyHabiscus LadyPact LaT KnightofMists I'd say RS but he'd smack me for calling him a dom RS (for the smacks) Ron Domiguy DominateUrDreamz (sic?) Ebonywood DarkSteven Especially MOD16! ::: sniff ::: /drys eyes and wipes nose after crying for a few minutes/ LOL!!! How can I get on this list?

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 7:55:03 AM)
Who makes a great dom? I can't ever be absolutely sure but my guess is.... Jeff (cuz he's my fav) Merc LadyHabiscus LadyPact LaT KnightofMists I'd say RS but he'd smack me for calling him a dom RS (for the smacks) Ron Domiguy DominateUrDreamz (sic?) Ebonywood DarkSteven LanceHughes MOD16! (I just left you off to get your attention!)

ModeratorSixteen -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 7:59:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance Who makes a great dom? I can't ever be absolutely sure but my guess is.... Jeff (cuz he's my fav) Merc LadyHabiscus LadyPact LaT KnightofMists I'd say RS but he'd smack me for calling him a dom RS (for the smacks) Ron Domiguy DominateUrDreamz (sic?) Ebonywood DarkSteven Especially MOD16! See?Someone does love us moderators.[:D]

LanceHughes -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 7:59:27 AM)
Thanks, Winnie. I feel better now.

LanceHughes -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 8:00:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance Just because this amused me: Motorcycles (Dominants) have been produced in myriad configurations for innumerable purposes. Most motorcycles (Dominants) fall into one of three main categories — street (Tops), off-road (Doms), and dual-purpose (Masters)— depending on the surface (s-type) they are intended to be used on. A few specialty machines do not fall into one of these categories (Switches). Each configuration offers either specialized advantage or broad capability, and each design creates a different riding posture. Quoted for TRUTH.

OriginallyFromLA -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 8:20:40 AM)
quote: Are you starting to understand that BDSM is still made up of individuals with individual preferences? Hey it only took me a week and a half and I didn't get pissed off or run away. Patience (on both sides) is a virtue.

sexyred1 -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 8:24:23 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance Who makes a great dom? I can't ever be absolutely sure but my guess is.... Jeff (cuz he's my fav) Merc LadyHabiscus LadyPact LaT KnightofMists I'd say RS but he'd smack me for calling him a dom RS (for the smacks) Ron Domiguy DominateUrDreamz (sic?) Ebonywood DarkSteven LanceHughes MOD16! (I just left you off to get your attention!) Win, I was just going to ask about your choices but then was distracted by my boyfriend being in the tub with you, bitch!

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: who makes a great DOM (2/12/2010 8:26:04 AM)
Fess up RED.....you were there, just UNDER all those bubbles. I was impressed at how long you can stay submerged...among your other skillful attriubtes!

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