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domiguy -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:12:33 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BLoved

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail
Couble of things, that is not the only only of bottom lines, but assume it were, so now he has lust and she has lust.........they benefit theyownselves.....each according to their kind.

Where lies the travesty, where is the supposition of abuse?


I suggest you read the essay called "Casual BDSM and Emotional Abuse: The Case for Love" in my profile.


It was a riveting and breathtaking read. Roberto, are you published?




GreedyTop -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:15:26 AM)

he's still ignoring me, Domi...  make him respond!!




mnottertail -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:16:12 AM)

I wouldn't waste my time with it, it can be easily surmised that I would find it profoundly flawed, and devoid of interesti based on your responses to me out here.

But I am an to each their own sorta guy, so I say, good to see you Bob.

Ron




BLoved -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:16:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy
Roberto!!!! Welcome home!!! You furry old fart.
How has the fishing been these last few years? Is the freezer full of walleye fillets?


~smile~

I've never been one to eat much fish, Domi.

I was much surprised to learn you were banned. "Nettles and lilies" indeed ;)

Welcome back.




redwoodgirl -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:17:20 AM)


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ORIGINAL: domiguy


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ORIGINAL: redwoodgirl

Hiya Domi [sm=oddballs.gif]


To the OP, I dunno about legend,
Ive been around a while and Ive never heard of ya.
Sorry buddy. [sm=passthelube.gif]


Now that you are getting married. We can no longer talk. You would inevitably fall for me and the resulting loss of your love is something that I cannot be a part of.

But you are kind of bangable and brown. Two highly coveted traits....

"The love game is never called off on account of darkness." ~Tom Masson

I pretty much bang'em all, if I love them.



Well that sux
I just may cancel my wedding
(not ;))




LadyPact -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:18:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BLoved

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
I will thank you very much to stop proposing your opinions as fact.


I've learned over the years that people make many claims regarding expertise, and yet are unable to reflect that in their online behaviour.

I am not easily impressed by claims, nor do I expect others to be.

I have described my paradigm, I've explained why it matters to me and the reasoning behind it can be found in my profile.

Anyone can read it and everyone is invited to do so.

I believe each person can and should make up their own mind.

In what way does this offend? That I have stated my beliefs? That I stand by them? That thus far no one has countered the arguments made there?

Perhaps those who feel their feathers are being ruffled might ask why they've drawn so much attention to me in the first place?

If I'm an "imbecilic dolt", as Holly claimed, why all the attention? ;)

Ummmm, because the thread is quite laughable and ever so much more entertaining than doing My laundry.

By the way, you can quit referring Me to whatever it was that you typed up in your journal, the creative writing section or any other place.  You, in and of yourself, are really not that interesting.  If it weren't for the hilarity of the other contributors in this thread, I wouldn't be wasting My time on it. 

You have yet to produce any positive proof on your theories of what is abusive.  When you can do so, other than your own 'observations', is when I will gladly read any verifiable source that you can post.  Other than that, your theory does not match My life experiences.

I hold nothing against you for your personal belief that love must be intertwined with BDSM, sex, or both.  When a person is not the object of lust, love is needed in the equation for someone to want to interact with them intimately.  Otherwise, there is no drive.  When I get to be your age and should I be alone, I may feel the very same way about it.    Lacking those attributes that inspire lust, you'd have to rely that those urges would come should someone actually love you.




RedMagic1 -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:18:47 AM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy
But you are kind of bangable and brown.

She sure is!

Meanwhile, you are pulling hot quotes from cold books.  Do chicks know you can read?  Publicizing that little fact seems unfair to me, somehow.  Pout.

And double pout, because no one beeleeeeeved me about this thread!!!!!!!!  My "so mote" is so broke.




BLoved -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:19:30 AM)

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
I bet you are quite tickled with the attention.


The thing about being a legend is you can show up on any site and get this reaction.




Wolf2Bear -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:19:44 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BLoved

I've not chosen to live this life for over a quarter-century without learning a few things along the way, and being who I am the ethics of what I do was the most important thing for me to understand.



Ahhh..here's the crux.

Then as someone who has spent the past quarter century learning would have learned along the way that using the appropriate choice of words to convey your opinion is vital. Yes having read through all of your posts in this thread, it is clear that yoiur choice of wording statements leave no doubt that your are trying to eschew the fact that the knowledge you gained is the one true way - which is utter bullshit. Your knowledge is valod...yet it applies to you and you alone and not to the thousands of people on this site or the millions of kinksters on this planet.

With all your talk about love and lust, I noticed that desire and affection wasn't even mentioned. Yet desire and affection is also part of love and a part of lust. The fact is we humans define our own individual definitions to what love/lust/desire/affection is according to our individual perceptions.

It is all fine and dandy to spout the virtues of love over lust yet you can not ignore both have their negative counterparts and both can lead to negative consequences too.

People have killed others in the name of love
Love can drive a person to be insanely obsessed with another
love can drive a person to suicide.
love can manipulate another into doing inhumane actions.
Lust can also do the same.
Lust can also start the healing process in teaching a person they have the ability to care/desire/love another person.

So as you can see love and lust wears many different masks and it's a wise person who has gained the ability to distinguish when it is or isn't appropriate to act upon them. Now this is what I learned in the past quarter century. The thing is: all I learned in the past 49 years has been learned for my benefit, not yours, not LadyP's or anyone else but for me only. It is too bloody sad that some can't understand that.




Wolf2Bear -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:23:26 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

Lady P.. I think you should double up.. me and Bear... that would be so AWESOME!!!!

I've been saying that for a long time.



road trip!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!






GreedyTop -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:24:21 AM)

We'll need a different car though.. mine wont make it




JonnieBoy -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:24:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BLoved

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
I bet you are quite tickled with the attention.


The thing about being a legend is you can show up on any site and get this reaction.


Even I can do that ... plank.

Pirate




LadyPact -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:25:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BLoved

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
I bet you are quite tickled with the attention.


The thing about being a legend is you can show up on any site and get this reaction.

No, it means you can show up on any site with an opinion and get people to disagree with you.


For the record, can anyone explain to Me the recent surge of senior citizen, single, supposedly *dominant* males who need to create threads in order to bring attention to themselves?  If I get to be that insecure and pathetic in My old age, will someone please shoot Me?




Wolf2Bear -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:25:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: domiguy
But you are kind of bangable and brown.

She sure is!

Meanwhile, you are pulling hot quotes from cold books.  Do chicks know you can read?  Publicizing that little fact seems unfair to me, somehow.  Pout.

And double pout, because no one beeleeeeeved me about this thread!!!!!!!!  My "so mote" is so broke.



~hands Red a box of cookies~




Wolf2Bear -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:27:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: BLoved

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
I bet you are quite tickled with the attention.


The thing about being a legend is you can show up on any site and get this reaction.

No, it means you can show up on any site with an opinion and get people to disagree with you.


For the record, can anyone explain to Me the recent surge of senior citizen, single, supposedly *dominant* males who need to create threads in order to bring attention to themselves?  If I get to be that insecure and pathetic in My old age, will someone please shoot Me?



Erm......when, in 50 years?




BLoved -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:28:09 AM)

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
When you say it is either lust or love, and that anyone who views that differently is wrong then you are telling everyone else they have to do it your way.


I am sure there are people who wish to see it that way, but that would not be the case.

I am introducing my paradigm and explaining how I view reality.

Others disagree, as is their right, but thus far they've provided no reasons for me to change my point of view.

No one "has to" do it my way, or anyone else's way for that matter.

Each person makes up his or her own mind.

My paradigm is merely another way of looking at bdsm, one they may wish to consider.

It is up to them what they do with it.

Now how does that work out to me telling everyone what they "have to" do?

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By announcing your way is the only true way and the rest of us don't understand, you are being condescending and rude.


Not at all. I am expressing my beliefs, describing my paradigm, explaining what it means to me, and I am being told that to be so candid with my beliefs is "rude".

Why?

Because I disagree with others.

So tell me, how are you and the others here not pushing a "One True Way" agenda by insisting everyone must believe casual bdsm is safe?




GreedyTop -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:28:13 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: BLoved

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ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19
I bet you are quite tickled with the attention.


The thing about being a legend is you can show up on any site and get this reaction.

No, it means you can show up on any site with an opinion and get people to disagree with you.


For the record, can anyone explain to Me the recent surge of senior citizen, single, supposedly *dominant* males who need to create threads in order to bring attention to themselves?  If I get to be that insecure and pathetic in My old age, will someone please shoot Me?



I wont shoot you.. I'll just Top you ;)




RedMagic1 -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:28:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
If I get to be that insecure and pathetic in My old age, will someone please shoot Me?

Can I bring you to orgasm instead?

Edited to add:  Back off, Greedy, you fast-fingered bitch!




sunshinemiss -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:30:07 AM)

Bob, I don't recall seeing anyone say what you have just suggested. Please show the post so I may understand. I can't seem to find it. Thank you.
Sunshine

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So tell me, how are you and the others here not pushing a "One True Way" agenda by insisting everyone must believe casual bdsm is safe?




JonnieBoy -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 9:30:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

No, it means you can show up on any site with an opinion and get people to disagree with you.



Precisely my point.

Pirate




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