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FukinTroll -> RE: Being Alone vs Being Lonely (3/4/2010 1:13:29 PM)
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ORIGINAL: came4U
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Eventually I will bump into her or them and it will all be wonderful and majikal (insert fluffy goodness here) I am just remiss of the actual drive to wade through the do-me girls, co-dependents, micromanage required etc... and just come here from time to time to spread discontent and paranoia.
in that case, are dames that are afraid to be alone (or maybe even men??) more likely to need micromanaged? Not to say that isn'what some want to do, but if they don't, would a person be more prone to see a quantity of clues from another's past so they can avoid that?
uhhg doubt that even makes sense, doing too many things at once *^$%
Again, I find a lot of people are not comfortable with themselves. Usually the first clue comes from the many distractions they have around them... books, movies, electronic escapism, and it has been my experience that those who cannot find an accord with stillness... being comfortable with just themselves sans distractions... often have time management issues as well as other management issues forcing me to lay out an "action item list" of treating the needs of daily, comfortable, life.
I couldn't confidently say that the bulk of people who are not comfortable with themselves are the micromanagement type; some overachieve/excel in careers or endeavors. It is hard to fault the over exuberant, uncomfortable oneness, type because of their diligent persuit of productivity as a distraction.
I feel the dynamic could and should go in any direction, that it is the partnership of D/s that we negotiate each of our responsabilities and obligations to the relationship. Not everyone is looking for a house slave to be the girl/boy friday, sometimes the D wants the responsibility of hearth and home while the slave is serving in the career world. The beauty of this medium (internet) is what ever your kink is and whatever you are looking for you can find a partner that can/ could enhance an already good life and bring more to you, rather than take from you.
However I find that, for me, someone who is comfortable with themselves and can inhabit any enviroment, circumstances, and live, like me, on the greatest drug the world has ever had (life) is the companion for me.
YMMV
P.S. If you find offence with the words written above, know that it is my opinion and I just don't give a fuck if it hurt your feelings.
SLURP
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