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RE: Cheating - What makes it so bad? - 3/1/2010 11:16:27 AM   
Musicmystery


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that the cheater lied


Multiple partners isn't the issue. This is.

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RE: Cheating - What makes it so bad? - 3/1/2010 6:18:38 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse
There was a woman in my life that was a serial cheater. It had nothing at all to do with what existed between the two of us. She simply could not say no to a good romp. Because they meant nothing to her, she could not understand why it would upset me.

I totally understand this as I have felt/been this way most of my life. I don't understand why sex has to MEAN something...lol...I totally believe that two people can and should enjoy each other and it doesn't have to involve commitment or the earth shifting on its axis or something. I'm in a relationship now where I think He kind of understands my feelings on this. It doesn't mean I can act on them willy-nilly but I think He gets it. There's nothing inherently wrong with feeling/being this way but it does all boil down to how you act on those feelings. Having to lie to do so just isn't kosher...........luci

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RE: Cheating - What makes it so bad? - 3/1/2010 6:21:09 PM   
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Being decieved.

There isn't anything wrong with wanting other partners, but betraying another is wrong.





THIS.

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