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RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 8:26:55 AM   
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Isn't the conquest sweeter when the conquered is stronger?

If we feel like objectifying our potential partners before they've consented to it.



That is quite a leap.

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RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 10:42:20 AM   
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In all seriousness, this speaks volumes. I have found that some of the most scorned and heavily-moderated people on this forum are good, intelligent, "deep" people.


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RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 10:45:28 AM   
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he cares about his home?

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RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 11:30:34 AM   
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In all seriousness, this speaks volumes. I have found that some of the most scorned and heavily-moderated people on this forum are good, intelligent, "deep" people.


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No offense, but I had a couple of other people in mind when I said that :)

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RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 11:33:07 AM   
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meanie!

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RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 11:36:08 AM   
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meanie!

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RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 11:37:42 AM   
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:)

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RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:36:03 PM   
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RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 1:37:38 PM   
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RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 2:02:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hmm, from reading these definitions of doormat, I have to redefine myself.

I have never considered myself a doormat, but Sir does not tolerate confrontation or disobedience, and I would never find either method to be a positive or successful means of communication.

He makes all the decisions about our relationship and my behavior. All other decisions about our lives, well, He makes the ones that He feels are important or that He chooses to.

My opinion is expected, and considered, but when He chooses otherwise, I accept it with grace- that is my place.

I guess I'm a doormat.

But yet, I must still be entertaining Him, as we celebrate 4 years together next week.

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RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 2:03:10 PM   
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RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/26/2010 4:37:46 PM   
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Having been treated as a ‘doormat’, by more than one guy, I’d say the most prevalent characteristic amongst them, is irresponsibility.

They are the type who want credit for an outcome, when things work out well, while putting little to no effort toward the goal. When things turn out poorly; it wasn’t their fault.

They are extremely self-centered; it is ALL about them.

All but one had issues with one, if not both parents, except one; he was within the last three of eleven, so I suspect by that time, his parents were too busy supporting the family to spend much time with the kids. Whether or not that is the cause of their behavior, I couldn’t say.

Of course, this is my personal experience with specific people, and I should mention, none of those relationships involved a D/s dynamic.

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RE: What does it say about a man that seeks a doormat? - 2/27/2010 12:45:40 PM   
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