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Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 10:41:03 AM   
MsLeatherLace69


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Status: offline 		I have received several requests to "kidnap" sissy boys and sub girls.  I always deny such requests as kidnapping is a federal crime and I worry about the mental stability of anyone making such a request. 

Do you consider this a legitimate fetish request?  Is it an indication of mental problems?  Would you comply with such a request? 

I hope we have a lively discussion from Tops and bottoms. 
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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 11:01:30 AM   
sodsta


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Status: offline 		Kidnapping fantasies are actually amazingly common. As are "rape" and "force" fantasies. It can be a little on the risky side, depending on how the "kidnapping" is handled and carried out, but a lot of the time, when a sub/bottom says they want to be kidnapped, what they really mean is they want to play out a kidnapping scenario with you. They want you to grab them and "force" them into restraints, or they want you to somehow coerce them into complying. It's role-play, essentially, and it's done between fully aware, consenting adults.

Wanting to be "kidnapped" in this way is certainly not a sign of any kind of mental problem. A lot of people, myself included, have kidnapping and abduction fantasies.

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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 11:07:59 AM   
Madame4a


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Status: offline 		I'm not big on doing things that people "request" ... maybe you're a pro?  If so.. I understand the requests...

as to kidnapping... I've done take downs and terrorize... but I haven't nabbed anyone off the street -- taken them from leather events, or at the dungeon once we got there... I think the nabbing off the street could get you into trouble...

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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 1:40:50 PM   
Kaiel


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ORIGINAL: Madame4a

I'm not big on doing things that people "request" ... maybe you're a pro?  If so.. I understand the requests...

as to kidnapping... I've done take downs and terrorize... but I haven't nabbed anyone off the street -- taken them from leather events, or at the dungeon once we got there... I think the nabbing off the street could get you into trouble...


Ditto... I don't do request... I do things I like to do... kidnapping isn't one of My kinks...so , I would say NO to the scenario.



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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 2:00:12 PM   
PrincessDonna


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Status: offline 		I would at the very least make sure there is a written contract and that you have seen the persons Id,might even file it with county, you can do that you know any paper can be filed,I would just try to keep as much legal trouble away from me as possible.

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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 3:30:54 PM   
MsLeatherLace69


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Status: offline 		These have been requests from people in other states wanting me to drive and literally kidnap them from their current life so they can enter slave service.  The idea scares me. 

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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 3:44:50 PM   
Kaiel


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ORIGINAL: MsLeatherLace69

These have been requests from people in other states wanting me to drive and literally kidnap them from their current life so they can enter slave service.  The idea scares me. 


The "request" is a little too fantasy for Me...


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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 4:45:21 PM   
LadyAngelika


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quote:

Do you consider this a legitimate fetish request?

What makes a fetish legitimate? I always thought that having said fetish legitimized it.

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Is it an indication of mental problems?

I wouldn't make a diagnosis just on a fetish.

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Would you comply with such a request? 

Nope. Not my kink.

I would however lock him up in a cage for a few hours if he presented me with mental and emotional stimulation and I he demonstrated to me that he was pursuing me for more than just play ;-)

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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 4:46:27 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: MsLeatherLace69

These have been requests from people in other states wanting me to drive and literally kidnap them from their current life so they can enter slave service.  The idea scares me. 


If the idea scares you, then simply don't do it :-)

- LA


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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 4:50:16 PM   
ourmsbetty


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ORIGINAL: MsLeatherLace69

These have been requests from people in other states wanting me to drive and literally kidnap them from their current life so they can enter slave service.  The idea scares me. 


Wow. Yeah, I wouldn't touch that either.  But "kidnapping" someone you know well can be fun.

Ms. Betty
who does consider requests, occasionally, as birthday presents and special rewards.


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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 4:53:01 PM   
PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLeatherLace69

These have been requests from people in other states wanting me to drive and literally kidnap them from their current life so they can enter slave service.  The idea scares me. 


If the idea scares you, then simply don't do it :-)

- LA


Wow - that'd make a good story, though.  Nice!


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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 4:57:56 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsLeatherLace69

These have been requests from people in other states wanting me to drive and literally kidnap them from their current life so they can enter slave service.  The idea scares me. 


If the idea scares you, then simply don't do it :-)

- LA


Wow - that'd make a good story, though.  Nice!



I'm currently designing a large suitcase that contains 8 hours of air supply and I've acquired the security strategy plans at Heathrow in the Intl' flights terminal ;-)

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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 5:34:23 PM   
PeonForHer


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Status: offline 		Put a flask of tea in there and I think I'd be perfectly comfy, LA

Seriously, this subject came up a while ago.  I can't remember the OP's name, otherwise I'd link to it.  The gist of it, as I recall, was that a Domme (having been approached by the sub's friends, I think) wanted to effect a kidnapping, then a kind of interrogation scene.  The sub in question was a military man and trained in unarmed combat - a brute-force 'assault' didn't seem like a good idea.  I think the conclusion was either some kind of mickey finn or a honey trap.  The only trouble was, I thought, that the sub - being military - might well assume that he'd been kidnapped by terrorists.  That would have been very much playing with fire.

Well, one thing's for sure: whether or not one is actually kidnapped - to suddenly find oneself immobilised (handcuffs, whatever)_is an enormous turn-on.  I would imagine.  For many subs. 

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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 6:06:17 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Put a flask of tea in there and I think I'd be perfectly comfy, LA


Oh and I suppose that like VaguelyCurious you put a lot of sugar in your tea? ;-)

quote:

Seriously, this subject came up a while ago.  I can't remember the OP's name, otherwise I'd link to it.  The gist of it, as I recall, was that a Domme (having been approached by the sub's friends, I think) wanted to effect a kidnapping, then a kind of interrogation scene.  The sub in question was a military man and trained in unarmed combat - a brute-force 'assault' didn't seem like a good idea.  I think the conclusion was either some kind of mickey finn or a honey trap.  The only trouble was, I thought, that the sub - being military - might well assume that he'd been kidnapped by terrorists.  That would have been very much playing with fire.

Wow. Yeah, that was a potential disaster. Then again, kidnapping anyone without them even being alerted or expressing the desire would be completely unconsensual and dangerous.

quote:

Well, one thing's for sure: whether or not one is actually kidnapped - to suddenly find oneself immobilised (handcuffs, whatever)_is an enormous turn-on.  I would imagine.  For many subs. 


I was "kidnapped" once and swept away for a lovely romantic weekend. Funny how he was the one who wound up bound and gagged!

- LA


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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 6:17:27 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		A request made by someone that you don't know that lives states away?  Excuse Me for a moment while I laugh My head off for a few moments.  

OK.  Now that I got that part out of the way.....

As was said, kidnapping scenes and such are very common fantasies.  It adds a bit of role play to any 'forced' scenario where the bottom wants to feel that they are completely out of control.  For the safety (and freedom) or the top, there is no way I would consider doing this with someone that I don't know.  I would have to be well assured that there would be no legal issues from it.  That includes things like taking down the bottom on the street in full public view. 

There are some ways to do it where you don't have that issue.  Madame4a already mentioned doing this within the confines of a club or at an event.  (Always inform the DMs of your plans prior to the start of the scene.)  The other way to be creative about it is to do this in some form at home.  Extend the role play to include the bottom as a pizza delivery boy or door to door salesman.  Invite them in and take them down once the door is closed.

Yes, making the arrangements ahead of time takes away some of the surprise element, but does take some of the risk out of it for the top.


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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 6:32:16 PM   
PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Oh and I suppose that like VaguelyCurious you put a lot of sugar in your tea? ;-)



You may or may not know this, LA, but men are supposed to take two sugars, or none, whereas women are supposed to take one sugar, or none.  Since I'm a bit of a nancy boy, I take one sugar.

It all seems such a fine line.  As LP says, some warning in advance is necessary.  At the same time, too much warning could ruin it.  I guess the 'victim' has to be at least a bit surprised and feel as though he's been at least a bit 'forced'.  Still, I reckon it could be done.

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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 6:42:54 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Oh and I suppose that like VaguelyCurious you put a lot of sugar in your tea? ;-)



You may or may not know this, LA, but men are supposed to take two sugars, or none, whereas women are supposed to take one sugar, or none.  Since I'm a bit of a nancy boy, I take one sugar.


A nancy boy?? You?? I take no sugar and VaguelyCurious thinks I'm an anomaly for it!
Puts on her best english accent: "No thanks luv, I'm sweet enough!"

quote:

It all seems such a fine line.  As LP says, some warning in advance is necessary.  At the same time, too much warning could ruin it.  I guess the 'victim' has to be at least a bit surprised and feel as though he's been at least a bit 'forced'.  Still, I reckon it could be done.


Exactly. He doesn't know when, where, under which circumstance but he knows it's coming and just that can be torture ;-)

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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 6:56:15 PM   
MsLeatherLace69


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Status: offline 		Perhaps I should have posted this on the submissive forum to get their point of view. 
Someone suggested I am a magnet to draw this type of request. 

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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 7:05:23 PM   
Kaiel


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ORIGINAL: MsLeatherLace69

Perhaps I should have posted this on the submissive forum to get their point of view. 
Someone suggested I am a magnet to draw this type of request. 


Please explain your magnetism to draw request like the ones you listed....


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RE: Kidnapping - 2/16/2010 7:18:26 PM   
thishereboi


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Status: offline 		They did kidnapping at Leather Retreat one year. I did not participate, but it was great fun to watch. Nothing like sitting on the porch and seeing a naked blonde run by, pursued by 3 or 4 guys.

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