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Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your profile? - 2/28/2010 12:30:42 PM   
Bodhisatva


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Status: offline 		I've noticed that many domme's have 'actively seeking: male dominants' on their profiles. Yet when I read their profiles no mention of male dom's are to be found. And I'm not sure why a domme, particularly one's that are looking for subs, would include male dominants in their actively searching criteria. I've seen many instances of this throughout the site. Can someone explain this for me?

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 2/28/2010 12:43:38 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Without knowing anything more, I assume that it's some scammer who threw together a profile without thought.  Post a pic of a gorgeous woman, write a semilegible profile, and contact gullible men.

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 2/28/2010 12:51:56 PM   
thepillowdreamer


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Status: offline 		wanting to talk shop with somebody who's got the opposite set of genitals?

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 2/28/2010 12:59:31 PM   
Voodali


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Status: offline 		It could be to do with the fact that the categories we are able to choose from don't cover every lifestyle possibility.  While I am not one of them, there are probably Dommes who, in addition to wanting a sub, would like a Dom to fill some role in their lives. I do see  poly Dom/Domme couples occasionally.
Then again, and more likely, it could be a scammer who is simply targeting as many men as possible.

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 2/28/2010 1:00:05 PM   
Domin8tingUrDrmz


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Status: offline 		Did they also select "actively seeking: friends"?  I like men.  All types of men, submissive, dominant, switch, 'nilla.  Men are pretty cool.  I get along better with men than I do with women. 

I wouldn't want a dominant male for an intimate partner, but for a friend, absolutely.  Why not?  They can be evil geniuses.  I like evil geniuses.

*Edited for clarity and to add an important question mark.

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 2/28/2010 1:49:50 PM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		I could be someone who enjoys bottoming, but is not comfortable with a switch label, because they do not actually feel submissive in any way.  There are no categories for top, bottom, sadist, or masochist here, so they may be trying to work with what is available.

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 2/28/2010 1:52:51 PM   
Bodhisatva


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ORIGINAL: Domin8tingUrDrmz

Did they also select "actively seeking: friends"?  I like men.  All types of men, submissive, dominant, switch, 'nilla.  Men are pretty cool.  I get along better with men than I do with women. 

I wouldn't want a dominant male for an intimate partner, but for a friend, absolutely.  Why not?  They can be evil geniuses.  I like evil geniuses.

*Edited for clarity and to add an important question mark.


I see. That makes sence.

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 2/28/2010 1:54:22 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I seek dominant men for equal-level romantic partnerships. I also make friends regardless of orientation.

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 2/28/2010 3:17:55 PM   
CallaFirestormBW


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Status: offline 		I haven't checked mine, but we're always open to welcoming new Keepers of either gender who fit with the philosophies and styles of the House, with or without their own servants in tow... so if it's there on mine, it's an acknowledgment of that reality for our situation.

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 3/1/2010 8:35:02 PM   
khem


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Status: offline 		I thought Dom/Domme couples were fairly common?  Just because they don't beat *each other* doesn't mean they don't still have fun.  I've often seen leather families with Dom/Domme couples...

Also, people do look for like-minded friends.

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 3/1/2010 9:56:55 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		It could also be a mistake - for a long time, we had on our profile that we were seeking females and couples ... which we aren't. Mistakes do happen.

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 3/1/2010 9:58:42 PM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		All dommes want to acquaint themselves with the angry end of the Domidong.

It's a fact.

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 3/1/2010 10:01:35 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		I am sure some are like me, seeing a Dom on his hands and knees might be as hot for them as seeing a Domme kneeling before me with her mouth open is as hot for me.

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 3/1/2010 10:05:15 PM   
MstrPBK


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ORIGINAL: domiguy: All dommes want to acquaint themselves with the angry end of the Domidong.
It's a fact.


I might be the odd one here but ... i would rather not be angry with my slave. I would rather have submission from the heart and soul rather then Me angrily demanding it. This does not mean I do not have an edge.

MstrPBK
St. Paul, MN USA

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RE: Why select 'actively seeking male doms' in your pro... - 3/1/2010 10:11:54 PM   
domiguy


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ORIGINAL: MstrPBK

quote:

ORIGINAL: domiguy: All dommes want to acquaint themselves with the angry end of the Domidong.
It's a fact.


I might be the odd one here but ... i would rather not be angry with my slave. I would rather have submission from the heart and soul rather then Me angrily demanding it. This does not mean I do not have an edge.

MstrPBK
St. Paul, MN USA


You are correct. You are very very odd. No one here likes you.

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