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Dressmenow -> Dressing a male (3/5/2010 9:24:28 AM)

Are there Mistresses or lifestyle domme's that enjoy keeping there males dressed as a female totally for there pleasure or to keep them under control?



Lockit -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 9:38:24 AM)

What do you think? There is someone, somewhere, that is into what someone else is into, no matter what it is. Your profile would be a good starting point with a search such as this. We get at least one thread about this topic, a week, so you might find something about it in the FQA here on the mistress board. I haven't checked it in a while and don't know what all is there, but from my last check, there was a lot of great info there. 



LadyNTrainer -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 9:47:47 AM)

Even someone who enjoys it really isn't going to appreciate someone who demands having it done to him his way RIGHT NOW, as your screen name implies.  Demanding do-me bottoms are a dime a dozen, and nobody's buying.



Madame4a -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 10:44:20 AM)

What is your distinction between Mistress and Lifestyle Domme ... ?

I'm sure you can find someone.. definitely not my thing...and pay attention to what the other ladies have said...



VaguelyCurious -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 10:49:03 AM)

FR

Do I find T-girls pretty sexy? (Or at least the sexy ones...)
Yes.

Do I find the idea of getting involved in the actual process of dressing sexy?
No.

Do I find the idea of dressing someone 'to keep them under control' a little bit offensive?
Yes.



PeonForHer -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 12:58:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Do I find the idea of dressing someone 'to keep them under control' a little bit offensive?
Yes.



Cutie,

Surely you're limiting yourself a bit here?  You could have a lot of funishment fun ordering a man to dress in clothing that he can't stand.  Getting a trendy guy to lose his 'justoutofbed' hairstyle in favour of a brilliantined side-parting - and forcing him to wear a bow tie and beige cardigan, for instance.  The possibilities are endless . . . .



VaguelyCurious -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 1:04:04 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Do I find the idea of dressing someone 'to keep them under control' a little bit offensive?
Yes.



Cutie,

Surely you're limiting yourself a bit here?  You could have a lot of funishment fun ordering a man to dress in clothing that he can't stand.  Getting a trendy guy to lose his 'justoutofbed' hairstyle in favour of a brilliantined side-parting - and forcing him to wear a bow tie and beige cardigan, for instance.  The possibilities are endless . . . .


Ok, sorry for being unclear-I meant 'dressing' as in dressing as a T-girl. The whole 'feminine=controlled" subtext is what pissed me off, not the idea of controlling what a guy wears.

Oh, and, honeybun: don't call me cutie.
:-)



PeonForHer -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 1:59:57 PM)

True, but since I'm in the mood to kick off a stinker of an argument and wind you up like Big Ben's mainspring in the process:

Stereotypically feminine clothing is very controlling.  Skirts that force women to sit in unnatural positions with their knees locked together, jackets that are never warm enough, knickers that ride up and give you the cheesecutter effect on the growler and poopchute . . . . and those shoes.  Shoes that scrunch up the toes and murder the ankles;  shoes that you can't walk in without using a man as support. 




VaguelyCurious -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 2:05:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

True, but since I'm in the mood to kick off a stinker of an argument and wind you up like Big Ben's mainspring in the process:

Stereotypically feminine clothing is very controlling.  Skirts that force women to sit in unnatural positions with their knees locked together, jackets that are never warm enough, knickers that ride up and give you the cheesecutter effect on the growler and poopchute . . . . and those shoes.  Shoes that scrunch up the toes and murder the ankles;  shoes that you can't walk in without using a man as support. 


I can see your point (sorry to disappoint your argumentative side, but have you ever seen me get wound up on teh internets?).

Do you really think that's where the OP is coming from, though?



Ladynslave -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 2:11:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Dressmenow

Are there Mistresses or lifestyle domme's that enjoy keeping there males dressed as a female totally for there pleasure or to keep them under control?


You do realize that a search for FemDomme profiles with the keyword feminization would have answered this question, right?



PeonForHer -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 2:39:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Do you really think that's where the OP is coming from, though?



No.



SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 2:53:21 PM)

~FR~
 
Please refer to the FAQ (http://www.collarchat.com/m_3057130/tm.htm) for the answer to this question.



thishereboi -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 3:02:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

Do I find the idea of dressing someone 'to keep them under control' a little bit offensive?
Yes.



Cutie,

Surely you're limiting yourself a bit here?  You could have a lot of funishment fun ordering a man to dress in clothing that he can't stand.  Getting a trendy guy to lose his 'justoutofbed' hairstyle in favour of a brilliantined side-parting - and forcing him to wear a bow tie and beige cardigan, for instance.  The possibilities are endless . . . .


Yea, I had one make me drive around in a golf cart wearing nothing but white ruffled panties with pink bows.  Even my mother knew better than to try and dress me in pink.



KITTYLECTRO -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 5:55:41 PM)

Trust me, you came to the wrong place.



LadyAngelika -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 7:30:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dressmenow

Are there Mistresses or lifestyle domme's that enjoy keeping there males dressed as a female totally for there pleasure or to keep them under control?


I enjoy figuring out exactly what makes a man, that I adore, tick. If a little cross dressing play might get his mind racing, and he's been a particularly good boy, I might just indulge him. Though it is far from being my favorite activity, I've had experiences where I've found it hot.

What you are presenting is a fetish activity which can be used within the realm of domination and submission. Making a man cross-dress, especially if he likes it, isn't a form of control. Getting inside his head and figuring what makes him tick, is.

Also, I might be more inclined to engage with a man claiming to be submissive who chose a handle such as Dressmeplease rather than Dressmenow.

- LA







stella41b -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 7:38:16 PM)

You even missed this video. 



AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Dressing a male (3/5/2010 8:14:55 PM)

Hi.

Sure there's Mistresses that like dressing up and feminizing a sub. I love having crossdressing subs and sissies too. What I'd love to find is a sissy secretary but I'm still waiting and hoping to find one.



OttersSwim -> RE: Dressing a male (3/6/2010 8:19:42 AM)

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ORIGINAL: KITTYLECTRO

Trust me, you came to the wrong place.


Well and I would agree with you, if you meant that the OP came here looking for a positive response to a one-trick-pony fetish.  Most of the Ladies here are looking for more than just that - they want a relationship that goes beyond a focus on a single fetish.  It is like going to hear a symphony and trying to be satisfied by a single note played over and over and over again.

I enjoy ice cream, but it does not mean that is what I will base my entire eating plan on. 

Deeper thought required...



Rochsub2009 -> RE: Dressing a male (3/6/2010 9:32:10 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

quote:

ORIGINAL: KITTYLECTRO

Trust me, you came to the wrong place.


Well and I would agree with you, if you meant that the OP came here looking for a positive response to a one-trick-pony fetish.  Most of the Ladies here are looking for more than just that - they want a relationship that goes beyond a focus on a single fetish.  It is like going to hear a symphony and trying to be satisfied by a single note played over and over and over again.

I enjoy ice cream, but it does not mean that is what I will base my entire eating plan on. 

Deeper thought required...



Yup.  What they said.



tvsue -> RE: Dressing a male (3/6/2010 4:43:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dressmenow

Are there Mistresses or lifestyle domme's that enjoy keeping there males dressed as a female totally for there pleasure or to keep them under control?

think you will find most on this site do not . and if you do theres a good chance it's a male. but u can try



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