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Distance Control - 2/23/2010 10:56:22 AM

thaprincess

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Hello my sub and I currently live two timezones away from each other.
I am looking to get him a chastity device.
I would like to get a lock that is electronically controlled so that i could lock or unlock it with my phone or computer.
Or possibly like a jewelery box that is electronically controlled and he could use normal locks and put the keys in there and i could lock and unlock it at my discretion.
Does anyone have any ideas?
Thanks any and all input is appreciated.

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RE: Distance Control - 2/23/2010 11:05:48 AM

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I don't know about one that works with computer or with phone.. but I love the idea linked below... it's a plastic tab that has a number on it, and each one has a different number.. but it's plastic so it reduced safety conserns..

http://www.enforcedobedience.com/store/index.php?act=viewProd&productId=44

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RE: Distance Control - 2/23/2010 11:09:29 AM

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Yeah I have seen those.
The only problem is that my submissive cannot always take pictures and therefore i cant always tell if he's behaving.
(living at home still)
And i do not want to be buying another 10 pack every month.

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RE: Distance Control - 2/23/2010 11:10:31 AM

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ya.. I see the drawbacks to it..

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RE: Distance Control - 2/23/2010 11:11:31 AM

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There's a link to such a device in this thread.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_2543120/mpage_1/key_chastity%252Cdevice/tm.htm#2543242

One thing I know couples do, as a safety precaution, is the guy mails the key, the woman puts it in an envelope that she signs/seals with wax/whatever, and she mails it back. That way, he can get out at a moment's notice if he has to, but she'll know that it happened.

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RE: Distance Control - 2/23/2010 11:35:54 AM

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That would work except i do not like the 550$ price tag :p

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RE: Distance Control - 2/23/2010 11:46:23 AM

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Heh. Ok. He buys five tiny combination locks and sends them to you. You set each combination, and etch an ID number into each lock, so you know which combo goes with which lock. You then send him back the locks. He locks himself with lock #1 say. Once he is done with four of the locks, he sends them back to you, and you reset the combos. If you unlock him once a week, you've got a month of fun right there. If you like the sealed-envelope-safety thing, you could put the combos in a sealed security envelope, so he could break the seal and get out of the device if he had to.

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RE: Distance Control - 2/23/2010 12:03:20 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: thaprincess

Yeah I have seen those.
The only problem is that my submissive cannot always take pictures and therefore i cant always tell if he's behaving.
(living at home still)

Does he have a cell phone? If he doesn't have a camera, have him switch to one that does.

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And i do not want to be buying another 10 pack every month.

Then buy a 100 pack of econoloks.

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RE: Distance Control - 2/23/2010 1:14:47 PM

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Chastity devices are great fun but there are health and safety issues to consider. If you do this just make sure he has some way to remove it if he needs to.

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RE: Distance Control - 2/24/2010 5:20:52 PM

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No matter what you use, he has to have an immediate way of releasing it. Doctor's appointments, accidents involving the emergency room, etc. You can't be unreachable or have the computer be down or him unconscious and unable to contact you. The plastic key is the best because it can be easily cut off in the ER. A sealed key in an envelope with your name written across where it seals will prove it hasn't been opened but can be found in his wallet with "key to chastity device" written on it.

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RE: Distance Control - 2/24/2010 6:12:46 PM

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He will just wriggle out of it and bang some local sistah.

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RE: Distance Control - 2/24/2010 10:35:48 PM

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Have you checked into a computer program? Maybe something like this: http://timelock.rules.it/

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RE: Distance Control - 2/25/2010 7:21:40 AM

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Couldn't you buy the 10 pack, then just send them to him one at a time? If you really can't trust him, and he won't follow orders, then I'd question whether he was worth your time.

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RE: Distance Control - 2/26/2010 6:26:36 PM

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Hi.

I haven't found a lock like that but I'd love to. Tell me if you find one and I'll get them to use on my slaves too.

I've heard of long distance electronic zappers. I want to get those too. Anything that keeps my slaves in line!!

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RE: Distance Control - 2/26/2010 6:49:29 PM

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quote:

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Couldn't you buy the 10 pack, then just send them to him one at a time? If you really can't trust him, and he won't follow orders, then I'd question whether he was worth your time.

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RE: Distance Control - 2/26/2010 10:32:46 PM

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If Princess did not trust me we would not be in said relationship.
That being said she is just looking for that aspect of control.

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RE: Distance Control - 2/27/2010 12:11:40 AM

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SubSadden & thaprincess

Lets get REAL. Have EITHER of you ever used a Long Term Chastity device?

Where in the fuck are the slaves who have ACTUALLY worn one. LONG term LONG Distance Chastity is just not really realistic.

Sweat - Dirt - Chafeing - Swelling - Eventual Raw Bleeding.

It's GREAT for Fantasy and it works for like a weekend at the longest without serious discomfort a Week but by the time you make the 3 week mark you are now dealing with real issues.

Sure you are all happy with one another now but online has its limitations and what happens if one just says fuck it and the other doesn't like it what happens then?

Are you people even thinking about things like that?

No I'm not saying that you kink is not okay what I am saying is that it sounds like you really don't know what you are doing and the fantasy has taken control and now you are full boar on the idea of something you really have no idea about.

this is a personal safety rule but no person in a chastity device should ever be more than 5 minutes from a key. Beyond 5 minutes if something goes wrong there could be permanent damage.

just be smart and do your research on this before you get someone hurt unexpectedly.

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RE: Distance Control - 2/27/2010 1:36:05 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan

SubSadden & thaprincess

Lets get REAL. Have EITHER of you ever used a Long Term Chastity device?

Where in the fuck are the slaves who have ACTUALLY worn one. LONG term LONG Distance Chastity is just not really realistic.

Sweat - Dirt - Chafeing - Swelling - Eventual Raw Bleeding.

It's GREAT for Fantasy and it works for like a weekend at the longest without serious discomfort a Week but by the time you make the 3 week mark you are now dealing with real issues.

Sure you are all happy with one another now but online has its limitations and what happens if one just says fuck it and the other doesn't like it what happens then?

Are you people even thinking about things like that?

No I'm not saying that you kink is not okay what I am saying is that it sounds like you really don't know what you are doing and the fantasy has taken control and now you are full boar on the idea of something you really have no idea about.

this is a personal safety rule but no person in a chastity device should ever be more than 5 minutes from a key. Beyond 5 minutes if something goes wrong there could be permanent damage.

just be smart and do your research on this before you get someone hurt unexpectedly.

QSM
That is the medical safety aspect of it and i couldn't but agree more.
I have been in electric/electronic control all my working life and i seen the tecnology needed to do this kind of things. It is used in the security bussines to lock and unlock various aplication all from bankvaults to switch your coffee machine on so the coffee is ready when you come home. My home is wired like that as it has a IHS system with a modem on. It wasn't that expensive when i rewired the place. I certainly wouldn't trust it for something which has potential harmfull effects on humans or even my pet. Just to many things to go wrong as "no service", "internet connection down" or many other more tecnical problems.
This thing certainly don't fall under safe play.

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RE: Distance Control - 3/2/2010 10:36:50 AM

SubSadden

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Hello!
Doing research.
You don't think i know how dangerous it could be?
That's why i am asking questions here.
And its not like she would lock me up for huge long term sessions.
That's why the 10 pack numbered things aren't practical for us.
If she wants to unlock me every night or two those things just are not practical.
Which is why i am looking for a program etc that COULD work IF it had correct safety features.

My original idea was an electronic safe and two keys.
The electronic safe would be controlled by Princess and ,
The second key would be placed between two planes of glass and sealed there.
If in an emergency situation a key was needed i would not even need to access the safe i could just smash the glass.

I am not a total dumbass.

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RE: Distance Control - 3/2/2010 10:39:33 AM

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AQuietSimpleMan you make good points here I must say, but my sub and I would like to find something that he could wear potentially for like a few days, take off, etc. If such a device cannot be found that is fine with me, I trust my sub and I know that he will listen to me. But I would still like a chastity device for the symbolism and physical reminder it would give to him to know that he is mine and mine alone. But thank you for your concern.

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