Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Polls and Other Random Stupidity >> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 12:44:33 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline 		Who knows what Nietzsche meant? Maybe it was all the ramblings of a syphilitic mind.

I have been with women that offered the feed back and resistance of a sponge. They always seemed to manage to go down the drain. Relationship died from a serious lack of interest on my part.

_____________________________



(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 21
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 12:46:39 AM   
heartcream


Posts: 3044
Joined: 5/9/2007
From: Psychoalphadiscobetabioaquadoloop
Status: offline 		Or ironic musings, or iron filings?

_____________________________

"Exaggerate the essential, leave the obvious vague." Vincent Van Gogh

I'd Rather Be With You

Every single line means something.
Jean-Michel Basquiat



(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 12:52:03 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Ialdabaoth


quote:

ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

"Want" confrontation?

I don't think Nietzsche meant that we should actively seek out difficulty or impediment for the purpose of self-tempering...



maybe, maybe not, but what I meant is that if I've decided that someone doesn't "tolerate" any kind of confrontation or disobedience whatsoever, then that indicates that my definition of "tolerate" is no longer realistic or viable.





What the fuck? Play word games somewhere else.

There are people that do not want to be questioned. Do not "tolerate" having their thoughts and beliefs held up to the light of day. Now in the "real word" that shit doesn't tend to fly because at some point you probably have to answer to someone.

When you stretch it out to this here bdsm thingamajig....All sorts of crazy shit starts to happen. There is no longer an accountability. You can actually be the king of your castle. Just need to find the right gal that is more than happy to swallow your shit and swords.

_____________________________



(in reply to Ialdabaoth)
Profile   Post #: 23
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 12:55:17 AM   
jujubeeMB


Posts: 723
Joined: 1/8/2010
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

I have been with women that offered the feed back and resistance of a sponge. They always seemed to manage to go down the drain. Relationship died from a serious lack of interest on my part.


Yeah, this thread confirms it. I think I'm slowly falling in love with you...

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 24
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:05:02 AM   
Eigenaar


Posts: 352
Joined: 5/3/2008
Status: offline 		In another thread on another site users said I want a doormat after I mentioned I expect serious replies from women before pursuing. Am I the kind of man you question? Ask better questions.

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 25
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:05:21 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline 		Well isn't that just fucking great. Now if I can only find one of CM's resident doormats and inform them that they will be driving to New York to pick your ass up, we just might be in business.


I can understand the initial attraction of the doormat....After awhile I would think you might get bored.


Anyone?

_____________________________



(in reply to jujubeeMB)
Profile   Post #: 26
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:07:41 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

In another thread on another site users said I want a doormat after I mentioned I expect serious replies from women before pursuing. Am I the kind of man you question? Ask better questions.


make clearer posts.

In another thread on another site users said they wanted insight into jigging for lake perch. It was a fishing site.

_____________________________



(in reply to Eigenaar)
Profile   Post #: 27
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:09:57 AM   
Smutmonger


Posts: 995
Joined: 2/17/2010
Status: offline 		My most hated words from any sub were always "Anything you want Sir."

First off, I knew it was a lie. I can come up with a squick or a freak out,or sheer impossibility for any occasion.

So the very phrase is a passive agressive "Fuck no,I am NOT going to try to think or make a decision,can you just entertain me instead?" They work about the same as one of those rubber things you stick you dick into-but you have to feed them too.

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

Well isn't that just fucking great. Now if I can only find one of CM's resident doormats and inform them that they will be driving to New York to pick your ass up, we just might be in business.


I can understand the initial attraction of the doormat....After awhile I would think you might get bored.


Anyone?


(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 28
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:10:51 AM   
NihilusZero


Posts: 4036
Joined: 9/10/2008
From: Nashville, TN
Status: offline 		I normally prefer women with enough grasp of the English language to be able to distinguish "feedback" from "confrontation".

But I may be a snob.

< Message edited by NihilusZero -- 2/26/2010 1:11:25 AM >

_____________________________

"I know it's all a game
I know they're all insane
I know it's all in vain
I know that I'm to blame."
~Siouxsie & the Banshees

NihilusZero.com

CM Sex God du Jour
CM Hall Monitor

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 29
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:13:37 AM   
Whiplashsmile4


Posts: 2305
Joined: 12/2/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy

Who knows what Nietzsche meant? Maybe it was all the ramblings of a syphilitic mind.

I have been with women that offered the feed back and resistance of a sponge. They always seemed to manage to go down the drain. Relationship died from a serious lack of interest on my part.


I personally relate to this 100%. When there's no life, spark or dynamic energy, I loose interest.

_____________________________

Жизнь ума ебет.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUzJI4Palq0

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 30
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:14:00 AM   
Eigenaar


Posts: 352
Joined: 5/3/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy


quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

In another thread on another site users said I want a doormat after I mentioned I expect serious replies from women before pursuing. Am I the kind of man you question? Ask better questions.


make clearer posts.

In another thread on another site users said they wanted insight into jigging for lake perch. It was a fishing site.
Okay: The answer is men who define women as doormats and start threads about the subject.

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 31
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:17:56 AM   
Whiplashsmile4


Posts: 2305
Joined: 12/2/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

I normally prefer women with enough grasp of the English language to be able to distinguish "feedback" from "confrontation".

But I may be a snob.


Snobby is acceptable practice, there are women that will not give either feedback nor engage in confrontation. Hey, I myself have tossed some wet sponges down the drain in my life. Sad thing about it, my opinion of them was that they were not really all that intelligent to begin with.

_____________________________

Жизнь ума ебет.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUzJI4Palq0

(in reply to NihilusZero)
Profile   Post #: 32
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:22:49 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy


quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

In another thread on another site users said I want a doormat after I mentioned I expect serious replies from women before pursuing. Am I the kind of man you question? Ask better questions.


make clearer posts.

In another thread on another site users said they wanted insight into jigging for lake perch. It was a fishing site.
Okay: The answer is men who define women as doormats and start threads about the subject.


The time is the time....Snippy little fuck, ain't I?


If men can praise the doormat....Then can someone tell me what type of a man seeks out the doormat and how does this type of man perceive his relationship as well as himself?

_____________________________



(in reply to Eigenaar)
Profile   Post #: 33
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:25:04 AM   
Eigenaar


Posts: 352
Joined: 5/3/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

I normally prefer women with enough grasp of the English language to be able to distinguish "feedback" from "confrontation".

But I may be a snob.
I must have experienced you from a totally other side then! Though ''normally'' is that overused it lost meaning.

(in reply to NihilusZero)
Profile   Post #: 34
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:27:34 AM   
heartcream


Posts: 3044
Joined: 5/9/2007
From: Psychoalphadiscobetabioaquadoloop
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

I normally prefer women with enough grasp of the English language to be able to distinguish "feedback" from "confrontation".

But I may be a snob.



Oh really? No. How did you ever come up with that thought?

_____________________________

"Exaggerate the essential, leave the obvious vague." Vincent Van Gogh

I'd Rather Be With You

Every single line means something.
Jean-Michel Basquiat



(in reply to NihilusZero)
Profile   Post #: 35
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:29:18 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4


quote:

ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

I normally prefer women with enough grasp of the English language to be able to distinguish "feedback" from "confrontation".

But I may be a snob.


Snobby is acceptable practice, there are women that will not give either feedback nor engage in confrontation. Hey, I myself have tossed some wet sponges down the drain in my life. Sad thing about it, my opinion of them was that they were not really all that intelligent to begin with.



But in a relationship should we not welcome feedback as well as confrontation?

If we are masters of our universe...Which I am confident that we all truly are. Wherein lies the harm? After all, I do have the final word on the subject. Should I not welcome her views no matter how spot on or repugnant? What difference does it really make?

_____________________________



(in reply to Whiplashsmile4)
Profile   Post #: 36
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:29:18 AM   
Eigenaar


Posts: 352
Joined: 5/3/2008
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy


quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy


quote:

ORIGINAL: Eigenaar

In another thread on another site users said I want a doormat after I mentioned I expect serious replies from women before pursuing. Am I the kind of man you question? Ask better questions.


make clearer posts.

In another thread on another site users said they wanted insight into jigging for lake perch. It was a fishing site.
Okay: The answer is men who define women as doormats and start threads about the subject.


The time is the time....Snippy little fuck, ain't I?


If men can praise the doormat....Then can someone tell me what type of a man seeks out the doormat and how does this type of man perceive his relationship as well as himself?
I am positive this is not the question you want answers to.

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 37
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:29:49 AM   
Whiplashsmile4


Posts: 2305
Joined: 12/2/2008
Status: offline 		Some are afraid to give feedback for fear of any confrontation it may bring, when the feedback is in stark contrast, or risks being insulting. I have taken the time to pick at the minds of those who were too timid to give feedback, and this generally tends to be one of the answers they give.

_____________________________

Жизнь ума ебет.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUzJI4Palq0

(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 38
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:31:03 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline 		I am positive that it is one of the questions I would like answered. Why does a king and a conquerer seek out a doormat?

_____________________________



(in reply to Eigenaar)
Profile   Post #: 39
RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:32:58 AM   
domiguy


Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline 		In all honesty, I would like to know from a Dom who seeks a ltr with a "doormat" where in lies the appeal?

_____________________________



(in reply to domiguy)
Profile   Post #: 40
Page:   <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Polls and Other Random Stupidity >> RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.094