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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 8:54:12 PM   
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and most of my working life was asking what if questions, so i sorta gravitate to that way of thinking

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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 8:54:20 PM   
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How you write your posts is up to you, obviously  I can't account for how lazy you felt when you wrote it...lol. I'm sure you're exaggerating about a *formal paper*...but you just never know. You seem to be clear as fucking clear at other times.



I'm not actually. Given how words can be misunderstood and taken out of context on messages boards (not this one specifically but simply in general), I often feel like I'm drafting a formal paper when I'm trying to be extremely clear. It's annoying but seems to be the nature of the beast on the Internet.

It was lazy by my personal standards for myself. *shrugs*

Though, I can't call a cookie a biscuit. Biscuits are salty, buttery things I eat with breakfast. I love the chocolate covered disgestives though.

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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 8:56:11 PM   
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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:08:27 PM   
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some of us do......LOL

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May I ask you if your Owner has ever asked you to take off your clothes in a public restaurant?
What if there were children around?
What if you knew and he knew you would be arrested?

I mean, you say with such conviction that you would do it no questions asked.

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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:10:34 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: agirl

some of us do......LOL

agirl



May I ask you if your Owner has ever asked you to take off your clothes in a public restaurant?
What if there were children around?
What if you knew and he knew you would be arrested?

I mean, you say with such conviction that you would do it no questions asked.



do i detect a bunch of what if questions?

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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:11:26 PM   
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Not such a strange occurrence...

http://www.voyeurweb.com/winners/201001/20100102-126478/index.html






I would guess thats a certain kind of place that is not completely open to the public.
I mean would you or have you ever asked a Slave to take off her clothes in a public restaurant and knowing there would be legal consequences?

See I dont question a woman obeying as much as I would question the sanity of a person who would ask something of a slave that would lead to ill consequences.

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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:12:55 PM   
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What if there were children around?
What if you knew and he knew you would be arrested?


What if the restaurant was highly radioactive?
What if the temperature was negative 100?

Come on. These questions have obvious answers.

Live a little.




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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:15:12 PM   
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knowing there would be legal consequences?

See I dont question a woman obeying as much as I would question the sanity of a person who would ask something of a slave that would lead to ill consequences.


See, this is your problem. You're presuming negative consequences. These are silly and leading questions/statements.

As you're framing it, the answers are obvious. What's the point of asking?

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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:15:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: osf


quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19


quote:

ORIGINAL: agirl

some of us do......LOL

agirl



May I ask you if your Owner has ever asked you to take off your clothes in a public restaurant?
What if there were children around?
What if you knew and he knew you would be arrested?

I mean, you say with such conviction that you would do it no questions asked.



do i detect a bunch of what if questions?


Well yes, its all conjecture and very easy for some in their quest to be the Perfect MAster or Slave to say "of course they would" or of course "she should".

I think its pretty funny to posture when you know your owner would never do that to you. Or those Masters who would never do it unless in a socially acceptable place and they do think of consequences.

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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:17:16 PM   
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quote:

knowing there would be legal consequences?

See I dont question a woman obeying as much as I would question the sanity of a person who would ask something of a slave that would lead to ill consequences.


See, this is your problem. You're presuming negative consequences. These are silly and leading questions/statements.

As you're framing it, the answers are obvious. What's the point of asking?


Thats how the OP phrased the question. He said, "regardless of the consequences."
Perhaps you should go to page 1 and see why it is being posed this way?


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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:18:52 PM   
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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:19:39 PM   
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The reasons and consequences are my business.

The reasons may be your business, but the consequences aren't. No judge in the US is going to accept "It's my responsibility as her owner" as an excuse for her behaviour, and it would be her, not you, with a conviction for public indecency and possibly a lifelong requirement to register as a sex offender.

This whole thing strikes me as one of those "tests" designed to get a sub/slave to prove her submission. Good on those who enjoy such things, but it's not my kink any more than "testing" my Dominant to see what he will do in a given situation. The "if you were a twue sub/Dom, you would" thing just leaves a bad taste in my mouth.


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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:21:44 PM   
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He said, "regardless of the consequences."
Perhaps you should go to page 1 and see why it is being posed this way?


I saw page one. Read the whole thread, actually. The OP is an idiot. Always has been.

But you are being silly. For a slave, the consequences aren't her concern. RS has already explained well that the question is a "Duh." You are assuming that a girl would be an obedient slave for just anyone who comes alone. That's silly too.

That's not the same as ignoring consequences. It means someone else is taking care of them.

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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:22:19 PM   
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i have done something very similar... and would do so again. Master, to me, doesnt mean part time, when i feel like it, when its convenient or when it strikes my fancy. i would beg a man's collar knowing that man, his character, his dark hungers. i know BDSM, D/s, non-gorean slavery may be different... but i would suspect even a bdsm slave is supposed to obey. if you have to pause to question his reasoning, why he asked, did he take into consideration x.y and/or z... then why are you in the relationship to begin with?

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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:22:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:

The reasons and consequences are my business.

The reasons may be your business, but the consequences aren't. No judge in the US is going to accept "It's my responsibility as her owner" as an excuse for her behaviour, and it would be her, not you, with a conviction for public indecency and possibly a lifelong requirement to register as a sex offender.



Somewhat off-topic:

There was actually a case a few years ago where a husband tried to take the blame for something his wife, a traffic violation. He explained that they (I believe for religious reasons) have a relationship where she obeys him at all times and he told her to go ahead and breast feed while driving.

I don't think the judge allowed him to take her place but I don't recall the outcome off-hand.

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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:23:11 PM   
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The "if you were a twue sub/Dom, you would" thing just leaves a bad taste in my mouth.


And I agree. That's Jr. High crap.

But that's not the question. Nor would I test a girl in such a fashion.

Neither of which were the question.

Nor does this mean consequences are ignored.


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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:24:16 PM   
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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:25:20 PM   
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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:33:03 PM   
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Well, then you haven't met many people who take the time to think of these things before hand!

Look, not for you, fine.


Well, I have, but they were thoughtful Dominants. Its the way the Op phrased it. And although we know hes being obtuse and asinine, I chose to answer it in the manner it was presented. Because honestly, in proper context with a sane Master who has really planned this out..... Well even Kink.coms site Public Disgrace" is not really public when its in the U.S. and they would be in a heap of trouble if they hadnt used privately owned spaces where they got consent from the owners and patrons.

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RE: If you told your slave - 2/21/2010 9:36:31 PM   
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