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Betty or Veronica?


Date them both and say nothing to either about the other?
  10% (2)
Tell them about each other and then date whichever one(s) wish to date
  21% (4)
Date whichever one you're more comfortable with and tell the other?
  21% (4)
Date whichever one you're more comfortable with and not tell the other
  10% (2)
wish you had Archie's problem?
  36% (7)


Total Votes : 19
(last vote on : 2/28/2010 9:33:26 AM)
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ResidentSadist -> RE: Betty or Veronica? (2/25/2010 5:31:46 AM)

Wish I had Archie’s problems? . . . No. I got 99 problems but a bitch ain’t one of them.

These questions are kinda’ screwy bro. If Archie can “date them both” then why would he have to only date the one that “wishes to date”? I don’t get Archie’s paradigm? If he can date both, why does he have to make choices? Your questions seem to mix monogamy and honesty. Should be two different poles imo.

If I had doubts, and I was monogamous, I would dump them both. I would only spend my monogamy on someone special that impressed me enough to be my partner. That someone wouldn’t need a forum post to help choose. Come to think of it, that is what I would do whether I was mono or poly.

Also, if Archie is capable of dating more than one person, is he monogamous? I am not mono, never have been. I very well may not understand the rules.

Mono Rules?
1 - You can fuck more than one person in the name of dating?
2- You date in guise of “shopping” for someone to love?
3- When find that “special someone” to love, you have to stop fucking the other people you were dating?

… I duno, you tell me what the rules are. Mono people seriously mystify me.




Icarys -> RE: Betty or Veronica? (2/25/2010 5:56:14 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Wish I had Archie’s problems? . . . No. I got 99 problems but a bitch ain’t one of them.

These questions are kinda’ screwy bro. If Archie can “date them both” then why would he have to only date the one that “wishes to date”? I don’t get Archie’s paradigm? If he can date both, why does he have to make choices? Your questions seem to mix monogamy and honesty. Should be two different poles imo.

If I had doubts, and I was monogamous, I would dump them both. I would only spend my monogamy on someone special that impressed me enough to be my partner. That someone wouldn’t need a forum post to help choose. Come to think of it, that is what I would do whether I was mono or poly.

Also, if Archie is capable of dating more than one person, is he monogamous? I am not mono, never have been. I very well may not understand the rules.

Mono Rules?
1 - You can fuck more than one person in the name of dating?
2- You date in guise of “shopping” for someone to love?
3- When find that “special someone” to love, you have to stop fucking the other people you were dating?

… I duno, you tell me what the rules are. Mono people seriously mystify me.


Not all of us follow that so keenly insightful list of "rules" lol.

Most of my life it's been more like this:
1. Look for potential mate
2. Get to know one at a time
3. Realize she's not the one for me and move on in hopes of finding the "right" one.
Repeat and Rinse..Not hard to figure out.[:D]




ResidentSadist -> RE: Betty or Veronica? (2/25/2010 6:48:54 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

Wish I had Archie’s problems? . . . No. I got 99 problems but a bitch ain’t one of them.

These questions are kinda’ screwy bro. If Archie can “date them both” then why would he have to only date the one that “wishes to date”? I don’t get Archie’s paradigm? If he can date both, why does he have to make choices? Your questions seem to mix monogamy and honesty. Should be two different poles imo.

If I had doubts, and I was monogamous, I would dump them both. I would only spend my monogamy on someone special that impressed me enough to be my partner. That someone wouldn’t need a forum post to help choose. Come to think of it, that is what I would do whether I was mono or poly.

Also, if Archie is capable of dating more than one person, is he monogamous? I am not mono, never have been. I very well may not understand the rules.

Mono Rules?
1 - You can fuck more than one person in the name of dating?
2- You date in guise of “shopping” for someone to love?
3- When find that “special someone” to love, you have to stop fucking the other people you were dating?

… I duno, you tell me what the rules are. Mono people seriously mystify me.


Not all of us follow that so keenly insightful list of "rules" lol.

Most of my life it's been more like this:
1. Look for potential mate
2. Get to know one at a time
3. Realize she's not the one for me and move on in hopes of finding the "right" one.
Repeat and Rinse..Not hard to figure out.[:D]

"Get to know one at a time" So it is Betty first, then Veronica. “Time” is always the blurry line between mono and poly for me. Poly sex is the easiest and most tangible example:

Betty this week and Veronica next week is mono?
Betty on Fri and Veronica on Sat is mono?
Betty in the morning and Veronica at lunch is mono?
Betty this minute but Veronica the next minute is mono?
Betty gets the cock and Veronica gets your fingers at the same time is poly right?

I am quite sincere. Mono sex mystifies me. I just don’t think it exists and it is all a matter of people’s perception of time. Maybe it was the physics I studied college and time is more “relative” to me. When I get to know someone and they see time the from my perspective, their paradigm usually shifts. Mono love is equally mystifying . . . but that is more typing than I am willing spend this morning.




BLoved -> RE: Betty or Veronica? (2/25/2010 7:03:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys
Most of my life it's been more like this:
1. Look for potential mate
2. Get to know one at a time
3. Realize she's not the one for me and move on in hopes of finding the "right" one.
Repeat and Rinse..Not hard to figure out.[:D]


Let's suppose Archie has rarely found himself being contacted by two ladies at the same time.

And let us further suppose Archie has pretty much ruled out both of them, but for future reference, should this ever occur again, Archie is interested in hearing the opinions of others.




GreedyTop -> RE: Betty or Veronica? (2/25/2010 7:24:53 AM)

Hmm.. call Judy JEtson, and hook up with Jane too?  George is a wimp, anyway....




BLoved -> RE: Betty or Veronica? (2/25/2010 8:30:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
Hmm.. call Judy JEtson, and hook up with Jane too?  George is a wimp, anyway....


So I guess Josie and the Pussycats are out of the question?




GreedyTop -> RE: Betty or Veronica? (2/25/2010 8:35:55 AM)

There ya go!  but make sure Capt. Caveman doesn't try to horn in on the action




Icarys -> RE: Betty or Veronica? (2/25/2010 10:46:20 AM)

quote:

"Get to know one at a time" So it is Betty first, then Veronica. “Time” is always the blurry line between mono and poly for me. Poly sex is the easiest and most tangible example:

Betty this week and Veronica next week is mono?
Betty on Fri and Veronica on Sat is mono?
Betty in the morning and Veronica at lunch is mono?
Betty this minute but Veronica the next minute is mono?
Betty gets the cock and Veronica gets your fingers at the same time is poly right?

I am quite sincere. Mono sex mystifies me. I just don’t think it exists and it is all a matter of people’s perception of time. Maybe it was the physics I studied college and time is more “relative” to me. When I get to know someone and they see time the from my perspective, their paradigm usually shifts. Mono love is equally mystifying . . . but that is more typing than I am willing spend this morning.

I picked betty already and wouldn't date veronica.[:D]

I understand where your going but for me it hasn't worked that way but one time.
Sure though there has been a time or two when I have been talking to two females at a time but it usually doesn't last for longer than 2 weeks and yes they do know about one another. After that I make a decision to continue talking to one and tell the other bye for now..Sometimes they get mad or don't understand.

(Maybe you get different results from your email blast and therefore have 10 or 15 responding at a time?[:D] While I send one invite every month or so to talk..)

Maybe your thinking..wow he just made a decisions too fast on which one? Well it wasn't made from a love or commitment standpoint but what I like to call a uncomplicated POV..

Meaning I clear all other females out of the way to give my time to one person with no strings attached..If we aren't a good match then no hard feelings and we can hopefully remain friends..I focus entirely on a person. That's mono for me..your version may vary.

So there is none of this[:D]
Betty this week and Veronica next week is mono?
Betty on Fri and Veronica on Sat is mono?
Betty in the morning and Veronica at lunch is mono?
Betty this minute but Veronica the next minute is mono?
Betty gets the cock and Veronica gets your fingers at the same time is poly right?

and less of this[sm=axe.gif]




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