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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 8:49:52 PM   
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After Mikey gets done with me I will try and nail you if I am not totally spent.


Ohhh wonderbar. I get you as sloppy seconds....AGAIN

He's a hot item doncha know?


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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 8:51:50 PM   
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He's a hot item doncha know?


k, the hot burning sensation during urination does NOT make him a hot item doncha know.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 8:52:47 PM   
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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 8:54:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't turn down good food or drink when I am hungry or thirsty.
Why would I ever turn down sex from someone I was attracted to?

However, I don’t drink shitty beer or eat crappy food
… no matter how bad someone wants to give me that food for free.
The things that sexually attract to someone are not physical alone.
It takes personality, poise, common goals and passion to attract me.


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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 8:57:48 PM   
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I don't turn down good food or drink when I am hungry or thirsty.
Why would I ever turn down sex from someone I was attracted to?

However, I don’t drink shitty beer or eat crappy food
… no matter how bad someone wants to give me that food for free.
The things that sexually attract to someone are not physical alone.
It takes personality, poise, common goals and passion to attract me.


It was my intention to find out why people would. I know why I would..Some people wouldn't..It was just a curiosity.


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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:02:40 PM   
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I'm just curious here..How many have turned down sex from someone they were attracted to?

What reasons did you do so?



I've done it many times, because "attracted to" and "interested in" aren't always the same thing for me. I don't care for casual sex. If I don't feel an emotional connection with someone, and at least some curiosity about having a relationship with them, I'm not interested in wasting my time having sex with them. I'd rthaer watch television, and i hate television.


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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:07:31 PM   
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I'm just curious here..How many have turned down sex from someone they were attracted to?

What reasons did you do so?



I've done it many times, because "attracted to" and "interested in" aren't always the same thing for me. I don't care for casual sex. If I don't feel an emotional connection with someone, and at least some curiosity about having a relationship with them, I'm not interested in wasting my time having sex with them. I'd rthaer watch television, and i hate television.



I'm along those same lines as well as some of what RS stated about common goals and so forth.


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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:07:31 PM   
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i've turned it down more times than i can remember. sex has no place in my life.


just wonderin though, if you don't even like or want sex, why reply at all? The OP's question was why would you turn it down.

I guess your answer was that you turn it down always, in general., I guess? I'm lost

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:13:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

I'm just curious here..How many have turned down sex from someone they were attracted to?

What reasons did you do so?



I've done it many times, because "attracted to" and "interested in" aren't always the same thing for me. I don't care for casual sex. If I don't feel an emotional connection with someone, and at least some curiosity about having a relationship with them, I'm not interested in wasting my time having sex with them. I'd rthaer watch television, and i hate television.



I'm along those same lines as well as some of what RS stated about common goals and so forth.



Yeah, I identified with that too. The way I look at it, I don't want to go to bed with anyone i wouldn't want to wake up with.

Do you find this is something that developed in you as you grew older and more aware of what works for you and what doesn't, or were you always somewhat this way?


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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:15:24 PM   
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I've done it many times, because "attracted to" and "interested in" aren't always the same thing for me. I don't care for casual sex. If I don't feel an emotional connection with someone, and at least some curiosity about having a relationship with them, I'm not interested in wasting my time having sex with them. I'd rthaer watch television, and i hate television.


This is me, too. You said it very well.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:18:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

I'm just curious here..How many have turned down sex from someone they were attracted to?

What reasons did you do so?



I've done it many times, because "attracted to" and "interested in" aren't always the same thing for me. I don't care for casual sex. If I don't feel an emotional connection with someone, and at least some curiosity about having a relationship with them, I'm not interested in wasting my time having sex with them. I'd rthaer watch television, and i hate television.



I'm along those same lines as well as some of what RS stated about common goals and so forth.



Yeah, I identified with that too. The way I look at it, I don't want to go to bed with anyone i wouldn't want to wake up with.

Do you find this is something that developed in you as you grew older and more aware of what works for you and what doesn't, or were you always somewhat this way?


Yes Dr. T .D Panda,

I've been more or less like this from an early on age. Surely not as honed as now but still very close.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:18:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

I'm just curious here..How many have turned down sex from someone they were attracted to?

What reasons did you do so?



I've done it many times, because "attracted to" and "interested in" aren't always the same thing for me. I don't care for casual sex. If I don't feel an emotional connection with someone, and at least some curiosity about having a relationship with them, I'm not interested in wasting my time having sex with them. I'd rthaer watch television, and i hate television.

HEY THAT'S NOT NICE! Television is a great freakin band, don't hate on them!


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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:19:32 PM   
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I'm just curious here..How many have turned down sex from someone they were attracted to?

What reasons did you do so?


yep. some because they were taken, because i was taken, because they would've taken it to heart, because i would've taken it to heart and they wouldn't, because i was sick, because when i turned 22 i decided that i'm not going to jump in the sack with anybody i'm attracted to- just people i'm in a relationship with. myeap. that last one more than any. and it kills me every time ;)

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ENOUGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!





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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:23:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have turned down sex with someone I was attracted to many times. Most of them were because unlike my exhusband I was not going to break my vows until after the diorce was final. Others were because unfortunately, a pretty face and an amazing body cannot make up enough for the lack of a brain. I dont do casual sex or one night stands, so if there isnt something there that will make me want more than just sex, I am out.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:25:29 PM   
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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:25:45 PM   
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I turn down sex if it doesnt feel right to me. I have at times said no to someone I thought was hot for whatever reason but not that many times.



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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:26:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have had some absolutely jaw dropping, Earth shaking, Jesus squealing casual sex. The kind of shit that makes your hair and your teeth fall out.

you get older you kind of slow down and you focus on different things. Maybe it's because you slow down, maybe it's because you are getting older? Who the fuck knows.

Now I dig the companionship and familiarity that a relationship brings.....I am totally done with one nighters?....God, I kind of hope not. They can be kind of cool. Sometimes it's interesting how they develop after the initial bangage.

Sometimes getting a hold of a piece of strange is exactly what the doctor ordered. I have seen my Doc in quite some time, maybe it's time for a checkup?


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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:27:22 PM   
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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:29:10 PM   
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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:29:45 PM   
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I like when there are lots of peeps at the top of the thread, it is nice and crowded in here, whatcha got folks huh?

I turn down sex if it doesnt feel right to me. I have at times said no to someone I thought was hot for whatever reason but not that many times.




Exactly....How many times has anyone on this thread actually turned down sex from someone that they found to be really attractive and available? Very few.

It's nice to posture yourself in such a fictional manner in an attempt to garner the pussy. Very few have actually lived up to those words or would really even want to.

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