What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you?

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PrincessEllie -> What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/15/2010 11:35:17 PM)
I'm pretty deeply curious about the Dominant psychology because I don't understand it very well at all, being as I am on the other end of the spectrum. I want to know what it means to be a Dom to you. I want to know what you enjoy about being in the Dominant role. I'm also curious to find any websites which deal with the psychology of Dominance. Especially sites which explain Dom/sub relations and the Dom's responsibility to their subs.

CelticNightmare -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/15/2010 11:38:43 PM)
It means expressing who I am. You aren't going to find this in a text book. How many snow flakes can you match?

elleX -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 12:02:27 AM)
... i am also on the other side like you,, Princess,,, and i beleive there is also many definition,,, i alway found that site interesting and well written House of Tanos ; www.tanos.org.uk/

DarkSteven -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 5:34:11 AM)
If you've ever had a child or a pet, you will understand the desire to own something, to take care of something. Now take that same dynamic and apply it to an adult that you love and care for... it blows my mind. Plus the sex is pretty darn good.

osf -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 6:05:27 AM)
it's the way i see women, i think if they would be useful to me with a woman that i have a relationship with it's knowing i exert control over her when i'm using her in some fashion well it just gets my cock hard other than that i'm just like everybody else oh, and i expect her to do things for me , like clean and cook etc

texangael -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 6:26:23 AM)
quote: I want to know what it means to be a Dom to you. I want to know what you enjoy about being in the Dominant role. It means I live in my house as I wish. It means I build my home in the manner I desire, I fill it with the people I desire, and I rule over that home as I desire. What do I enjoy about it? I enjoy having a voice that commands. I enjoy the challenge of providing a structure in which other people may grow and thrive. And I enjoy having the power to keep my woman naked at all times![8D]

PrincessEllie -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 7:00:12 AM)
Thank you all for your input, especially everyone who is not Mr. Vanilla firstposter. I like the Tanos site very much/

afkarr -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 7:42:16 AM)
www.leathernroses.com The Loving Dominant Different Loving both available through Barnes and Noble

Icarys -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 7:54:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PrincessEllie I'm pretty deeply curious about the Dominant psychology because I don't understand it very well at all, being as I am on the other end of the spectrum. I want to know what it means to be a Dom to you. I want to know what you enjoy about being in the Dominant role. I'm also curious to find any websites which deal with the psychology of Dominance. Especially sites which explain Dom/sub relations and the Dom's responsibility to their subs. It means I get the remote when I want it. It means I can share it IF I want to but it's not a requirement.

CelticNightmare -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 8:20:56 AM)
I get to leave the toilet seat up without being nagged about it. :)

sunshinemiss -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 9:19:22 AM)
If you've ever had a child or a pet, you will understand the desire to own something, to take care of something. Now take that same dynamic and apply it to an adult that you love and care for... it blows my mind. I enjoy the challenge of providing a structure in which other people may grow and thrive. Best answers yet! It is about responsibility... If you don't recognize that...

Icarys -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 9:19:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticNightmare I get to leave the toilet seat up without being nagged about it. :) (3:00 am) Wait for it.. Wait for it.... Wait for it.......! (Screams in the night) Wet butt on a porcelain throne! Music to my ears[:D]

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 10:42:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven If you've ever had a child or a pet, you will understand the desire to own something, to take care of something. Now take that same dynamic and apply it to an adult that you love and care for... it blows my mind. Plus the sex is pretty darn good. quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Best answers yet! It is about responsibility... If you don't recognize that... The man obviously has more than cookies to offer!

CelticNightmare -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 10:44:31 AM)
Big girls can learn to put the toilet seat DOWN. It's my house,and I don't want to have to cater to someone every time I need to piss.

PrincessEllie -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 11:03:09 AM)
I never want my Dom to read this thread, or he'll start leaving the seat up after I've gone to bed so my sleepy ass can fall in the potty (which needs cleaning).

CelticNightmare -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 11:11:05 AM)
But think of the benefit in your increase in housekeepng skills!

Ialdabaoth -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 12:27:59 PM)
For me, being the Master means that I can dictate the nature of the relationship. It means that I'm allowed to be compassionate, instead of being forced to be self-protective, because I know that if my needs are threatened, I can have them met by fiat. Paradoxically, being the Dominant allows me to focus more attention on my partners - I can afford to be more vulnerable and compassionate because I have explicit permission to correct any of the issues that usually punish vulnerability and compassion.

Kaiel -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 1:48:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CelticNightmare Big girls can learn to put the toilet seat DOWN. It's my house,and I don't want to have to cater to someone every time I need to piss. Celtic I was all friendly to you on the other side... But, now! Uhmph!! I am a Domme .... but I do have to say Big boys can learn to put the toilet seat down as a curiosity to those they live with with or entertain....Most men learn this from their mommies! It's not a convenience thing... it's a respect thing... so Us Women don't have to touch a piss stained seat! :)

CelticNightmare -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 2:03:05 PM)
But I am not exactly a slave to convention. ;)

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: What does it mean to be a Dom/Master to you? (2/16/2010 2:11:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kaiel quote: ORIGINAL: CelticNightmare Big girls can learn to put the toilet seat DOWN. It's my house,and I don't want to have to cater to someone every time I need to piss. Celtic I was all friendly to you on the other side... But, now! Uhmph!! I am a Domme .... but I do have to say Big boys can learn to put the toilet seat down as a curiosity to those they live with with or entertain....Most men learn this from their mommies! It's not a convenience thing... it's a respect thing... so Us Women don't have to touch a piss stained seat! :) Ooo Hell.. just take the Fucker off... unbolt and remove... nothing left to fight about. How do you like me now?

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