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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:41:05 AM   
LaTigresse


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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:41:09 AM   
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I would love advice. That's why I'm here. I just want tactful advice. Maybe that's unrealistic, but I don't find things like 'Well, try not to get your panties in a twist' particularly helpful. Do you?


Advice? ok ...here goes.

If I found myself in your position, I think I would take my self out. just off Myself.

Probably pills and a bottle of fine single malt scotch. of course the danger is in falling asleep and vomiting.

If you decide to go gunshot to the head, wrap it up in a shower curtain. It makes the clean up easier


Thoughtfully

Jeff


Eh, I've heard overdossing is extreamly painful, but it leaves the body more presentable for a funneral than the gun way. Are you saying wrap the gun in the curtain or wrap myself?

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:42:11 AM   
Bodhisatva


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I guess sticking your head into the oven is sooooo last century?


I think so. The oven way only works with gas ovens, most are electric these days.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:42:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva
I would love advice. That's why I'm here. I just want tactful advice. Maybe that's unrealistic, but I don't find things like 'Well, try not to get your panties in a twist' particularly helpful. Do you?

Do you not think that you received it?



I think most of the posters were helpful. You for example gave me some things to think on. But some were downright rude, and then became angry and blamed me when I responded in kind. They were rude when I was polite, and even more rude when I returned their rudeness. I don't know what else to do.


If you really and truly think someone is being a rude jackass, ignoring them is my SoP. Sinking to their level just makes you look bad. However, I really don't think you have been insulted.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:44:07 AM   
Musicmystery


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You have given yourself a screen name, too bad you have no earthly idea of how to fulfill it.

There's always "BodhiNOTva..."



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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:45:27 AM   
Bodhisatva


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And you gave a contradictory answer and became offended when I asked you if you could apply the talent you claimed to posses to any situation. You are one dumb bitch. And you claim that I've been to more parties than you. You've never been to a single bdsm event and you presume to give other's advice. Wow.


I've been to a lot of parties in my life, people play games. They do things like drink and play strip poker, get naked and go into hot tubs, break out cocaine in the middle of a room...


Sounds wonderful, I envy you. But then why'd you say I'd been to more parties than you? Was that directed as someone else?

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:47:17 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva
I would love advice. That's why I'm here. I just want tactful advice. Maybe that's unrealistic, but I don't find things like 'Well, try not to get your panties in a twist' particularly helpful. Do you?

Do you not think that you received it?



I think most of the posters were helpful. You for example gave me some things to think on. But some were downright rude, and then became angry and blamed me when I responded in kind. They were rude when I was polite, and even more rude when I returned their rudeness. I don't know what else to do.

Like with many other things in life, you take what you need and leave the rest.

Around the forums, you're going to find all kinds of writing styles.  I tend to think that I'm rather blunt in Mine.  Still, even with the various styles and approaches that you'll find here, more often than not, you'll get what you're looking for.

In the future, I would appreciate it if you would refrain from the insults and the name calling.  It is neither necessary or true.  I can promise you that Julia is neither stupid, nor a bitch.  Rumpus, who I happen to know personally, is nothing of a twit.


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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:49:37 AM   
Bodhisatva


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva
I would love advice. That's why I'm here. I just want tactful advice. Maybe that's unrealistic, but I don't find things like 'Well, try not to get your panties in a twist' particularly helpful. Do you?

Do you not think that you received it?



I think most of the posters were helpful. You for example gave me some things to think on. But some were downright rude, and then became angry and blamed me when I responded in kind. They were rude when I was polite, and even more rude when I returned their rudeness. I don't know what else to do.

Like with many other things in life, you take what you need and leave the rest.

Around the forums, you're going to find all kinds of writing styles.  I tend to think that I'm rather blunt in Mine.  Still, even with the various styles and approaches that you'll find here, more often than not, you'll get what you're looking for.

In the future, I would appreciate it if you would refrain from the insults and the name calling.  It is neither necessary or true.  I can promise you that Julia is neither stupid, nor a bitch.  Rumpus, who I happen to know personally, is nothing of a twit.



This would be the rumpus who's only post to me was to call me names? Ones you personally consider unnecessary. Or perhaps, to you, it's only unnecessary from me?

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:50:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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And you gave a contradictory answer and became offended when I asked you if you could apply the talent you claimed to posses to any situation. You are one dumb bitch. And you claim that I've been to more parties than you. You've never been to a single bdsm event and you presume to give other's advice. Wow.


I've been to a lot of parties in my life, people play games. They do things like drink and play strip poker, get naked and go into hot tubs, break out cocaine in the middle of a room...


Sounds wonderful, I envy you. But then why'd you say I'd been to more parties than you? Was that directed as someone else?


I do believe she meant parties in general, not BDSM parties. For that matter, even though I attend a number of play parties and kink events, I realize that there are people on this forum who know so much more than me who have never attended one. Attending kink events doesn't give you a BDSM XP bonus.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:52:12 AM   
Musicmystery


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Status: offline 		Jesus Christ. Enough already.

If I were to respond to every insult you've thrown my way, I'd be posting here all day. Let go.

Breathe. Make coffee. Find a hobby.

Truth is, you LIKE being the victim, and will do whatever you have to do to maintain that status.

Why, I can't imagine, but it's your game. Enjoy.

Off to play with others.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:54:23 AM   
Bodhisatva


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Off to play with others.


You've said that several times. Somehow I daubt you'll be able to resist posting here again. And, ironically, you feel my monicker is in poor taste but you use the christian god's name as a curse. Interesting.

< Message edited by Bodhisatva -- 3/3/2010 10:55:15 AM >

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:55:17 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		See, now I have to start agreeing with the others. If you wanted this to end, you would have let that go. That you continue to dig just suggests that you want it to continue.

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It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:56:35 AM   
Musicmystery


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ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

Off to play with others.


You've said that several times. Somehow I daubt you'll be able to resist posting here again. And, ironically, you feel my monicker is in poor taste but you use the christian god's name as a curse. Interesting.


In case you missed it again:
quote:

Truth is, you LIKE being the victim, and will do whatever you have to do to maintain that status.

Why, I can't imagine, but it's your game. Enjoy.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:57:13 AM   
Bodhisatva


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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

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ORIGINAL: Bodhisatva

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

Off to play with others.


You've said that several times. Somehow I daubt you'll be able to resist posting here again. And, ironically, you feel my monicker is in poor taste but you use the christian god's name as a curse. Interesting.


In case you missed it again:
quote:

Truth is, you LIKE being the victim, and will do whatever you have to do to maintain that status.

Why, I can't imagine, but it's your game. Enjoy.



See now, that didn't take long.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:57:38 AM   
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It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:58:10 AM   
Musicmystery


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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:59:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		Do you'll think we'll be treated to a round of "I must be such an important part of your lives because you are posting on my thread!!!111"?

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It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:59:23 AM   
Bodhisatva


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Be patient. He doesn't learn quickly.


You said you weren't going to post here anymore, yet you can't help yourself. What do we call that? Oh right, a lier.

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 10:59:38 AM   
LadyPact


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This would be the rumpus who's only post to me was to call me names? Ones you personally consider unnecessary. Or perhaps, to you, it's only unnecessary from me?

I generally find it unnecessary from everyone, unless the people interacting have that kind of relationship.  There are some folks here who do have that kind of joking banter between them, but the non joking type seems to be cropping up more and more.

I'll give you a piece of advice that you didn't ask for.  When I write an original around here, or even respond to someone on the forums who is addressing Me, I do so with two things in mind.  One is that I can't control what anyone else says around here, even though I have My preferences.  The one thing that I can control is the way I respond.  I'm not perfect at it, but I don't have to sink to someone else's level because they've said something that I found offensive.  To be sure, I'll tell them that I found it offensive, but I attempt to maintain My own standard.


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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: Is this as disrespectful as I think it is? - 3/3/2010 11:00:49 AM   
AquaticSub


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

To be sure, I'll tell them that I found it offensive, but I attempt to maintain My own standard.



And this, LP, is part of why you are awesome.

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

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