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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:36:54 PM   
came4U


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wtf

(btw, I've been gone for a while, not because I found my twue love or any other nonsense, nor because I didn't and couldn't bear to live anymore--I just am restless, gotta find different things to do with my time and energy by keepin' on at movin' on. but that doesn't mattah!)

I've come back recently (maybe it is hormones and I am horny?? lol who knows, again, who cares), and after intially checking out the fresh meat here, I get curious as to 'hmm what is goin on in forum-land. First it is humour topic--always looking for new material, always good stuff in there. Then other subjects, bla bla.

I have viewed the recent "Dear Bob' threads, and decided to stay out of it.

But, oook I cannot do that anymore and you know why?

I have a honest, open and kinda relevent question Bobbo.

Seeing that you are insulting Canadian women (aka moi), women in general (aka moi) and submissives (aka moi), I would like to remind you about your origional comment (since I haven't read anything here but your comment--no patience today, sorry).

quote:

Every now and then I pull all the Canadian femsub profiles out of my "Hidden User" file.

Tells me who was viewing my profile (not that it mattered if they didn't write), let's me re-check all those profiles where the woman wrote nothing in her profile, reassures me that people are still using this site and reminds me of why I put so many of them in my hidden user file in the first place ...

... so many whose primary focus is sex.

No wonder there are so many wannabes ... the lowest common denominator.

So I start reading each profile, to see who goes back into the hidden file.

One by one they disappear until only a handful remain ... women sincerely seeking bdsm within a loving relationship.

And of course, I've most likely spoken to them already, discovering there was something about their requirements (or mine) that the other couldn't meet.

But I keep them up to reassure me there are still a few who seek true love.

Over and over I see the same complaints about wannabes ... from women whose primary focus is sex ... and I wonder, do they not recognize the connection between the two?

I've often thought there was a direct correlation between the standard a woman sets for a man and the number of wannabes: the higher the average standard, the fewer there will be.

Because I can see, just from reading the complaints in the profiles, that the lower the average standard, the more there are.

I just can't find it in me to be bothered showing an interest in someone whose standard is so low as to exclude a loving relationship, but I can see the appeal such a standard has for the wannabes.

Why do so many Canadian female submissives set their standards so low?


ooook. wannabes?

not sure if this has been addressed but, this will be the shortest portion of my comment (s).

1. Your kink is not my kink. LOVE is not MY KINK...got it? capishe? That fact alone does NOT make someone (Canadian or otherwise) a wannabe...quit judging, it makes you a turd to the commonplace.

--I don't need a man to fall for me, and I fall for him and we go loopy holding hands and gazing enlessly into eachother's eyes, ok? Love, shmove, it (to maybe some of us) gets in the way of the errr so called 'lifestyle'.

2. Didn't you leave here hmm (guessing) over a year+ some ago and announced that you are leaving because you found (yet ANOTHER) love of your life? a submissive, bla bla, you love her, she loves you, you then walked off into the sunset? Oh YES you did!! Where did that lead you? You are back again single? As Dr. Phil would say 'and how is that working for ya?'
Where is this blissful love now? it only lasted a year n some? wow.

3. How many twue loves have you had in your lifetime exactly (women, submissives)? Seven? Nine? Three, four??? Is that more number more special than those who decide to wait and NOT get hooked up with random internet people 'all in the name of luv'? Is YOUR love more relevent than any one else's?

I'm sorry (err no, actually I am not), but you speak of standards...
quote:

I've often thought there was a direct correlation between the standard a woman sets for a man and the number of wannabes: the higher the average standard, the fewer there will be.


I am a Canadian woman, and I haven't had any Dominant touch me, been in LUV norrrrr 'settled' for someone in the past couple of years....yet funny

YOU HAVE. and yet you are back for ANOTHER.

tsk. so, who has the lower standards?


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:36:58 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

way to go.. ignore the rest of her post.
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Pompous twit.


Yeah, well he is going to continue not to address what I say, because I am a mature person with a reasonable outlook on life much of the time... now I can be immature on occasion too, but increasingly I get to choose when those occasions are and they suit me


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:37:34 PM   
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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:37:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
If I were a female seeking a mate and hit your forum posts, I would be put off by your attitude..


~smile~

And that would matter to me only if you were in any way like the woman I seek.

Is that the underlying problem you ladies are suffering from? You're not anything like the lady I seek and you're upset about that?

~smile~



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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:38:45 PM   
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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:39:57 PM   
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quote:

unless she has self-esteem issues.


You know, perhaps some women are willing to be casually ignored  when they have something to say as long as the sex is meaningful


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:41:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BLoved
No wonder there are so many wannabes... whose primary focus is sex.


You make a very common mistake. You lump everybody who isn't perfect for you in the "wannabe" or "fake" category. People are the way they are for the same reason you're the way you are - because that works for them. They aren't wannabes and they aren't fake, any more than you're a fake and a wannabe. If you'd emotionally mature a little, and realize that people are indeed real, and acting in their own best interests and needs, you'll stop labeling anyone unsuitable for you as a fake.

Think about it, BLoved. Maybe THEY see YOU as the fake wannabe, simply because YOU aren't suitable for THEM?

I'm sorry you're having trouble finding what you're looking for. I am too. But it doesn't make everyone else a fake.


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:41:59 PM   
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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:42:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: domiguy
You cunts take the cake.


Be gentle.

They're upset because none of them interest me.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:43:11 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BLoved

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
If I were a female seeking a mate and hit your forum posts, I would be put off by your attitude..


~smile~

And that would matter to me only if you were in any way like the woman I seek.

Is that the underlying problem you ladies are suffering from? You're not anything like the lady I seek and you're upset about that?

~smile~




When I am seeking, truly seeking, I write a very intelligent and classy ad. I do not seek casual partners at all... and in my many postings I never speak of BDSM as being a casual thing for me... so basically you are not seeking the type of woman you claim to want... you just wanna come here with the pissing and the moaning about how no one is good enough for you...

Dude, on your best day you wouldn't be fit to kneel before me....my Daddy is your superior in every way.


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:43:45 PM   
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quote:

I waded throough 9 plus pages of diatribe about all these shallow immature women with low self esteem who just want to use a man for a quick fuck....and not one single name.


and what is wrong with quick fucks?

love, to me, should be a hard limit Bob. I think you are the wannabe.

Fuck love, and fuck me (not Bob).

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:44:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: domiguy

You cunts take the cake.


As long as its cheese cake


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:44:59 PM   
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quote:

You cunts take the cake.


Please call me lil miss 'canyon cunt' please. tyvm :)

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:48:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
quote:

ORIGINAL: BLoved
quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
If I were a female seeking a mate and hit your forum posts, I would be put off by your attitude..

~smile~

And that would matter to me only if you were in any way like the woman I seek.

Is that the underlying problem you ladies are suffering from? You're not anything like the lady I seek and you're upset about that?

~smile~

When I am seeking, truly seeking, I write a very intelligent and classy ad. I do not seek casual partners at all... and in my many postings I never speak of BDSM as being a casual thing for me... so basically you are not seeking the type of woman you claim to want...


Amongst other qualities I am looking for a lady who knows how to behave as an adult in public.

Sorry.


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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:50:27 PM   
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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:52:07 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BLoved

quote:

ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
If I were a female seeking a mate and hit your forum posts, I would be put off by your attitude..


~smile~

And that would matter to me only if you were in any way like the woman I seek.

Is that the underlying problem you ladies are suffering from? You're not anything like the lady I seek and you're upset about that?

~smile~



But it should matter to you Bob, because the chances are very good that the submissives who are a match for you are reading them - and your profile - and being put off by your attitude. You are probably shooting yourself in the foot with your condescending attitude and that is the point (correct me if I'm wrong, Julia) that Julia is trying to make.

Think about that for a while....



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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:52:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:53:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KatyLied
That is a lesson you need to learn, maybe you'll find a femdom and she can teach you


~smile~

In my world people are considerably more mature than what I find here.

Adults who behave as children simply don't exist.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:55:37 PM   
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Amongst other qualities I am looking for a lady who knows how to behave as an adult in public.


Maybe what some of us want is not some old a$$ acting like a love-sick puppy in public to get his chills n thrills. It is all that goo-goo goopy behaviour that makes you seem like any BDSM is a no go and you are merely seeking to be the guy who holds the woman's purse (lovingly, of course) as she tries on skirts at your local Walmart.

Awe....ain't love so cutey. I feel like I am sooo missing out.

edit: [quoteAdults who behave as children simply don't exist.]

btw, notta. I find grown men who are seeking love and approval in every human-interaction as childish, matter of fact, borderline--infantile.

tosses a sucky/soother.

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RE: No wonder there are so many wannabes ... - 2/27/2010 5:55:43 PM   
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Adults who behave as children simply don't exist.

So.... what, you're claiming to be a unicorn or something?


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