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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/26/2010 7:30:20 PM   
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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/26/2010 7:47:03 PM   
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is there any part of you that yearns for a man strong enough to overwhelm you?

Overwhelm me, no. Submit to me, yes. ;-)

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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/26/2010 8:48:27 PM   
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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/26/2010 9:03:18 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee

It only just hit me after I joined this site, but some of you ladies here just have the sexiest minds...it's just a shame I'd never be a slave, but I'd LOVE the tussle for dominance with one of you, mental or physical. An even bigger shame women are 5% Domme, 5% slave, and 90% vanilla. If only the proportions were 45/45/10, WHAT a beautiful world this would be.

For the first time ever, I both envy and pity a particular group; your slaves.

Well, as this is 'ASK a Mistress', I'll ask; is there any part of you that yearns for a man strong enough to overwhelm you?


Okay, what the hell do you mean five percent domina, five percent submissive and ninety percent vanilla? Where do you get these figures? I would never say I am five percent anything and ninety percent vanilla even though I am not real sadistic which might color someone's perspective.

I don't take offense to much, but I find these figures offensive. Are you putting dominant women in a catagory that you would put a male dominant into? Are dominant men five percent dominant, five percent submissive and ninety percent vanilla?

I am not sure I like your take on who and what we are and NO... I have no desire to be overtaken or to struggle with someone over what I already hold true in my life. NOR do I think of domiant men as better than submissive men in any way. Actually, I like the strong submissive male type and he isn't less than anyone in my eyes. I love his willingness to be all he is and exactly what he is to me and don't need the battle with a man who is always going to be challenging me to go submissive or vanilla, just as you the op seem to be thinking is workable simply because you tend to be thrilled by the domina mind and the challenge. What if you did find someone willing... would you be willing to lose that battle? Because that would be the only way it could or would work with me! lol

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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/26/2010 9:07:30 PM   
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Okay, what the hell do you mean five percent domina, five percent submissive and ninety percent vanilla? Where do you get these figures? I would never say I am five percent anything and ninety percent vanilla even though I am not real sadistic which might color someone's perspective

*psst* Lockit- it's badly worded, but I think he meant that the female population is made up of 5% Dominants, 5% submissives, and 90% vanillas.


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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/26/2010 9:12:30 PM   
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Status: offline 		LOL Wyld! Maybe... If that is the case, then I stick with my last paragraph and veto the rest! Thanks Darlin!

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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/26/2010 9:20:11 PM   
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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/26/2010 9:32:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee

It only just hit me after I joined this site, but some of you ladies here just have the sexiest minds...it's just a shame I'd never be a slave, but I'd LOVE the tussle for dominance with one of you, mental or physical. An even bigger shame women are 5% Domme, 5% slave, and 90% vanilla. If only the proportions were 45/45/10, WHAT a beautiful world this would be.

For the first time ever, I both envy and pity a particular group; your slaves.

Well, as this is 'ASK a Mistress', I'll ask; is there any part of you that yearns for a man strong enough to overwhelm you?


Some of us might also have considered asking if there was any part of you that yearned for a woman strong enough to overwhelm you, but your post more or less answers that already. 


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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/26/2010 9:44:33 PM   
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

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Okay, what the hell do you mean five percent domina, five percent submissive and ninety percent vanilla? Where do you get these figures? I would never say I am five percent anything and ninety percent vanilla even though I am not real sadistic which might color someone's perspective

*psst* Lockit- it's badly worded, but I think he meant that the female population is made up of 5% Dominants, 5% submissives, and 90% vanillas.



oooh tell me something...I thought he was just being an ass and I just ignored that part...lol

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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/27/2010 3:04:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Lockit
NOR do I think of domiant men as better than submissive men in any way.


C'mon.  We're better looking.


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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/27/2010 3:42:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee



Well, as this is 'ASK a Mistress', I'll ask; is there any part of you that yearns for a man strong enough to overwhelm you?




My most previous lengthy relationships was 4 years with a male dominant. Prior to that I was long term with a male submissive. I never submitted to the dominant. He never submitted to me. We shared our submissives between us and apart from having a quiet understanding of how each others minds ticked, we were just a couple. He was a rough diamond that had submissive females swooning but I can put my hand on my heart and say that I never even had so much as had a fantasy about him taking me.
The reason I never tried to dominate him or him dominate me has nothing to do with respect but all to do with intuition. I never got those signals and neither did he. Perhaps if he had seen my eyes dilate and soften when we got heated with one another he would of taken me hard but he never did and so he never tried!
Women do not have sex with other women if they are not bi or lesbian (at least they shouldn't) 2 dominants should never try to dominate one another unless there are clear signs that its ok to go in that direction.

I was not a switch back then, in fact I would go as far as to say that the thought of switchery was a big turn off. Neither did I secretly desire for a strong guy to break my will!! but I did have some curiosity and I absolutely refused to say 'Never'

I am now in a predominantly Dom/Domme relationship. I say Dom/Domme because we are both 95% dominant. We don't role-play or decide who is taking who on certain days of the week. That just sounds ridiculous!
We are a pretty average couple on very equal grounds that sexually use power play with one another. There is no Sir/Master in my life or Ma'am/Mistress in his but a sexual exploration on equal terms. Its a highly charged relationship with a quiet calm and a very deep understanding of how each others minds tick.


It was an incredibly long journey to reach this point and its the same for him but it works perfectly, at least for us.



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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/27/2010 3:56:06 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer

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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee

It only just hit me after I joined this site, but some of you ladies here just have the sexiest minds...it's just a shame I'd never be a slave, but I'd LOVE the tussle for dominance with one of you, mental or physical. An even bigger shame women are 5% Domme, 5% slave, and 90% vanilla. If only the proportions were 45/45/10, WHAT a beautiful world this would be.

For the first time ever, I both envy and pity a particular group; your slaves.

Well, as this is 'ASK a Mistress', I'll ask; is there any part of you that yearns for a man strong enough to overwhelm you?


Some of us might also have considered asking if there was any part of you that yearned for a woman strong enough to overwhelm you, but your post more or less answers that already. 



Moi? Oh, assume nothing, lest you be surprised. I've admired and adored strong women, from Wonder Woman through to WWE's Victoria. I've also had the privelege of dating 2-3 bodybuilder gals, but on THIS site, I'm (re)discovering a long-dormant attraction to mentally powerful ones too. Your earlier post in this thread, actually, is evidence of the calibre of mind I seek.

I suppose in my heart of hearts, the apex of my desires is an utterly powerful, but utterly dedicated woman. A slave who could whip me in both an arm-wrestle AND a game of Chess, it would be worth ignoring my dom nature for such a woman, but preferably she still desires nothing more than to serve me. Strong, yet as submissive to ME as she is dominant over others. She "conquers" me through strategised servility, without firing even the opening shot in some infantile gender war, regales me with her superior knowledge of the world over coffee in the kitchen, answers the check-in lady with a "Yes, I packed this bag myself at my master's bidding" (kisses me lovingly, eyes never leaving the check-in lady), at the other end carries ALL our bags off the carousel in St Barts to the taxi, loads the 50Ib suitcase in the back with a frown asking, "You absolutely sure you didn't leave anything off the packing list?"



Though unless I marry Becca Swanson (be still, my breakfast!), as a bodybuilder myself a woman physically overpowering me is never gonna happen; I had a playfight with a girlfriend who was my height at 170Ibs well-toned, (one of the above-mentioned fitness girls), the 'fight' ended when I threw her lengthwise across the bedroom to land on her bed. And the fun began.


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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/27/2010 5:01:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee


Though unless I marry Becca Swanson (be still, my breakfast!), as a bodybuilder myself a woman physically overpowering me is never gonna happen; I had a playfight with a girlfriend who was my height at 170Ibs well-toned, (one of the above-mentioned fitness girls), the 'fight' ended when I threw her lengthwise across the bedroom to land on her bed. And the fun began.




My ex was a champion power lifter and another was an underground fist fighter! You can only overpower a man if they want you to!


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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/27/2010 5:05:50 AM   
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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/27/2010 6:13:07 AM   
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Status: offline 		I cannot imagine ever being attracted in any way to a dominant male. If I was, we would end up driving one another totally batshit crazy. One way or another, I get my way.

The only men I have ever been attracted to are intelligent, funny, independent, totally vanilla, with no power struggle dynamic at all. They pull their weight plus a hair extra, they never try to dictate or pull the "I am right because I am the man and I said so" crap. They treat me with complete respect and awareness for my intelligence and abilities. There is no division of tasks based upon gender, only individual, talents, strengths and weaknesses.

That all being said, there have only been two men in 32 years that interested me enough to want to have a relationship with them.

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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/27/2010 6:42:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I cannot imagine ever being attracted in any way to a dominant male. If I was, we would end up driving one another totally batshit crazy. One way or another, I get my way.

The only men I have ever been attracted to are intelligent, funny, independent, totally vanilla, with no power struggle dynamic at all. They pull their weight plus a hair extra, they never try to dictate or pull the "I am right because I am the man and I said so" crap. They treat me with complete respect and awareness for my intelligence and abilities. There is no division of tasks based upon gender, only individual, talents, strengths and weaknesses.

That all being said, there have only been two men in 32 years that interested me enough to want to have a relationship with them.


She is correct!

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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/27/2010 6:55:12 AM   
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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/27/2010 7:21:11 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DrkJourney

I mostly get emails from Doms that want to submit to me, got one just today as a matter of fact.  Never had anyone to ask me to submit


DrkJourney, I get Dommes that want to submit to Me and Doms that want Me to submit to them....neither would work :)


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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/27/2010 8:09:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		'is there any part of you that yearns for a man strong enough to overwhelm you?'

No. And dammit, you made me throw up a little bit in my mouth.
Strong? They are strong. But the point is they use their strength for good, and to serve, and would never, ever use it against me or any other woman who wasn't running towards us ululating and aiming a Kalashnikov.
But your icky question has reminded me that's a big part of their charm: to see that strength channelled into grace.

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RE: Is there a name for Doms who find Dommes attractive? - 2/27/2010 8:10:34 AM   
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