Texaslady4you
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Well, i've been waiting for a sub/bottom to post on what they experience physically when playing with fire, and what their mindset is leading up to, during and after their fireplay scene.
i've never experienced anything more sensual and relaxing in the course of any scene than when i engage in fireplay.
As far as where on the body i have been played, other than my head or touching my face, the whole body is fair game. Even then, occasionally my Dom will bring the wands above my face so that i actually see the glow of it through my eyelids. At no time does he actually bring the flames near my face, just extends it above it so that i am aware of its warmth and its glow. You haven't lived until you have fireplay on the bottoms of your feet. The feeling one gets when they slide into a hot tub after a physically exhausting day is the same type of immediate relaxation i experience when i feel the warm flames against my body. When the lighting is dim, the flames mesmerize even those who are watching and often times it even had a hypnotic effect for everyone both participating and observing the scene.
Once, we played in front of a very large group of onlookers at a BDSM event in Denver. The stress of traveling from Texas to Colorado and the excitement of the weekend consumed me. Nearing the end of the night, he decided to have a fireplay scene. Once we began, it was so relaxing that at one point in the scene he leaned down and whispered for me to wake up.
Another one of our memorable fireplay scenes was at a private dungeon here in Houston. He placed me under a suspended full-length mirror and told me to keep my eyes open while he played me. i swear the mere sight of watching the flames spread across my body, the waves of fire racing over my breasts and my pussy created a whole different mindset for me during the scene. my mind processed the flames to be hotter than i had ever experienced them before. Funny how the mind works, huh? It was that night that he spread my legs open and actually played my pussy while i watched. Spreading my lips open with one hand, and using his other hand to guide the wand between my legs, he snuffed out the flames inside my pussy as a climax to our scene. Did i say climax, in more ways than 1.
i cannot let it go unsaid that he enjoys knife play. Sometimes nearing the end of the scene he has taken out his knife and lightly cut his initials into my back applying fire to the cutting afterwards. This is one example of the "cut and burn" technique previously mentioned before by Girru. This is much more intense (in my opinion) for the alcohol penetrating the open cut coupled with the warmth from the fire produces an intensity from the experience of both the cutting and the fire. It may be too sadistic for some, but heaven for those of us on the bottom who long for its touch. i enjoy touching the scratches left behind and the feelings that just by seeing his initials on my skin remind me that i am owned. Do i need to be reminded? Absolutely not, but seeing his initials on my body stirs an excitement within me that no other type of markings left from a scene can produce.
i had never experienced fireplay with anyone else but him. One night he allowed me to play with another person within our community. Talk about an eye opening experience! i discovered there are people who do fireplay to administer pain on their willing bottoms. What a concept. Now, don't think i'm a fluffy bottom. i'm far from it. But what my mindset was going into the scene was setup by what i had experienced from the type of scenes i had shared with my Dom. i was ready to relax and be seduced, and instead i found myself jumping and tolerating the whole ordeal. So, my advice to those who decide to play for the first time, or the 50th time, make sure you observe what type of responses they're getting from their bottoms before you consent to their type of fireplay.
As far as my mindset after the scene, the saying they melt in your mouth and not in your hands... definitely does not apply here. Sex afterwards or no sex afterwards, sometimes it really doesn't matter to me. i have achieved satisfaction from our shared experience.
Just a glimpse of my side of a few of the scenes i have experienced. i hope it touches base for some of you, and for others i hope it raised a few sparks that you too will wish to share with the rest of us.
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RE: Fireplay - 
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What surface do you recommend? I could see something like varnished wood or metal or somesuch being very safe, but then pressure and ischemia becomes an issue. I like the vinyl because it is not absorbant. Something like a mattress or cotton sheet becomes a wick when soaked with alcohol and can create a very hot and persistant fire in a "flash". 
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