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cariad -> RE: Some advice please. Please. (4/3/2006 3:53:00 PM)
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Chat rooms are useless as a meeting place. So filled with people who live a fantasy life of bdsm, which is fine, but rarely are they in a position to activate their fantasies, which is what you seem to wish to do.
this slave has been in the lifestyle for almost 17yrs now and while she will admit that her latest failed relationship with a Master started online and was only to be an online relationship until one day He said He couldn't do it any more and that He wanted to meet this slave.
this slave now has 4 irc rooms that belong to her and in all of them she is constantly changing the subject to suit things that have come up in her daily life or questions she has seen posted on other boards she belongs to.
while there are some wanna be's and some Horny net geeks aka (Hng's) there are also some legitimate (sp) Doms, Dommes, subs and slaves also on the chat rooms, however would this slave recommend to a new person in the lifestyle to use a chat room to meet said Sir or Ma'am, no.
this slave recommends finding a yahoo group, a group in your community to attend munches at and get to know O/others in the lifestyle, never being afraid to ask questions as there is no such thing as a dumb/stupid question except that which is not asked.
another thing this slave recommends and will probably get shot down for is reading the newbie packages that: wizdomme.com and castlerealm.com have, also reading the books: SM-101 by Jay Wiseman and the book Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns, but most of all ask questions of T/those you meet at the local munches or play parties.
even talking to a Domme here could lead into a good friendship and who knows where it may go from there.
hope this helps you a bit and remember "There is no such thing as a stupid question except that which is not asked."
Blessed Be
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