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softsissy -> I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 3:43:52 AM)
I think a lot of so called Mistresses on here lack balls. You know the sort,the ones who ask for a 'tribute' first before they even want to take anything futher. No,I dont mean the Pro Dommes who offer a service. But these tribute Mistresses,they havnt got a clue how to Dominate. Shame really,it gives all you real Mistresses a bad name.

Domin8tingUrDrmz -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 3:46:40 AM)
It doesn't give me a bad name. It gives that person a bad name. If you begin to judge ALL women based on the actions of some, that is your own personal problem. Not mine. So how exactly does it give ME or any other sincere woman a bad name? ETA: What do you hope to accomplish with this post? Do expect the ladies here to get up in arms and start emailing these tribute dommes with threats? [8\|] Block and hide those who don't meet your criteria. It will allow those who do meet your criteria become more visible.

Lashra -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 3:48:33 AM)
quote: Shame really,it gives all you real Mistresses a bad name. It doesn't give me a bad name. My sub respects, loves and obeys me, and that is what really matters, not what a bunch of faceless type on the internet chooses to believe. ~Lashra

LadyAngelika -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 4:18:27 AM)
Like the 2 Ladies before me stated, it doesn't give me a bad name at all. I don't forge my identity based on a label that one self-assigns to. Am I dominant, yes. Am I a woman, yes. Does this make me a dominant woman, guess so! Does this label then say anything about my level of integrity, my values, my morals, my convictions, my sexuality, my personality? No. It is just a label that I use here as a method of classification in terms of my gender and the side of the kneel I see myself on in BDSM. Nothing more. I forge my identity based on who I am and how I see myself reflected in the eyes of those who matter to me. I don't have anything to prove to anyone, but I know that for people who take the time to get to know me, they will realise just how much "balls" I have. Oh and when you think of it, softsissy, I could say that submissives that come on this forum and complain about female dominants give submissives a bad name. But I know a lot of awesome submissives so I know better than to make such an unfounded assumption. - LA

DarkSteven -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 5:06:46 AM)
Are you defining "balls" as not asking for a tribute in a lifestyle Domme? Odd choice of words.

LadyAngelika -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 5:08:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven Are you defining "balls" as not asking for a tribute in a lifestyle Domme? Odd choice of words. He wants women who don't want anything. Oh the levels of irony on this thread could be so much fun to tease apart! Maybe he should tribute a Mistress with a pair of balls if he wants her to have some ;-) - LA

Lashra -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 5:26:38 AM)
quote: Maybe he should tribute a Mistress with a pair of balls if he wants her to have some ;-) Personally I wouldn't want a set of balls, they are usually saggy and icky, hard to keep shaved like I like them. I'd much rather have a nice pair of perky tits [sm=shake.gif] (like I have)...but that is just me. ~Lashra

SolangeRichards -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 6:07:18 AM)
Wow....you've got some issues going on here softsissy.... As has been pointed out already, you are painting with a pretty broad brush. Just so I can get this straight in my mind though, free mistresses equal mistresses with balls, and tribute mistresses don't have any? Do you see men on some sort of higher spiritual plane than women? Are you sure you really want a woman in your life?

Kaiel -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 6:44:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softsissy I think a lot of so called Mistresses on here lack balls. You know the sort,the ones who ask for a 'tribute' first before they even want to take anything futher. No,I dont mean the Pro Dommes who offer a service. But these tribute Mistresses,they havnt got a clue how to Dominate. Shame really,it gives all you real Mistresses a bad name. What a useless post... As mentioned what dialog was to come from this? "Domme's saying I have balls?" or "Dommes saying don't heap Us all in one bunch?" The major question maybe why are you attracting Domme's that want a tribute, first?

GraciousLady -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 6:54:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softsissy I think a lot of so called Mistresses on here lack balls. You know the sort,the ones who ask for a 'tribute' first before they even want to take anything futher. No,I dont mean the Pro Dommes who offer a service. But these tribute Mistresses,they havnt got a clue how to Dominate. Shame really,it gives all you real Mistresses a bad name. Seems to me the real title of this post should be "Why don't I have sense?"

Andalusite -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 7:59:11 AM)
Actually, I think it takes a lot of balls/nerve to ask for tribute from someone who you've never met and have no emotional connection with. Personally, I have no interest whatsoever in getting money or expensive gifts from strangers, especially in connection with doing BDSM in person or online. I personally don't see a distinction between that and being officially a pro-Domme. One guy wanted to buy me stuff in exchange for doing cyber-domination, and I was very offended by his request.

LadyPact -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 8:07:58 AM)
Dude, if you honestly don't think I have balls, you haven't been around here very long. As for the thinking that some female Dominants giving others a bad name, I don't see it that way at all. If there are bad female Dominants out there, they only make Me look good.

SweetDommes -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 8:22:02 AM)
All I have to say to this thread is [sm=dontfeedtrolls.gif]

MsHValentine -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 8:24:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softsissy I think a lot of so called Mistresses on here lack balls. You know the sort,the ones who ask for a 'tribute' first before they even want to take anything futher. No,I dont mean the Pro Dommes who offer a service. But these tribute Mistresses,they havnt got a clue how to Dominate. Shame really,it gives all you real Mistresses a bad name. Oh toughen up sissy, grow some Breasts will ya. Your balls are the source of your weakness. [8D]

rockspider -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 8:32:07 AM)
Asking for money for sex or anything similar has got a name. Prostitution!! Or if it something over the net with paying before seeing them, it normally translates in to scammer.

LadyNTrainer -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 8:51:07 AM)
Sissy, when you start off by negatively stereotyping and insulting people, even people you disagree with, no one is likely to care what you personally want or be very interested in fulfilling your wishes. Nobody likes a Negative Nancy. For starters, do you realize that you are equating being male (eg, having testicles) to being dominant and independent? That is an insult to all genetic females. Apparently you identify as a sissy because you think that there is nothing more lowly and humiliating and degrading than being....gasp....a woman, who has no balls and is therefore inferior. How flattering to us do you think that is? I think you've just shot your chances here. I enjoy working with genderbenders, transfolk, genderqueers and even some of the fetish cross dressers, but the moment someone makes it clear that they dress and identify as a woman because they think hateful and disgusting things about women, because they think it lowers them and makes them degraded to be like a woman, I'm done with them. I can't imagine a lot of other self respecting dominant women would be interested either. Who the hell wants to stick around just to be insulted every day of their lives and reminded of how little you think of women?

Lockit -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 9:03:11 AM)
Does anyone else remember the op's picture? I remember the picture but not the other nickname. Remember the one who kept wanting to do no strings housework, who bought his best friends young adult daughter gifts she would demand and wanted to basically gift women in such a way? This is quite the turn around. We said back then that you can't assume some sort of dynamic with someone who isn't in agreement, who is using you for your gifts and it couldn't go well. Is this a result of your trying to buy your way into some dynamic's and you are blaming those that shouldn't be blamed and had nothing to do with it? You go in ass backwards, you can't expect anything good of it. So what's the real story here? Or did someone steal your picture? lol

AAkasha -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 9:06:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: softsissy I think a lot of so called Mistresses on here lack balls. You know the sort,the ones who ask for a 'tribute' first before they even want to take anything futher. No,I dont mean the Pro Dommes who offer a service. But these tribute Mistresses,they havnt got a clue how to Dominate. Shame really,it gives all you real Mistresses a bad name. You probably ARE getting a "Mistress with balls." When a person online demands cash or money without ever even talking to you, how do you know they are really even a woman? It could be a guy with a fake picture. Therefore, a Mistress with balls. Akasha

thishereboi -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 10:25:34 AM)
Maybe they read your intro post, where you said you wanted them to rape your wallet? http://www.collarchat.com/m_3073567/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm#3073567 Be careful what you wish for.

Lockit -> RE: I want a Mistress with balls. (2/24/2010 10:45:46 AM)
Why would someone's assumptions give someone else a bad name? Anyone asking for money without any agreement and anyone giving money without any agreement aren't giving anyone but themselves a bad name. And I wouldn't go with scammer/victim either! Then to have the balls to compare us all with this group... well... is pretty bold, along with that other un-named title I mentioned. Consistantly the op, softsissy, has tried to create dynamic's where there were none and now that that hasn't paid off is getting bitchy about it. Look in the mirror softsissy. Examine your motivations and actions before you start pointing a finger at others and trying to get your point across with all those flaws in your system.

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