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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/1/2010 9:05:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Well, those messages and the ones that call me a bitch because they don't like my journal entry....

I like your journal entry

But then, I kind of adore smartass remarks...

To the OP - don't try to help people get better results. It really doesn't work; people don't want to be helped. Your best bet is to look for the people whose profiles you connect with and ignore the profiles that annoy you. This may mean quite a bit of ignoring...

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/2/2010 4:56:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: BeIgnited

Beyond that, altering one's profile and pictures may slow the deluge of douchbaggery that most women here get in their inboxes, but it certainly doesn't stop it. My profile is relatively sex-free, as are my pictures, and I still get at least one message a week to the tune of "How big are your tits?"

Funny. I guess being a guy means you seldom get those kind of messages. The ones that I get are from gay men who want to 'chat' or ask if I want to be their slaves. I'm principally interested in women or couples, not gay men.

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/2/2010 5:27:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: trueshadow

Funny. I guess being a guy means you seldom get those kind of messages. The ones that I get are from gay men who want to 'chat' or ask if I want to be their slaves. I'm principally interested in women or couples, not gay men.

I'll underscore that. And even the the guy gays are like one every two weeks or so. You still don't get a whole lot of messages. I wonder if women in general realize how different the dating world is for each gender. A lot of the time I doubt it.

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/2/2010 5:47:41 PM

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and You are so fucking fake..you make me puke~

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/2/2010 5:50:35 PM

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ome on jeffwey you have email..from me..whats a mattah? oh wahhh scared lil boy~lol

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/2/2010 5:58:10 PM

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How can you expect a better quality of man if you're advertising to the lowest quality?

Bob? Is that you? Cool pic!

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/2/2010 10:35:10 PM

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trying to help people get better results.

And what would the better result be? You? I am not understanding how you know "people" (whatever that means) do not get the results they want. To me, unsolicited help always smacks of a sense of superiority - I have no problem with that, for as long as you prove it.

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/2/2010 10:48:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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How can you expect a better quality of man if you're advertising to the lowest quality?

Bob? Is that you? Cool pic!

My suspcions that it IS Bob-Be-Loved started at the OP. They were confirmed here. I spent 10 years as a part-time editor of a gay, national porn mag. So what does that have to do with the speculation that OP=Bob-a-roni? Ans: One of the things that I learned was to become very sensitive to the "voice" of the writer. I had to edit story after story, article after article WITHOUT changing the style, tone, nor voice of the writer.

I have ALWAYS (from high school on) been able to mimic written voices. On one of Boobie's interminable strings, I even scared GreedyTop when I was mocking/mimicking BOB-spelled-backwards-is-still-BOB's voice/writing style.

zeph = short comment = I also said "Bob, is that you?"

ETA: Hey! OP (Bob or not) Did you ever read "Zen and the art of Motorcycle Maintainence?" MUCH better discussion of "Quality" than you've been able to fake here.

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/2/2010 11:09:14 PM

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Those profiles aren't posted by women anyway. They are gay men trying to trap you into sending them your cock shots bro! Honest. Thats the truth. Really it is. . . . so, can stop worring about it now that you know a bunch of guys are jerking off to your letters and pics.

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/2/2010 11:12:32 PM

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you'd be surprised how difficult it is to find clothing for lagomorphs.

Guess this lil lady is gonna stay BUNNY-NEKKID and damn the consequences!

(and if you don't like that, you can kiss my cute fuzzy ass...

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/2/2010 11:20:26 PM

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Okay, let's perve the OP's profile: 23 years old. Joined yesterday (literally) and STARTS this thread with his post #4 (gotta go see what the others are... LOL!) which says things like "I've noticed" yeah, right. Come back in a few weeks and maybe we'll believe you. His post #5 is:

quote:

ORIGINAL: Schwerpunkt
How flattering

I know of NO 23 year old who has that manner of speaking. That tone is used principally by sarcastic, dried-up, un-happy men that live alone in Canada on owned land with their 5 dogs and 4 cats.

His profile has 3 obvious give-aways.....

It starts: When one describes a master of any subject, it's a critique of how he bends things to his will. A master painter or sculptor has full control over his medium, and can shape it in any way he sees fit. It is an extension of his tremendous willpower. This is what I am, or could be, to you.

Oh, PLEASE...... if that isn't "classic" Boob-a-rama-speak, I don't know anything.

TWO: The blankety-blank profile goes on-and-on-and-on in best-o-Bob tradition.

THREE: In the profile we find this gem: I have a cute little scar from a piercing above my right eye. Really? Since when did ANY 23-year old MALE ever refer to himself as "Cute"? Especially when he's trying to "come off" as a Master?

OMG!!! I discovered a true statement in his first and only journal entry. It reads:
Created a new name to log onto forums
HUH? If Schwerpunkt (the OP) joined yesterday, why, oh, why would he need to create a "new" name?

:::SIGH::: I could go on for hours, but I ask ANY of you that have a fetlife account to contact the boy-man whose pic has been Shaing-hied to contact BlackIrishLad over there and have him verify or deny that the profile here on CM belongs to him.

Bob gives the BIGGEST clue of all by listing the fetlife account at the end of the profile!!!! Subtle? NOT!!!!! Bob, didn't you have to read "The Purloined Letter" in school? Did you learn NOTHING of human nature..... "Oh, I'll have to link to fetlife so that people who suspect my pic is a fake will go there and they'll see I'm 'real'."

MODS! ! ! ! If the pic is of BlackIrishLad AND has been "snatched" for BLoved's use here..... Why that sounds like a sufficent TOS violation to kick BLoved's butt across cyberspace.

MODS!!!! I'm going to report my own post to you so that you can follow-up.

ETA: HELP! Just found out that one can't report their own post. Somebody, please report me so that there's a "heads up" for MODs.

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/2/2010 11:47:23 PM

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Hey, BLoved (aka Schwerpunkt)

A real man would simply say, "Busted."

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/2/2010 11:50:30 PM

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Those profiles aren't posted by women anyway. They are gay men trying to trap you into sending them your cock shots bro! Honest. Thats the truth. Really it is. . . . so, can stop worring about it now that you know a bunch of guys are jerking off to your letters and pics.

i get several "UR A GAY DOOD FAKE FAKE FAKE" messages a day. after i took down my pics, three dudes i wrote to (platonic) called me just about every name you can think of, put me down, and tried to fool me into sending nude pics with their names written on sheets of paper, or even call them or go on cam, to "prove myself".

thus the old addage: there ain't no girls on the internet.

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/2/2010 11:55:14 PM

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ORIGINAL: antipode

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trying to help people get better results.

And what would the better result be? You? I am not understanding how you know "people" (whatever that means) do not get the results they want. To me, unsolicited help always smacks of a sense of superiority - I have no problem with that, for as long as you prove it.

often free advice is worth everything you pay for it

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/3/2010 3:26:43 AM

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zeph = short comment = I also said "Bob, is that you?"

Well then, great minds and all that, eh Lance?

Eta: OP you've been here since March 1st of this year and you're noticing a pattern? Either you have no life and have spent far too many hours looking at profiles or (and this is my guess) you have no idea what you're talking about.

.....or you're Bob and still have no idea what you are talking about *grins*

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/3/2010 6:15:16 AM

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OK, I'm lost, who is "Bob"? And why does everybody not like him? I'm going to go sign up for one Michaels newbie classes, obviously I missed something significant about Bobs.........

And if there is more than one Bob about does that make them Boobs???

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/3/2010 9:38:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: antipode

quote:

trying to help people get better results.

And what would the better result be? You? I am not understanding how you know "people" (whatever that means) do not get the results they want. To me, unsolicited help always smacks of a sense of superiority - I have no problem with that, for as long as you prove it.

somebody is a lil grumpy....

and who the hell is bob? I created the schwerpunkt account after asking another member of collarme why I couldn't login to the forums, she said she had the same problem until she created a new account. that solved my problem. I thought this forum would be a fun place, but so far it's pretty unfriendly and full of dicks.

Pretty disappointed with the forums and collarme in general. I doubt I'll be checking out the forums again though, nothing really of value to be found. I much prefer fetlife these days.

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/3/2010 10:33:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: Schwerpunkt
and who the hell is bob? I created the schwerpunkt account after asking another member of collarme why I couldn't login to the forums, she said she had the same problem until she created a new account. that solved my problem. I thought this forum would be a fun place, but so far it's pretty unfriendly and full of dicks.

Pretty disappointed with the forums and collarme in general. I doubt I'll be checking out the forums again though, nothing really of value to be found. I much prefer fetlife these days.

Bob is the soap opera du jour. You unfortunately made a first post that could sound condescesnding at the same time that a long-banned user made a reappearance and has been posting a lot of things are are for-certain condescending.

I agree with what you wrote in the OP. I think you're running into some bad timing here, and some longtime users who could stand to have some longer fuses and some more welcoming arms.

These message boards recently moved from a stricter moderation policy to a looser moderation policy, and some forum regulars haven't yet figured out how to control their tongues, because before they didn't have to, since their personal attacks would be removed by a mod.

Welcome to the boards.

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/3/2010 10:39:42 AM

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I didn't think he was Bob. He'd have to be about three times as condescending and anal to get to that point.

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RE: Finding a good "Dom" - 3/3/2010 1:10:57 PM

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would bob really fake a profile/steal a pic just to post on the forums?

i know it's not impossible, but i'm having trouble imagining anybody doing that unless they were trying to get back at somebody in general, and the op didn't snipe at just one person. it's just seems like a lot of work, haha.

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