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what not to say - 2/15/2010 12:47:12 AM   
KinkyColby


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Status: offline 		don't ever say this if you meet a sub. it's a bad idea. when a sub wants to meet in a public place it's for their safety. they will just blow up at you and make you feel even more insecure then your sorry ass already was.

YOU HAVE SAID NOTHING  TO MAKE ME WANTTOO MEET YOU AT  A PLACE OF YOUR CHOICE


WE CAN  MEET A  PLAY  PLACE  BUT OF MY  CHOOSING  THIS IS  NOT LET ME  A DEAL  GO TO SOFT  WEAK  ONE  BUT IF YOUR INTERESTING IN ME  I  DECID E  THE WHEN   OR WHERE  IF THAT A PRPOBLEM    STOP AN  GO FIND  WHAT YOU WNAT  ELSE  WHERE 

DO YOU FOLLOW  MEE

Sorry....had to vent people!
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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 12:51:52 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Umm... Well... welcome to the boards since it's your fourth post. Just FYI: Posting people's messages to you is a no-no and the mods get fussy about it.

Sorry you had to deal with someone who was a dick but they exist in all walks of life. Delete and move on to the awesome ones.

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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 3:00:50 AM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		Nope . . . I've never said that.

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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 3:24:14 AM   
dreamerdreaming


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ORIGINAL: KinkyColby

don't ever say this if you meet a sub. it's a bad idea. when a sub wants to meet in a public place it's for their safety. they will just blow up at you and make you feel even more insecure then your sorry ass already was.

YOU HAVE SAID NOTHING  TO MAKE ME WANTTOO MEET YOU AT  A PLACE OF YOUR CHOICE


WE CAN  MEET A  PLAY  PLACE  BUT OF MY  CHOOSING  THIS IS  NOT LET ME  A DEAL  GO TO SOFT  WEAK  ONE  BUT IF YOUR INTERESTING IN ME  I  DECID E  THE WHEN   OR WHERE  IF THAT A PRPOBLEM    STOP AN  GO FIND  WHAT YOU WNAT  ELSE  WHERE 

DO YOU FOLLOW  MEE

Sorry....had to vent people!




No worries- by the looks of "her" English, "she" is probably in Africa anyway.

Live and learn.

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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 3:31:18 AM   
DarlingSavage


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KinkyColby

don't ever say this if you meet a sub. it's a bad idea. when a sub wants to meet in a public place it's for their safety. they will just blow up at you and make you feel even more insecure then your sorry ass already was.

YOU HAVE SAID NOTHING  TO MAKE ME WANTTOO MEET YOU AT  A PLACE OF YOUR CHOICE


WE CAN  MEET A  PLAY  PLACE  BUT OF MY  CHOOSING  THIS IS  NOT LET ME  A DEAL  GO TO SOFT  WEAK  ONE  BUT IF YOUR INTERESTING IN ME  I  DECID E  THE WHEN   OR WHERE  IF THAT A PRPOBLEM    STOP AN  GO FIND  WHAT YOU WNAT  ELSE  WHERE 

DO YOU FOLLOW  MEE

Sorry....had to vent people!



Did they just start spelling like this? I really wouldn't consider meeting anyone that couldn't at least spell! I HATE that!

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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 3:46:05 AM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Yelling by itself would be enough to make me rethink everything.  And getting upset over the public meeting place?  Either you were dealing with a wanker, or it could have been dangerous for you.

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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 5:01:15 AM   
stoshbig


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Status: offline 		I could have told you that.

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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 10:03:55 AM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Nope . . . I've never said that.


Don't worry, I believe you. For all our differences, I at least expect a certain degree of eloquence out of you.

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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 10:05:52 AM   
MasterSlaveLA


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Status: offline 		I have a better "what not to say"...

"I've just shit and pissed my pants, reached in to that squishy goodness, and am in the process of using my hands to write your name on my bedroom walls with my own filth... I will then be making you a sandwich; what time will you be home for lunch?!!" 



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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 10:10:47 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Well there goes my desire to eat...

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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 10:30:05 AM   
RedMagic1


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Status: offline 		Colby, I wouldn't have agreed to meet anyone off of chat or emails alone.  Phone calls are a must for me.  However, I don't see anything wrong with meeting at a public dungeon or a munch that the domme (i.e., the WOMAN) decides.  Women risk more in meetings than men do, even if they are dommes.  In fact, I have always told women we can meet wherever they want, they can dress however they feel safest, and they are welcome to bring as many friends as they want with them.  No one has ever taken me up on the "friends" thing, though a couple ladies set safe calls.  In fact, more often that not, they turn around and ask me to decide what restaurant we will meet at, and/or they ask me how I would like them to dress.

It's not a big deal to meet someone at a public dungeon.  It doesn't mean you'll be flayed alive and gangraped.  It means you'll meet the domme at a place she feels comfortable and safe.

Being accomodating -- and not-creepy -- goes a long way.

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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 10:49:43 AM   
Phoenixpower


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

getting upset over the public meeting place? 


gosh I soooooooooo wish that this would have ever been my biggest worry from meeting someone from here

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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 11:58:58 AM   
MasterSlaveLA


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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Well there goes my desire to eat...


What... you don't want a sammich?!! 



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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 2:55:15 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		It sounds like this person is confusing being Dominant with being aggressive and overbearing. You didnt mention it but the Dom/me sounds like a newbie puffing up their chest and putting on a show of what they think Dominance is so you'll buy it. If a Dom/me is being cavalier about your personal safety it says all kinds of bad things about them personally. I wouldn't trust that type of person to respect my safeword or limits.

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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 4:25:26 PM   
HisSweetElysium


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Status: offline 		Okay I read that twice and I'm still not convinced it's English.  Yes, I would agree don't ever say this to a sub, as they are going to be scratching their head in confusion, wondering if you huffed too much paint.  

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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 5:07:39 PM   
windchymes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

I have a better "what not to say"...

"I've just shit and pissed my pants, reached in to that squishy goodness, and am in the process of using my hands to write your name on my bedroom walls with my own filth... I will then be making you a sandwich; what time will you be home for lunch?!!" 




Somewhere in the world, maybe even on this forum, someone just fell in love.......



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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 5:30:58 PM   
Kaiel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: KinkyColby

don't ever say this if you meet a sub. it's a bad idea. when a sub wants to meet in a public place it's for their safety. they will just blow up at you and make you feel even more insecure then your sorry ass already was.

YOU HAVE SAID NOTHING  TO MAKE ME WANTTOO MEET YOU AT  A PLACE OF YOUR CHOICE


WE CAN  MEET A  PLAY  PLACE  BUT OF MY  CHOOSING  THIS IS  NOT LET ME  A DEAL  GO TO SOFT  WEAK  ONE  BUT IF YOUR INTERESTING IN ME  I  DECID E  THE WHEN   OR WHERE  IF THAT A PRPOBLEM    STOP AN  GO FIND  WHAT YOU WNAT  ELSE  WHERE 

DO YOU FOLLOW  MEE

Sorry....had to vent people!



Errr DarkSteven, translation please?! LOL


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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 6:47:18 PM   
KinkyColby


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Status: offline 		i hate to say it but it is not so true about women being safer, maybe as a generality but not always. I have been raped by a woman and i did not feel safe. Public dungeons are great, but she wouldn't go to one that i chose, where i have friends. I wouldn't, shouldn't, go to one where i don't feel safe. Anyhow, the post was a lil less than sophisticated and didn't show my best side but I was very offended at the time and needed to vent. I'm still offended. Anyhow....

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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 6:50:19 PM   
DarkSteven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kaiel

quote:

ORIGINAL: KinkyColby

don't ever say this if you meet a sub. it's a bad idea. when a sub wants to meet in a public place it's for their safety. they will just blow up at you and make you feel even more insecure then your sorry ass already was.

YOU HAVE SAID NOTHING  TO MAKE ME WANTTOO MEET YOU AT  A PLACE OF YOUR CHOICE


WE CAN  MEET A  PLAY  PLACE  BUT OF MY  CHOOSING  THIS IS  NOT LET ME  A DEAL  GO TO SOFT  WEAK  ONE  BUT IF YOUR INTERESTING IN ME  I  DECID E  THE WHEN   OR WHERE  IF THAT A PRPOBLEM    STOP AN  GO FIND  WHAT YOU WNAT  ELSE  WHERE 

DO YOU FOLLOW  MEE

Sorry....had to vent people!



Errr DarkSteven, translation please?! LOL



Sure!

It's a bunch of incoherent yelling saying "We're gonna meet where I say!", with some blustering thrown in.

Wonder if I could get a job as a D/s translator...


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RE: what not to say - 2/15/2010 6:50:27 PM   
KinkyColby


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Status: offline 		ROFL ROFL ROFL.....
and....ewwww nasty...mommy she made my happy meal sad....
quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterSlaveLA

I have a better "what not to say"...

"I've just shit and pissed my pants, reached in to that squishy goodness, and am in the process of using my hands to write your name on my bedroom walls with my own filth... I will then be making you a sandwich; what time will you be home for lunch?!!" 



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