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came4U -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 5:36:54 PM)
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ok ok, hold the fort!!
wtf
(btw, I've been gone for a while, not because I found my twue love or any other nonsense, nor because I didn't and couldn't bear to live anymore--I just am restless, gotta find different things to do with my time and energy by keepin' on at movin' on. but that doesn't mattah!)
I've come back recently (maybe it is hormones and I am horny?? lol who knows, again, who cares), and after intially checking out the fresh meat here, I get curious as to 'hmm what is goin on in forum-land. First it is humour topic--always looking for new material, always good stuff in there. Then other subjects, bla bla.
I have viewed the recent "Dear Bob' threads, and decided to stay out of it.
But, oook I cannot do that anymore and you know why?
I have a honest, open and kinda relevent question Bobbo.
Seeing that you are insulting Canadian women (aka moi), women in general (aka moi) and submissives (aka moi), I would like to remind you about your origional comment (since I haven't read anything here but your comment--no patience today, sorry).
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Every now and then I pull all the Canadian femsub profiles out of my "Hidden User" file.
Tells me who was viewing my profile (not that it mattered if they didn't write), let's me re-check all those profiles where the woman wrote nothing in her profile, reassures me that people are still using this site and reminds me of why I put so many of them in my hidden user file in the first place ...
... so many whose primary focus is sex.
No wonder there are so many wannabes ... the lowest common denominator.
So I start reading each profile, to see who goes back into the hidden file.
One by one they disappear until only a handful remain ... women sincerely seeking bdsm within a loving relationship.
And of course, I've most likely spoken to them already, discovering there was something about their requirements (or mine) that the other couldn't meet.
But I keep them up to reassure me there are still a few who seek true love.
Over and over I see the same complaints about wannabes ... from women whose primary focus is sex ... and I wonder, do they not recognize the connection between the two?
I've often thought there was a direct correlation between the standard a woman sets for a man and the number of wannabes: the higher the average standard, the fewer there will be.
Because I can see, just from reading the complaints in the profiles, that the lower the average standard, the more there are.
I just can't find it in me to be bothered showing an interest in someone whose standard is so low as to exclude a loving relationship, but I can see the appeal such a standard has for the wannabes.
Why do so many Canadian female submissives set their standards so low?
ooook. wannabes?
not sure if this has been addressed but, this will be the shortest portion of my comment (s).
1. Your kink is not my kink. LOVE is not MY KINK...got it? capishe? That fact alone does NOT make someone (Canadian or otherwise) a wannabe...quit judging, it makes you a turd to the commonplace.
--I don't need a man to fall for me, and I fall for him and we go loopy holding hands and gazing enlessly into eachother's eyes, ok? Love, shmove, it (to maybe some of us) gets in the way of the errr so called 'lifestyle'.
2. Didn't you leave here hmm (guessing) over a year+ some ago and announced that you are leaving because you found (yet ANOTHER) love of your life? a submissive, bla bla, you love her, she loves you, you then walked off into the sunset? Oh YES you did!! Where did that lead you? You are back again single? As Dr. Phil would say 'and how is that working for ya?'
Where is this blissful love now? it only lasted a year n some? wow.
3. How many twue loves have you had in your lifetime exactly (women, submissives)? Seven? Nine? Three, four??? Is that more number more special than those who decide to wait and NOT get hooked up with random internet people 'all in the name of luv'? Is YOUR love more relevent than any one else's?
I'm sorry (err no, actually I am not), but you speak of standards...
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I've often thought there was a direct correlation between the standard a woman sets for a man and the number of wannabes: the higher the average standard, the fewer there will be.
I am a Canadian woman, and I haven't had any Dominant touch me, been in LUV norrrrr 'settled' for someone in the past couple of years....yet funny
YOU HAVE. and yet you are back for ANOTHER.
tsk. so, who has the lower standards?
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