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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/12/2010 8:22:31 PM   
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Oh how I loved that movie as a kid. Watched it over and over and over again...

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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/12/2010 8:34:20 PM   
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We demand to see pictures, of how much of an innapropriate looking little girl you really are.


With the dumb cop.



Oooo... Oooo.. Yes! and how about a pair of Paris Hilton Glam Cuffs?






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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/12/2010 8:50:53 PM   
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Holy crap do people actually buy those? I can probably make those...

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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/12/2010 8:59:51 PM   
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OP:
I'm gonna have to call BS on this "story". In what world do they put people in juvenile correction for being outside past dark? (And about 200 other glaring issues with your 150 word post.)

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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/12/2010 9:05:46 PM   
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Oh, and Whiplash stop that!  You are giving me.......errrrrr..... issues...... 


Oh yeah...





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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/13/2010 3:29:16 AM   
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pigtails are never for nothing, throw those pics up! 


ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh wow HSE.... I LOVE the new photo of you and your Master on your profile.


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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/13/2010 4:16:04 AM   
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second was in Medford, or was going to my doms house
First...i doubt your entire story, but the fact that you permitted this to occur a second time tells me you are a doofus.

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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/13/2010 5:24:39 AM   
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let's not forget about...




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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/13/2010 6:21:41 AM   
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I wish to make a serious post in response to the OP.

She was not engaged in the acts of Age Play per sec in public, but rather she was dressed up for it. There's a big difference between being dress up like a little girl in public and acting like one. The definition of Public Play on the collarme.com BDSM check list is as follows: " BDSM play that occurs at public venues, typically public dungeons.".

In regards to being arrested for being underage and out past a curfew. This does actually happen, and they take them to youth correction centers (instead of adult jailing faculities). If you look young and don't have your photo ID on you. If your ID looks questionable, they can or will arrest you.

Thing have become extremely tighter over the years, in terms of laws with youth being out on the street late at night, also in how probation is handed out to kids now days. It actually be become a vicious circle for youth. There are pro's and con's to the changes that have occured.

Things ain't like what it used to be in the 60's, 70"s, 80's or even 90's. Though I will add I personally started to notice the changes considerable in the 90's. I wrote out all these time periods in attempt to get people to reflect upon what it was like when they were young. Things have changed and it's no longer the same.

To think that when I was in my 20's there were times when police questioned me regarding be out late past curfew, and I was not even dressed up. I'd sort of cough up my photo ID while being in a state of annoyance. However, in those moments I wonder what would have happened if I did not have my ID at the time.

Ironic, that I had been getting into bar's underage during part of the 80's along with purchasing cigerettee underage too. All in the 80's. In the 90's I got carded a Hell of a lot for things. Big Changes. I was carded a lot up until I hit like 32 years old. I seem to look about 10 years younger than my actual age.

These experiences the OP has went through just don't apply to "Age Play" or her dressed up looking to be younger. It happens to people that actually do Look younger.

Things have changed and the Law Enforcement has become more responsive to so many things on a number of areas. Just not with youth running the streets causing hell or youth running the risk of becoming victims to people late at night.

In the 90's, a band that I was in, we'd use to practice at a warehouse building that one of my bandmates family owned. There was a problem with Pigeons getting into some stupid fan duct system on the roof, and my bandmate ending up taking a BB gun to shoot a few. We all (the whole band) was standing out on the roof while he shot at a few. Was not much longer before we were surrounded by the Police with guns pointed on us. Fuck, we all were pissing ourselves. Hands behind your head and get down on your knees moments. In the end, he only got a warning about being more careful in what he does in public view. Somebody had called it in, that they saw somebody on a roof with a gun. None the less, this is all it takes anymore. For one person to call something in or notice something.

In many regards, my last post with the "Hello Kitty AK-47" was a bit if a joke, however somewhat serious. Kids, playing with realistic guns these days are at Risk even. New York Targets Illegal Sales of Toy Guns

Curfew Laws vary from city to city, and some are really well defined others are not. Some are more restrictive and others less restrictive. The judgement calls of police officers becomes rather subjective in nature. Some officers love to go around passing out tickets and trying to get everybody and anybody. Even some Judges get annoyed with these bone heads.

What's my point? To the fellow members of CM that are a little older, things ain't the same. Some people know what I'm talking about because either their Niece, Nephew. Son or daughter has had to face things that many of us did'nt have to deal with in our own youth. Some of these things well.. sort are of borderline and questionable in regards to being or becoming Civil Rights violations. Which is what I think the point the OP was trying to make in the last line of her post.

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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/13/2010 6:29:04 AM   
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Good post!!

However, the OP stated she dressed as a little girl in public more than once and attracted the attention of the authorities each time.

After the first time, she has no reason to complain.


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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/13/2010 6:35:49 AM   
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OP:
I'm gonna have to call BS on this "story". In what world do they put people in juvenile correction for being outside past dark? (And about 200 other glaring issues with your 150 word post.)


I was thinking the same thing but I try not to call bullshit unless I'm absolutely certain. In my original post to her, I told her I believed she actually liked the attention.

I did a little online research and it seems areas of California have youth curfew laws now.

(Edited because I wrote before I did the research... more coffee please!)

- LA

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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/13/2010 7:28:57 AM   
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Good post!!

However, the OP stated she dressed as a little girl in public more than once and attracted the attention of the authorities each time.

After the first time, she has no reason to complain.



It's clear she knows the risks associated with dressing up like that. Hence, why I told her to look at it a bit like being an Adventure in life. I've been on a number of my own Adventures. They really are interesting twisted screwed up experiences outside the daily dulldums of life. She could have been sitting home alone bored off her ass, staring at the ceiling pondering the true meaning of life.

In regards, to anybody doing things against the norm, you get the attention regards of you like or want it. It's always been my experience to embrace liking it regardless if it's good or bad. People giving you bad attention tend to loose interest when they realize it has No effect upon you. It's not as excieting for them. Some people enjoy targeting people outside the norm for good old fashioned sadistic humilation and personal entertainment.

Her post did'nt strike me that she went out of her way for attention. I knew a girl once that actually wanted this attention by intentionally "Yelling Vulgarities at the police and giving them the middle finger", she got arrested. She even admitted that she wanted it to happen to. Now that's truely twisted. The OP did not come off with the same attitude.

Nor was the OP out of line. Drunked up stumbling around naked in the streets with a bottle of Jack Daniels in hand yelling at everybody in the world for being so Vanilla, and Being Down on her ass for age play.

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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/13/2010 7:51:29 AM   
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Whiplashsmile -- I was quite the rebel in my youth. What I did know however was how to save my own skin. I pushed limits all the time, however, I knew what survival was and what was pushing things too far.

Dressing the way the OP described was not pushing things too far where I grew  up. In my early 20s, many a time I went out with knee-high black Doc Martens, a mid thigh school girl skirt, a black camisole and a pair of pony tails or some kind of combo like that. I never had issues with cops, in fact my girlfriends and I got checked out by most. But then I think I live in a much more liberal society.

Today, with maturity, I don't feel the need to push boundaries publically and prefer doing it within the realms of intimate situations. Also, I gave up my knee-high Doc Martens for Louboutins ;-)

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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/13/2010 9:23:57 AM   
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Nor was the OP out of line. Drunked up stumbling around naked in the streets with a bottle of Jack Daniels in hand yelling at everybody in the world for being so Vanilla, and Being Down on her ass for age play.


I do regard her as being out of line and it has nothing to do with her age play. The feel I got from her OP is that she is deliberately making herself look younger, and knowing that the police have already had trouble pegging her age, she doesn't make sure that she has her ID on her to clear things up or cover herself up so the the clothing doesn't show.

When people knowingly do things that attract police attention and there is no valid reason, I regard that as out of line as it's a waste of the time and considering I pay for their time... Now, if she made sure she had her ID on her and took reasonable steps to avoid police interferences while dressed to ageplay, long coat, maybe not putting her hair till she arrives, etc, then I would be completely in agreement with her.

Being only 25 myself, I barely escaped the era being carded for being out too late at night in my hometown. Squeaked out by the skin my teeth actually. After a birthday laws were passed regarding everyone just younger than me. I had friends who went through all that you described though and that doesn't soften my opinion. If people are doing something that looks like they are breaking a law, than they should be ready to show, politely and respectfully to the nice officer, that they aren't.

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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/14/2010 11:02:06 AM   
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Whiplashsmile -- I was quite the rebel in my youth. What I did know however was how to save my own skin. I pushed limits all the time, however, I knew what survival was and what was pushing things too far.

Dressing the way the OP described was not pushing things too far where I grew  up. In my early 20s, many a time I went out with knee-high black Doc Martens, a mid thigh school girl skirt, a black camisole and a pair of pony tails or some kind of combo like that. I never had issues with cops, in fact my girlfriends and I got checked out by most. But then I think I live in a much more liberal society.

Today, with maturity, I don't feel the need to push boundaries publically and prefer doing it within the realms of intimate situations. Also, I gave up my knee-high Doc Martens for Louboutins ;-)

- LA


It's taken me a bit to get back and respond to this. There was something I needed to find first. I had come upon across from part of the "Goth Crowd" that's part of the social circle on my myspace friends. There's even a video that made regarding this unfortunate and needless death. Sophie Lancaster - Myspace. There's also an official website set up http://www.sophielancasterfoundation.com/index1.html

I'm amazing in doing a google lookup that it's even made it's way into the Wikipedia.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Sophie_Lancaster



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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/14/2010 12:45:02 PM   
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-547708/The-haunting-picture-Sophie-Lancaster-beaten-death-Goth.html

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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/14/2010 1:32:05 PM   
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Nor was the OP out of line. Drunked up stumbling around naked in the streets with a bottle of Jack Daniels in hand yelling at everybody in the world for being so Vanilla, and Being Down on her ass for age play.


I do regard her as being out of line and it has nothing to do with her age play. The feel I got from her OP is that she is deliberately making herself look younger, and knowing that the police have already had trouble pegging her age, she doesn't make sure that she has her ID on her to clear things up or cover herself up so the the clothing doesn't show.

When people knowingly do things that attract police attention and there is no valid reason, I regard that as out of line as it's a waste of the time and considering I pay for their time... Now, if she made sure she had her ID on her and took reasonable steps to avoid police interferences while dressed to ageplay, long coat, maybe not putting her hair till she arrives, etc, then I would be completely in agreement with her.

Being only 25 myself, I barely escaped the era being carded for being out too late at night in my hometown. Squeaked out by the skin my teeth actually. After a birthday laws were passed regarding everyone just younger than me. I had friends who went through all that you described though and that doesn't soften my opinion. If people are doing something that looks like they are breaking a law, than they should be ready to show, politely and respectfully to the nice officer, that they aren't.


Not all police officers are so nice. in fact some are assholes on power trips and blah blah blah... Just because somebody is a Police Officer does not automatically mean they are Nice and Fair. Some are mean ass idiots, some don't know the meaning of self control as well.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X696-MnwP9A

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZlXbUatPc-A

Here's one to watch and think about it... She Called the Police for HELP.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tVJb_wkI7jk





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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/14/2010 1:38:03 PM   
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Not all police officers are so nice. in fact some are assholes on power trips and blah blah blah... Just because somebody is a Police Officer does not automatically mean they are Nice and Fair. Some are mean ass idiots, some don't know the meaning of self control as well.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X696-MnwP9A
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZlXbUatPc-A




I'm more than aware Whip, I was being a bit flippant.

It really doesn't matter though. She is aware that when she does X it appears she is breaking the law so she needs to be responsible and be ready to prove that she is not so that she doesn't waste time and resources. If the police officers act unreasonably, then she needs to report them so that (hopefully) they are removed from their position of power and don't continue to bother citizans who haven't done anything wrong.

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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/14/2010 1:55:09 PM   
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I was being a bit flippant.

Oh my, it's been years since I heard somebody drag that word out and use it.. :-) Sort of love hearing it though. :-) nice vocabulary word.

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RE: age play in public can be hard - 2/14/2010 1:58:01 PM   
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Looks like the OP went poof on us, I was so much hoping to see some of her Little Girl pictures. Drat darn it all, what is with these hit and run teases that start up threads.

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