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BLoved -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 5:55:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania If I were a female seeking a mate and hit your forum posts, I would be put off by your attitude.. ~smile~ And that would matter to me only if you were in any way like the woman I seek. Is that the underlying problem you ladies are suffering from? You're not anything like the lady I seek and you're upset about that? ~smile~ But it should matter to you Bob, because the chances are very good that the submissives who are a match for you are reading them - and your profile - and being put off by your attitude. You are probably shooting yourself in the foot with your condescending attitude and that is the point (correct me if I'm wrong, Julia) that Julia is trying to make. Think about that for a while... I really don't think the lady I seek will see herself as one of you, considering how so many of you behave. She may very well admire me for my patience and restraint [;)]

LadyAngelika -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 5:56:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania If I were a female seeking a mate and hit your forum posts, I would be put off by your attitude.. ~smile~ And that would matter to me only if you were in any way like the woman I seek. Is that the underlying problem you ladies are suffering from? You're not anything like the lady I seek and you're upset about that? ~smile~ But it should matter to you Bob, because the chances are very good that the submissives who are a match for you are reading them - and your profile - and being put off by your attitude. You are probably shooting yourself in the foot with your condescending attitude and that is the point (correct me if I'm wrong, Julia) that Julia is trying to make. Think about that for a while.... Agreed. There are Dominant men here who post like gentlemen -- DarkSteven, RedMagic1, InvisibleBlack, EbonyWood, NihilusZero and sometimes even Jeffffff when he behaves come to mind -- and they will attract ladies. You have no sense of maintaining decorum and you are acting like a judgemental oaf. That isn't going to get the high quality ladies of any kind. - LA

juliaoceania -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 5:58:12 PM)
quote: Amongst other qualities I am looking for a lady who knows how to behave as an adult in public. Sorry. I like men that know when to use words like "paradigm" Oh yeah, I already have one[;)] He wouldn't claim to be a grown up though.. he finds that to be much too boring. In fact he bought me Fitz the Cat Vans so I could be as immature as he is... He listens to this punk rock station with his son... their promo says "This is not your father's punk station"... his son rolls his eyes[:D] Daddy dresses up in WWII navy clothes to go swing dancing, he wears different color converse on each of his feet, and has the high school kids he teaches color is Vans when he gets a new pair... Oh Lord, you saying I am not an adult would make him laugh so hard... seeing he has spent the last few years trying to get me to be as juvenile as he is... I will have to tell him he has finally succeeded...

BLoved -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 5:59:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania If I were a female seeking a mate and hit your forum posts, I would be put off by your attitude.. ~smile~ And that would matter to me only if you were in any way like the woman I seek. Is that the underlying problem you ladies are suffering from? You're not anything like the lady I seek and you're upset about that? ~smile~ But it should matter to you Bob, because the chances are very good that the submissives who are a match for you are reading them - and your profile - and being put off by your attitude. You are probably shooting yourself in the foot with your condescending attitude and that is the point (correct me if I'm wrong, Julia) that Julia is trying to make. Think about that for a while... Agreed. There are Dominant men here who post like gentlemen -- DarkSteven, RedMagic1, InvisibleBlack, EbonyWood, NihilusZero and sometimes even Jeffffff when he behaves come to mind -- and they will attract ladies. You have no sense of maintaining decorum and you are acting like a judgemental oaf. That isn't going to get the high quality ladies of any kind. - LA To be honest, I'd prefer women who do not want your recommendation. I like a woman who thinks for herself, rather than allowing those whose maturity is questionable to do their thinking for them.

LadyAngelika -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:00:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BLoved quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika Agreed. There are Dominant men here who post like gentlemen -- DarkSteven, RedMagic1, InvisibleBlack, EbonyWood, NihilusZero and sometimes even Jeffffff when he behaves come to mind -- and they will attract ladies. You have no sense of maintaining decorum and you are acting like a judgemental oaf. That isn't going to get the high quality ladies of any kind. - LA To be honest, I'd prefer women who do not want your recommendation. I like a woman who thinks for herself, rather than allowing those whose maturity is questionable to do their thinking for them. I don't see how your answer addressed in any way, shape or form what I wrote. - LA

came4U -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:03:13 PM)
I still want an answer to my question. What happened to Bob's twue love that occurred (as he mentioned on forums) a while back? seems awefully short-lived for a 'true love only' situation huh? Don't tell me she was a wannabe (faked her love?) or did she befall some disaster also? Fell into a volcano? Seems to me, your 'true love' situation was fairly short term (in the eyes of some of us who have had MUCH longer relationships. So are you saying you did NOT have sex with her in that time? If you did, hmmm, I think YOU are the one who is easy and in it for the sex. You put out too easily Bob. Like a naive girly girl at a bus stop, lookin' for love and screws the first pimp who gives her a matress and a dose of crack. btw, anyone in their right mind could see that this 'Candian women only attack (because he claims not to give a nutsac about nor reads any others) is a direct and passive, aggressive attack on women (especially Canadians) who have no interest in him. Bob, hint. get to a barber, the lord of the woodsman routine is a dead deal and get a job. This 'livin' like this is Hudson Bay circa 1753 is really lame. It does NOTHING for the sexual nor luv appetite for anyone (even if a gal were homeless).

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:05:33 PM)
quote: I really don't think the lady I seek will see herself as one of you, considering how so many of you behave. She may very well admire me for my patience and restraint head/desk I give up Bob, I really do. You have been given advice....you don't want it, fine. But I would bet my last penny that you will be alone for the rest of your life with that attitude.....and no it's not an insult it's my prediction. zeph

stef -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:07:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika I don't see how your answer addressed in any way, shape or form what I wrote. Your head would have to occupy the same warm, dark place Bob's does for you to see things the way he does. ~stef

BLoved -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:07:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth I give up Bob, I really do. You have been given advice....you don't want it, fine. But I would bet my last penny that you will be alone for the rest of your life with that attitude.....and no it's not an insult it's my prediction. I consider the behaviour of those who offer 'advice' ... and then I smile. ~smile~

LadyAngelika -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:09:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: came4U I still want an answer to my question. What happened to Bob's twue love that occurred (as he mentioned on forums) a while back? seems awefully short-lived for a 'true love only' situation huh? Don't tell me she was a wannabe (faked her love?) or did she befall some disaster also? Fell into a volcano? If you are talking about his wife, she passed away. That is sad am I am sure that was painful for him. We should not mock that. - LA

juliaoceania -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:09:22 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: If I have a 'dysfunction' it is an inability to perform when love is not involved. I just can't. There was a time in my youth when I was less aware that this was not so much an issue, but I've long since grown out of that and understand much better how sex and love work together. I simply can't do that to someone, and certainly won't do it to me. I respect myself and I hope I respect the other's humanity enough not to try. For there to be intimacy, there must be love. This I find very amusing, the part I bolded, Of course love was less of an issue than it is today! You had a biological mandate as a physically mature male human being, and that mandate was driven by your very DNA, which is to perpetuate the species... and part of that was to fuck women, even women that you may not love... wow, what a realization! Women, on the other hand, on average, care more about "love" because their mandate is to find a committed mating pair to bring up their offspring. It is kinda amusing to me that you do not see a correlation between your diminishing testosterone and your distaste for "casual" sex. Do you think you are unique in this regard, Bob? You are not unique. Most men by the time they are a certain age slow down sexually to some extent, their big head does more of the thinking than their small one. Most men as they age find it more and more important that they share something besides sex with a female... this is not at all unique in my experience, even on sites that are geared toward sexual connections... On the other hand, women seeking here are not all that focused on finding their one true love once their children are raised. Isn't that ironic, Bob? I mean most women on here I think still want to find a special someone, but that is not necessarily their only focus.... Just some observations about maturity and sexuality... conflating the two is not always going to work for your argument. I really wish he would address this point I made earlier... I would really love to hear his views on the human biological imperative... I wonder why it is that when we are "young dumb and full of cum" is also when we are the most fertile.. I wonder what Bob's impressions are of the human animal... I mean we are animals, aren't we? At least I think that we are, the last I looked we have all the same characteristics that they do... I really wonder what he thinks of the fact that testosterone and estrogen influence the actions of every biologically healthy human being on the planet... and just because he has quit producing as much of it and hsi sex drive has slowed down, that doesn't make other people of reproductive age somehow mentally ill or lacking in self esteem because they wanna go out and fuck and make babies... it is what we as human beings have been doing since there were human beings...

LadyAngelika -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:10:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stef quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika I don't see how your answer addressed in any way, shape or form what I wrote. Your head would have to occupy the same warm, dark place Bob's does for you to see things the way he does. ~stef Oh gosh stef, you can be so mean! ;-) - LA

came4U -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:12:43 PM)
quote: If you are talking about his wife, she passed away. That is sad am I am sure that was painful for him. We should not mock that. Oh yes, I did recall that, I saw those threads in action... is why I am asking what the exuse is with the last one. It must be tragic, since God forbid, Bob wouldn't be likely to admit that love just simply 'failed'. Not mocking, just simply asking, how someone he did meet online at that time (and took her in within a short time) is now over,.. yet he accuses others of 'moving too fast and being in it only for the sex' and therefore are wannabes.

BLoved -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:12:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania just because he has quit producing as much of it and hsi sex drive has slowed down ~smile~ Do you know something I don't know?

LadyAngelika -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:14:08 PM)
quote: I really wish he would address this point I made earlier... He has made it clear that he doesn't want to address points or listen to advice. He started this thread to whine and since no one has commiserated with him, it is a total failure in his eyes. None of us fit in his ideal, none of us understand him. He feels secure as the outcast, the victim. I'm going to move on to another thread. It has been a slice. - LA

BlueEyedSubinDE -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:15:37 PM)
So I've been reading this train wreck of a thread (what can I say, too much of that icky white stuff outside) and it dawned on me - Damn Bobo, this thread of your's is genius, pure genius. Let me ask you, just how many Canadian submissives have emailed you begging to proof they aren't wannabe's and how much they want a master who will love them? You've had how many people reply to this thread that there is nothing wrong with casual sex. But through it all, you keep typing with one hand, the back of your other hand to your forehead as alas you poor Bobo is the only dominant out there in all of Canada that wants love. Because really Bobo, let's cut to it, all this thread is is giant PR event. It's only purpose is to get you attention from submissives isn't it?

came4U -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:15:56 PM)
quote: It has been a slice was it a slice of love? otherwise, it just a wannabe slice.

KatyLied -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:18:10 PM)
It better be a slice of love, otherwise it needs viagra!

LadyAngelika -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:18:54 PM)
quote: Because really Bobo, let's cut to it, all this thread is is giant PR event. It's only purpose is to get you attention from submissives isn't it? Oooooh! Could not leave without acknowledging this! Nail, meet the hammer!! - LA

BLoved -> RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... (2/27/2010 6:19:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika He started this thread to whine and since no one has commiserated with him, it is a total failure in his eyes. Actually, I just pop in from time to time to see if Winsome has responded, or if there is another contribution of that calibre. It's rather obvious few of the rest of the contributors to this thread are interested in a serious discussion.

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