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blue balls - 2/17/2010 4:04:03 PM   
ernietbonz


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Status: offline 		Hello all.
Mistress just found out that is fun to wrap my cock and balls in tight velcro. She worries how long is is to much when balls are blue. I feel as long as there is feeling , it is ok, can anyone help
thank you
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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 4:29:46 PM   
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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 4:42:50 PM   
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Status: offline 		Poor choice of words SH - the way its looking a slight breath of wind might knock it off, let alone Ms Velcro

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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 4:49:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ernietbonz

Hello all.
Mistress just found out that is fun to wrap my cock and balls in tight velcro. She worries how long is is to much when balls are blue. I feel as long as there is feeling , it is ok, can anyone help
thank you


Yes:  I think what you need to take on board is that you're a tosser, Ernie.  Now fuck off and get your homework done, or you'll be facing detention yet again tomorrow evening. 

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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 5:09:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

Try this...although it is not the answer you want. Tell "mistress" to knock it off since she has no clue what she is doing. It is her responsibility to know the facts before she engages in any type of CB restriction.






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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 5:16:01 PM   
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Status: offline 		Good question, especially for all the others out there that don't know the answer and are thinking about doing this.

Binding the cock and balls is great fun. I personally love some good restrictive cbt but one needs to be careful. Pain for example is not a good indicator that things are going wrong. If your skin bleeds then the binding is definitely too tight. When it stops hurting and goes numb and cold it means no blood supply to the tissue is getting through.
It is normal for the balls to become engorged and turn red or purple when tied and just as some Doms love to see a womans tits go purple under bondage, many Dommes enjoy seeing the same with a guys balls. With restrictive ball binding its good habit for a Mistress to restore full circulation about every 20 minutes.
There should never be signs of edema or swelling and if this happens she needs to remove the binding immediately.
I would suggest using quick release knots such as a bow knot so she can release you quickly.
Never allow your balls to be put under such duress for a night. You will probably get gangrene.

BTW These sort of questions are probably best asked on Fet Life.

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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 5:22:37 PM   
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Right, sorry - I realise what to do with wank threads now.  I'll get with the programme.

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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 7:17:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

Try this...although it is not the answer you want. Tell "mistress" to knock it off since she has no clue what she is doing. It is her responsibility to know the facts before she engages in any type of CB restriction.




I have to agree completely with sirsholly. It may be great fun for your Mistress to watch your balls turn blue but it will be a different story if you have permanant damage, lose function or lose one of the things she so loves to torment.

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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 7:27:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		Why is it a wank thread Peon? am I missing something here? If I had started a thread saying 'how long can I safely bind a guys balls up for?' would you of called me a wanker?
I remember the first time I tied a guys balls up. I remember watching them go crimson and then purple and thinking 'wow that's pretty cool' and then wondering at what point they would drop off.
CBT doesn't come without certain dangers and I don't see a problem in telling the op or anyone else that may be interested what the warning signs are!

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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 7:58:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		I agree with Maria.  I think holly's answer was technically correct, but the tone of the answers (other than Maria's) on this thread seems awfully jaded to me.  Hell, maybe ernie is his own mistress.  It's happened before.  Why not give him some pointers for how to do self-CBT without dropping his jewels in the gutter by accident?


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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 8:03:40 PM   
LadyAngelika


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I agree with Maria.  I think holly's answer was technically correct, but the tone of the answers (other than Maria's) on this thread seems awfully jaded to me.  Hell, maybe ernie is his own mistress.  It's happened before.  Why not give him some pointers for how to do self-CBT without dropping his jewels in the gutter by accident?



I agree with Maria and Red. Not everyone writes eloquent OPs. That doesn't mean they are wankers.

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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 8:04:59 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

I agree with Maria.  I think holly's answer was technically correct, but the tone of the answers (other than Maria's) on this thread seems awfully jaded to me.  Hell, maybe ernie is his own mistress.  It's happened before.  Why not give him some pointers for how to do self-CBT without dropping his jewels in the gutter by accident?


Why do you suppose it is jaded?  Wouldn't you recommend anyone know what they are doing before attempting techniques on a living person?


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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 8:07:32 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

I agree with Maria.  I think holly's answer was technically correct, but the tone of the answers (other than Maria's) on this thread seems awfully jaded to me.  Hell, maybe ernie is his own mistress.  It's happened before.  Why not give him some pointers for how to do self-CBT without dropping his jewels in the gutter by accident?


Why do you suppose it is jaded?  Wouldn't you recommend anyone know what they are doing before attempting techniques on a living person?



Actually LP, I found the tone quite aggressive to be honest. If he started this OP it is perhaps because he is trying to learn?

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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 8:25:04 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I must have read the OP wrong then.  I thought it was his Mistress that was trying to learn something, even though she couldn't bring the question herself.

I know I'm in the minority here of My way of thinking that the message boards aren't really the most valuable resource in these matters.  There isn't going to be nearly the detail as can be found by attending a few demos or events.  Even lacking that, the information that is going to be conveyed on these boards isn't nearly as extensive as what can be found in purchasing a copy of "The Family Jewels".  This is in addition to the hundreds of threads that already exist on the subject and already provide information.  Research for educational purposes, in My opinion, isn't just sitting back while folks hand over the answers time and time again.


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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 8:34:53 PM   
LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I must have read the OP wrong then.  I thought it was his Mistress that was trying to learn something, even though she couldn't bring the question herself.

Perhaps she sends him here to do research? I'm not saying it is the ideal, but it is plausible.
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I know I'm in the minority here of My way of thinking that the message boards aren't really the most valuable resource in these matters.  There isn't going to be nearly the detail as can be found by attending a few demos or events.


And while it's great that you feel comfortable at demos and events, they are not for everyone.

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Even lacking that, the information that is going to be conveyed on these boards isn't nearly as extensive as what can be found in purchasing a copy of "The Family Jewels". 


And that is a great response to the OP, letting them know that there is a book they can read.

quote:

This is in addition to the hundreds of threads that already exist on the subject and already provide information.


And we know from experience that many people don't search. That's a simple reality and I don't let that bother me. Then again, I'm an educator by profession so I tend to let people know that this is available if they want to read more.

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Research for educational purposes, in My opinion, isn't just sitting back while folks hand over the answers time and time again.


You know this and I know this. Obviously the OP doesn't know this. But this is a message board where people are encouraged to ask questions. There are plenty of threads I don't respond to if I feel I cannot give a productive response.

Unless a poster is rude to me first, I don't mock them. In fact, I'm not that impressed with myself when I lower myself to the level of flammer, but I, like everyone here, am not perfect.

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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 8:54:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		It is also just as plausible that peon was correct in his beginning assessment.  Considering that every thread that this OP has started has been sexual in nature, I tend to agree with him. 

As far as comfort levels at demos, a demo is just like any other type of class.  Do we tell people that they shouldn't get an education on any other matter because they might not feel comfortable in a classroom?

By the way, the book has been recommended countless times on this site.  It is also included in the Book List thread that has been up since Resident Sadist posted it over a year ago.  Google is everyone's friend when looking for research material.

It may be a bit rude for Me to be here and say that I think anybody that wants to engage in certain kinds of play should bother to educate themselves a bit first before practical application.  If it is, I'll still stand by My belief that a top should have enough vested interest in what she's doing to have the drive to not rely on just the net.


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RE: blue balls - 2/17/2010 9:04:44 PM   
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If it is, I'll still stand by My belief that a top should have enough vested interest in what she's doing to have the drive to not rely on just the net.


I agree with this part of your statement.

For the rest, I just try to be open minded and give people the benefit of the doubt.

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RE: blue balls - 2/18/2010 1:07:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think this thread would of been better off on 'health and safety'
questions like this should be askable on a site such as CM because of the variety of informed knowledge (from experienced, educated to medical professionals) in an ongoing topic is open to debate. Someone for example could argue my point and say that the balls should never go purple for this or that reason. Someone else could claim I was being over cautious and show medical evidence that restriction can go on for longer.
I think its always important to take the route of caution when you answer threads like this because its reaching out to a wider audience than the op and answers shouldn't be taken too literally without doing ones own research. At the same time they can be helpful.
There are certain activities that I would never put in writing with the knowledge that someone probably will try it without hands on experience from someone in the know but I really do believe that questions like this (no matter who the op) are good for the site.

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RE: blue balls - 2/18/2010 2:43:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		I do think that the OP would have used the clearly-marked 'Health and Safety' section if health and safety was indeed his main concern.  But . . .

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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

I think its always important to take the route of caution when you answer threads like this because its reaching out to a wider audience


. . . OK - fair point, re that possible 'wider audience'. 

Re that OP:  the testicles are outside the body for a reason, of course - to keep them cooler than the rest of the body.  I wouldn't intuitively think it's a good to play around with overheating them for long periods of time.


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RE: blue balls - 2/18/2010 3:56:00 AM   
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Status: offline 		My ball crusher on my profile page is better than wrapping them.

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