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LadyPact -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:42:32 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved If they cared, the relationship would be de facto Love-based, not Lust-based. I've got news for you. Those aren't the only two options out there. I am well aware that people have many many ways of characterizing realty to suit their intentions. Nonetheless, the bottom line is Love or Lust, and it is so easy to recognize the difference. Love does what it does for the benefit of the beloved. Lust does what it does for the benefit of self. That's funny, because most people will tell you that in top/bottom scenarios, the benefit is for both individuals participating.

DesFIP -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:43:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved If they cared, the relationship would be de facto Love-based, not Lust-based. I've got news for you. Those aren't the only two options out there. I am well aware that people have many many ways of characterizing realty to suit their intentions. Nonetheless, the bottom line is Love or Lust, and it is so easy to recognize the difference. Love does what it does for the benefit of the beloved. Lust does what it does for the benefit of self. So people in love can't mutually lust for each other? Because you've set it up as an either/or. And it's really sad that in all the years you've been whining around here and other sites, you haven't progressed at all. Get some help ffs.

LadyPact -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:44:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff He is a sad sad Man, best left alone. Jeff Considering his views, I'm thinking that will be the most likely outcome. Not on the boards, but absolutely in his life.

sirsholly -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:44:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse honey, there is a difference between wanting your attention and sadistically enjoying tormenting you Non-consensual sadism is merely another symptom of the casual player's dysfunction. who mentioned non-consensual?

domiguy -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:45:46 AM)
Roberto!!!! Welcome home!!! You furry old fart. How has the fishing been these last few years? Is the freezer full of walleye fillets? Oh Roberto, never mind the little people, you are and always will be part of CM lore. Have you tried the new Spicy Sweet Chili Doritos? Don't bother. They are very similar to their Nacho Doritos but only with more enhanced vomitish flavorings. Highly disappointing. The little people cannot understand our pursuit of love. They routinely settle for the first dick with a stick that they cum upon. We strive for something greater. We search for love. Roberto, you shall find what you are looking for. I have faith in you. "Bob...I got you Bob." "Love is like dew that falls on both nettles and lilies." ~Swedish Proverb May you find a csoh that is worthy of your noble pursuit.

kittinSol -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:45:51 AM)
Then you have lust that derives from love, and love that derives from lust, all intertwined into a delish cocktail... gulp gulp gulp... aaaaaaaaaaaah! Sláinte.

Wolf2Bear -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:46:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sirsholly quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse honey, there is a difference between wanting your attention and sadistically enjoying tormenting you Non-consensual sadism is merely another symptom of the casual player's dysfunction. who mentioned non-consensual? Exactly.

lusciouslips19 -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:46:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 quote: ORIGINAL: GreedyTop he STILL has ignored my post Hes ignored a few of mine too. He wont present his analysis and he also wont tell me what other topics he discusses or what hobbies he has. lol There is only one of me and there is a mob of people who want my attention. The life of a legend is not always easy ;) I bet you are quite tickled with the attention.

BLoved -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:47:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 I also resent the hell out of those who think they have a right to tell me how to live. I fail to see why anyone should "resent" anyone explaining their paradigm for bdsm. What I see is a lot of resentment because my paradigm doesn't include yours. Who is telling who how to live here? If you can't handle people talking about their own beliefs without feeling the need to tell them they must aprove of your beliefs then perhaps you should find some other way to use your time. quote: If you want to be a good example of a kind person, then do it. But those who rant are usually not living as an example as if they were, no words , or boasts about being a legend would be necessary as their reputation would precede them. Oh I think we've established I'm a legend, whether I say it or not. I've noticed a lot of people reading this thread, and my "Who's Viewing Me" page is registering a lot of visitors. I doubt there are many introductions with as many responses or hits. As for whether I am who I say I am, each person can decide that for themselves. Between the two stories I posted to the Creative Writing forum and all I've written in my profile and journal I am quite sure any inconsistencies would be obvious. I've not chosen to live this life for over a quarter-century without learning a few things along the way, and being who I am the ethics of what I do was the most important thing for me to understand. This is my introduction, and you are chastising me for the things I've said about myself ... ... and yet, you've not bothered to read all that I've provided. So aside from our disagreement regarding casual bdsm, upon what are you basing your opinion?

GreedyTop -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:50:46 AM)
still waiting tap tap tap

domiguy -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:52:05 AM)
Roberto there is no bad publicity. "Those who are faithful know only the trivial side of love; it is the faithless who know love's tragedies." ~Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray, 1891

BLoved -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:52:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss It's obvious why you are offending people ... expecting others to adopt your personal philosophy ... To expect others to be just like you ... ~smile~ Where do you see me saying I "expect" anyone to do anything? I "expect" people will make up their own minds. I "hope" people will take the time to do their own reearch, rather than joining in the group-think and letting others do their thinking for them. If they do, I "expect" they will have a much better idea of what is going on here. In what way does this harm anyone?

sirsholly -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:52:35 AM)
quote: Love does what it does for the benefit of the beloved. Lust does what it does for the benefit of self. well damnit all to hell if i am not a selfish bitch....but i sorta like lust. A lot. A lot more than a lot. See Bob....i love my husband very much, but i also feel a great deal of lust for him...lucky man (stop rolling your eyes Domi...theylll freeze like that.) If i didn't feel the lust, i wouldn't be getting laid on a regular basis. And y'all think i am cranky NOW? HooooBaby.....i can be downright unpleasant if i don't...well...you get my drift.

DesFIP -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:52:46 AM)
When you say it is either lust or love, and that anyone who views that differently is wrong then you are telling everyone else they have to do it your way. No different then saying there are only two worthwhile kinds of cookies out there, chocolate chip and oatmeal, and then being condescending when I say there are more such as; chocolate almond biscotti, chocolate toffee mandelbrot and peanut butter blossoms. By announcing your way is the only true way and the rest of us don't understand, you are being condescending and rude. And we resent that. But we explained all this last time, and the time before. So stop being disingenuous unless you really don't understand and if that's the case, then you need professional help for your delusions.

BLoved -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:54:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss There is a term that comes to mind, by the way. Savior Complex. ~smile~ Feel free to compare me with whomever you wish. I simply consider it me introducing me.

sunshinemiss -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:54:59 AM)
Greedy, Here is the dealio. He is one of those people who can not have an actual debate. He does not support his ideas nor does he see his own mental illness as contributing to it. He is not worth your time. It's like arguing with a drunk. Or trying to teach a pig to sing. He is a platypus. No sense being irritated that he's not an iguana. You know that, right? I, however, rather enjoyed your lil interaction with LadyPact. Slightly jealous in fact. She's all yummy and stuff. Have a lovely day, and big hugs to you and yours. sunshine

LaTigresse -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:55:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse honey, there is a difference between wanting your attention and sadistically enjoying tormenting you Non-consensual sadism is merely another symptom of the casual player's dysfunction. I am reminding of flies. Late summer, I get flies in my house. I do not like flies. I do not want flies. However, given where I live, getting flies in my house is part of the trade off. When flies get in my house, I get out the fly swatter and take great pleasure in running around my house killing flies. I would prefer not having flies, but me being the dysfunctional eeeeeeeeeeeeeeebil sadist that I am, finds great pleasure in smashing the hell out of them. The flies consented when they came into my house.

domiguy -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:55:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP When you say it is either lust or love, and that anyone who views that differently is wrong then you are telling everyone else they have to do it your way. No different then saying there are only two worthwhile kinds of cookies out there, chocolate chip and oatmeal, and then being condescending when I say there are more such as; chocolate almond biscotti, chocolate toffee mandelbrot and peanut butter blossoms. There is only one type of cookie. It is a nice chewy chocolate chip. Everything else is just a sugary disk. A feeble mockery of the real ordeal. Everyone that is not in pursuit of love is an idiot.

GreedyTop -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:56:38 AM)
he's still ignoring me. EMOTIONAL DAMAGE!!!!! Where is my attorney... I wanna sue!!

BLoved -> RE: A legend returns ... (2/17/2010 8:57:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail As was described in the previous section, past abuse can predispose a submissive to accept more abuse. Yo, Bob, while this may have some merit, look at your own use of the word; can, and of course, this is only a small slice of pie. Casual and Abuse are not endemically linked, or even causal. So, while you may hold come commerce for the 'one' not in any real world is your overall theme considered to be a widely held view, or contain any widely held truths. Ron Ron, when everyone believed the world was flat, was it really flat? And did it become round only when enough people believed it was round? Was ciagrette smoking safe when everyone believed it was safe, and only became a carcinogen when enough people believed it unhealthy? Reality doesn't depend upon popularity, Ron.

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