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Seattle slave looking for platonic slave friends IRL - 2/14/2010 10:10:50 AM

Communist42

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Hello! I'm pretty new to all this and have a lot of questions. My training has become a huge part of my life, but I wish that I had friends that I could have girl talk with about it! Are there any slaves in Seattle who would like to meet up and hang out?

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RE: Seattle slave looking for platonic slave friends IRL - 2/14/2010 10:16:53 AM

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RE: Seattle slave looking for platonic slave friends IRL - 2/14/2010 11:33:59 AM

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I should probably elaborate. I'm a new full-time TPE slave for a master whom I met four years ago but only recently began training with. There are a lot of aspects of our relationship that I don't understand quite as well without a mirror from real-life people. I want to be able to share experiences with other slaves so that I can better understand what's going on. This stuff is deeply personal, of course, but I have always relied upon the people around me to help define my reality. I'd rather ask my friends what they think is normal than look to media - and I'd also rather get book recommendations from people whose opinions I respect than strangers on the Internet. I very much crave the wisdom of my peers, and I think that I need it to have the right perspective. I also miss being able to talk about my love life with my friends! I'm a very honest and open person, and it's very difficult for me to not blurt out some things that most of my friends would not understand! I'd love to have some 'safe' friends :-)

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RE: Seattle slave looking for platonic slave friends IRL - 2/14/2010 11:37:44 AM

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RE: Seattle slave looking for platonic slave friends IRL - 2/14/2010 11:40:05 AM

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Welcome to the boards.

i have found as a slave that it can be hard to make IRL slave friends, simply because every slave's Owner is different in regards to the types of interactions they allow with others.

i would suggest that you search for local BDSM groups in your area - i don't know Seattle, but it seems there should be some - and then attend some meetings and see if you connect with any other submissives and slaves in that way. Perhaps other people here from your area could suggest a group.

Also, FetLife can be a good site to network with people to meet in real life. CollarMe seems to be good to meet people in certain areas, but for the most part it seems to me that the members of these boards primarily are here for online discussion.

i would suggest that when talking with other slaves please remember that each Owner/slave relationship is unique, and that what works for one (or some) may not work for others, and what your Master asks of you may be different from others as well, which is fine, as long as it works for you and you are fulfilled as your Master's slave.

Good luck to you.

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RE: Seattle slave looking for platonic slave friends IRL - 2/15/2010 8:12:55 AM

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