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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:31:36 PM

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Thanks everyone.

Neo, is that really you?

Sorry, Just a computer generated copy.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:31:53 PM

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I don't turn down good food or drink when I am hungry or thirsty.
Why would I ever turn down sex from someone I was attracted to?

However, I don’t drink shitty beer or eat crappy food
… no matter how bad someone wants to give me that food for free.
The things that sexually attract to someone are not physical alone.
It takes personality, poise, common goals and passion to attract me.

It was my intention to find out why people would. I know why I would..Some people wouldn't..It was just a curiosity.

I'm sick... I have a fever and that is my excuse for giving the reverse answer of what you asked. And just to show what a good sport I am...

Now that I think of it, there was this one time I turned down sex with a total hotty I wanted to bang. I was in a band, back in Detroit. I was at a party and this mega hot, big breasted, fawn eyed, pouty lipped, red headed titty dancer was hanging out with the Romantic's bass player's ex wife. I signaled the ex who was a friend and she came over. I asked about the htty and sure enough, this fine piece of tail was at the party alone and the ex hadn't staked a claim on her for herself.

So I set my sights on this fine redhead and I sidled up along side her. I charmed her with gentlemanly but masculine my ways and she responded with grace and style. It was so hot, so flirtatious and sexy, I started whispering in her ear. I deliberately got close and let my voice relax and deepen. She could feel my hot breath and my deep rich low tone resonated in her ear as I told her what I would do to her if she was helpless and tied up back at my house. I told her how I would blindfold her and put her pussy in my mouth . . . then lick her lick to orgasm to get her wet, because I needed her all wet and slippery for what I was going to do to her with my cock.

The next thing you know, she is under my wing and we were headed out the door of the party to go back to my house for some wild sex. Just then, my drummer spots me and pulls me aside. He leans over and says, "hey bro, she gave Mikey the crabs last week"...

That is why I turned down sex with a total hotty I was very attracted to.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:34:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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I don't turn down good food or drink when I am hungry or thirsty.
Why would I ever turn down sex from someone I was attracted to?

However, I don’t drink shitty beer or eat crappy food
… no matter how bad someone wants to give me that food for free.
The things that sexually attract to someone are not physical alone.
It takes personality, poise, common goals and passion to attract me.

It was my intention to find out why people would. I know why I would..Some people wouldn't..It was just a curiosity.

I'm sick... I have a fever and that is my excuse for giving the reverse answer of what you asked. And just to show what a good sport I am...

Now that I think of it, there was this one time I turned down sex with a total hotty I wanted to bang. I was in a band, back in Detroit. I was at a party and this mega hot, big breasted, fawn eyed, pouty lipped, red headed titty dancer was hanging out with the Romantic's bass player's ex wife. I signaled the ex who was a friend and she came over. I asked about the htty and sure enough, this fine piece of tail was at the party alone and the ex hadn't staked a claim on her for herself.

So I set my sights on this fine redhead and I sidled up along side her. I charmed her with gentlemanly but masculine my ways and she responded with grace and style. It was so hot, so flirtatious and sexy, I started whispering in her ear. I deliberately got close and let my voice relax and deepen. She could feel my hot breath and my deep rich low tone resonated in her ear as I told her what I would do to her if she was helpless and tied up back at my house. I told her how I would blindfold her and put her pussy in my mouth . . . then lick her lick to orgasm to get her wet, because I needed her all wet and slippery for what I was going to do to her with my cock.

The next thing you know, she is under my wing and we were headed out the door of the party to go back to my house for some wild sex. Just then, my drummer spots me and pulls me aside. He leans over and says, "hey bro, she gave Mikey the crabs last week"...

That is why I turned down sex with a total hotty I was very attracted to.

~the end

Close call.

Hope you feel better.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:34:40 PM

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It's nice to posture yourself in such a fictional manner in an attempt to garner the pussy. Very few have actually lived up to those words or would really even want to.

It is a hard fight with yer moral principles when the other party is HOT.

Excuses to not have sex with 'em eventually get won over by the evil vagina. The vagina, the lil evil v-jj.

<goes back to heelin'

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:37:56 PM

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It's nice to posture yourself in such a fictional manner in an attempt to garner the pussy. Very few have actually lived up to those words or would really even want to.

It is a hard fight with yer moral principles when the other party is HOT.

Excuses to not have sex with 'em eventually get won over by the evil vagina. The vagina, the lil evil v-jj.

<goes back to heelin'

Ain't that the truth....I have been deader than Christ and managed to get myself out of bed to bang a hottie. Come to think of it she was merely splendidly average.

It's my responsibility as a man to bang the willing.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:38:41 PM

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Exactly....How many times has anyone on this thread actually turned down sex from someone that they found to be really attractive and available? Very few.

It's nice to posture yourself in such a fictional manner in an attempt to garner the pussy. Very few have actually lived up to those words or would really even want to.

Maybe those of us with normal social skills and fewer psychological disorders have more opportunities. Being that most of the broads who are dumb enough to split 'em for you are the crosseyed thorazine droolers you bang on the psych ward, I can see where this conversation - like just about every conversation into which you insert yourself - is over your head.

Now stick your hand into your armpit and make a farting noise to show everyone how clever you are. There ya go. Good boy!

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:40:48 PM

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Ain't that the truth....I have been deader than Christ and managed to get myself out of bed to bang a hottie. Come to think of it she was merely splendidly average.

NEVER turn down sex from a really tired n exhausted guy. They fall asleep really fast n then its open season on their wallets.

Mall time!

me sooo smart

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:42:55 PM

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Yes Dr. T .D Panda,

Hrmph. Yes, yes; that'll be a nickel, please. Hrmph.

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I've been more or less like this from an early on age. Surely not as honed as now but still very close.

Interesting. Yeah, it's pretty much the same for me. I fooled around a fair amount when I was in my teens and 20s, but screwing everything that moved never seemed to do as much for me as it did for other guys. I didn't really get it. By the time I was in my mid to late 30s, I really wasn't interested in anything that didn't have some kind of long term potential. Too many other ways to spend my time.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 9:56:15 PM

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Yes Dr. T .D Panda,

Hrmph. Yes, yes; that'll be a nickel, please. Hrmph.

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ORIGINAL: Icarys
I've been more or less like this from an early on age. Surely not as honed as now but still very close.

Interesting. Yeah, it's pretty much the same for me. I fooled around a fair amount when I was in my teens and 20s, but screwing everything that moved never seemed to do as much for me as it did for other guys. I didn't really get it. By the time I was in my mid to late 30s, I really wasn't interested in anything that didn't have some kind of long term potential. Too many other ways to spend my time.

Mine might have been a little earlier on but that's about the time line.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 10:42:31 PM

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Exactly....How many times has anyone on this thread actually turned down sex from someone that they found to be really attractive and available? Very few.

It's nice to posture yourself in such a fictional manner in an attempt to garner the pussy. Very few have actually lived up to those words or would really even want to.

Maybe those of us with normal social skills and fewer psychological disorders have more opportunities. Being that most of the broads who are dumb enough to split 'em for you are the crosseyed thorazine droolers you bang on the psych ward, I can see where this conversation - like just about every conversation into which you insert yourself - is over your head.

Now stick your hand into your armpit and make a farting noise to show everyone how clever you are. There ya go. Good boy!

I assure the masses that once again you are being completely dishonest. I am also completely sure that even with my rash of disorientations and disorders that my social skills are far beyond your scope.

I also don't believe that you have ever pursued the path that you claim. You might have not banged many attractive woman in your time but I am confident that your "choice" was never the deciding factor in your failure to get laid. However, I will allow for the notion that beauty is in the eye of the beholder...Whatever type of woman that you might find attractive I am sure would repulse much of society. So maybe your lack of banging someone might have had less to do with not feeling comfortable but much more with your desire to not be ridiculed by your friends and family for your horrific choice in partners. Sabe?

Why you fell the need to nip at my heels is beyond me....You are ThatDamnedannoyingchihuahua. A mosquito of sorts without the bite.

You love to criticize those that do exactly as you do....You make snide and caustic posts but dislike others that do the same...Total Hypocrite. It's fine when you want to make a post at another's expense...But Oh my Fucking god!!! The Panda is incensed when things don't roll his way or goes against his take on how the world should work. what a pathetic little gnat. ThatDamnedGnat.

hang out on the "person above me" or with the Dommes. This is not your forte.

I don't quote you, I don't like you, I don't think you share much of worth. Please don't acknowledge my existence in the future and I promise I will do the same for you.

All I said is that I doubt someone that claims they passed on a pile of quality pussy....Ya know why? I am a student of the human animal. What I have found is that a lot of people on this site are fairly sexually charged individuals...I don't believe you in your claims about your selectivity. It again smacks of someone that is trying to impress those with your words because you are actually embarrassed by your actions.

Piss off.

In my time of posting out here I have never complained to a mod about a single poster....Never once. What about you? You want to play out here but don't like the rules. So you go and complain.

This is not your medium. Shooooo, scat scram skidaddle..You are out of your element. Before I feed the chihuahua to the big dawgs.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 11:01:52 PM

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Jesus, you're easy.

You miss the point. Yet again. It's completely over your pointy little head. I'm not incensed at all. I just don't like you. This isn't me being angry, it's just me being cold.

This is the way you like to roll, right? Being a dick whenever you want to be a dick, because you think it's fun? But when someone rolls it back at you, you whine like a 5-year old girl, because that awful panda is being mean to poor little domi!

I tell you again, man the fuck up. You can't have it both ways. You enjoy being a dick, and so do I. I never said otherwise. The difference is, I enjoy being a dick to people who are just complete pricks all the time for no reason at all (that would be people like you, in case that one sailed over your head too.) Don't like it when it's turned back at you? Not my problem. Now go cry in the corner again.

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

In my time of posting out here I have never complained to a mod about a single poster....Never once. What about you? You want to play out here but don't like the rules. So you go and complain.

Where do you get this one? I'm probably one of the relatively few adults here who has never complained to a mod about your psychotic shit. In fact, I think I may have even stuck up for you once when someone was making some racially-tinged remarks toward you, by reporting his posts to a mod. But I never reported you, because I don't play that way. I hate your guts, but I won't sneak around fucking with you behind your back. It's more fun to walk right up to you and spit directly in your face. I don't need a mod to fight my fight for me. Especially not with someone as easy as you.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 11:02:06 PM

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It is de facto a long list.

Reasons:

1. I did not wanted to be connected with that person. As somebody with some totally sober One Night Stands in her life, i had some situations where i had the strong feeling, that a bodily connection would be not right for me.

Mostly instinct, some times a kind of connection the person had with my circles, something i knew about the person, but mostly i relied on my guts.

2. The experience that sex with me lead some men to a emotional engagement that i did not wanted, due to different reaons.

3. Some very beautiful and extremely sexy females, that had opposite to me no previous experiences with other females. I was regularly not prepared to take that responsibility.

4. The object in question had other standards concering drugs and alcohol.

5. I was emotionally more invested and liked not to cement the imbalance in the contact.

That are the first 5, i have a lot more, but i lead a somewhat wild life for around 15 years.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/8/2010 11:47:30 PM

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Jesus, you're easy.

You miss the point. Yet again. It's completely over your pointy little head. I'm not incensed at all. I just don't like you. This isn't me being angry, it's just me being cold.

This is the way you like to roll, right? Being a dick whenever you want to be a dick, because you think it's fun? But when someone rolls it back at you, you whine like a 5-year old girl, because that awful panda is being mean to poor little domi!

I tell you again, man the fuck up. You can't have it both ways. You enjoy being a dick, and so do I. I never said otherwise. The difference is, I enjoy being a dick to people who are just complete pricks all the time for no reason at all (that would be people like you, in case that one sailed over your head too.) Don't like it when it's turned back at you? Not my problem. Now go cry in the corner again.

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In my time of posting out here I have never complained to a mod about a single poster....Never once. What about you? You want to play out here but don't like the rules. So you go and complain.

Where do you get this one? I'm probably one of the relatively few adults here who has never complained to a mod about your psychotic shit. In fact, I think I may have even stuck up for you once when someone was making some racially-tinged remarks toward you, by reporting his posts to a mod. But I never reported you, because I don't play that way. I hate your guts, but I won't sneak around fucking with you behind your back. It's more fun to walk right up to you and spit directly in your face. I don't need a mod to fight my fight for me. Especially not with someone as easy as you.

I admitted I was easy....Unlike you I actually fucked the good looking gals and many of the others that came my way....You are so full of shit. Again, you are dishonest. Got any stock tips, fucko?

You being cold?....Please. You say cold I say cunt. Cold, please? Cool, Never? Tepid, maybe? Fuck dude, you are a hypocritical bitch. You think you have the ability to determine who is a "complete dick?" Yet, you chastized everyone in the tranny gone haywire thread.

You hate my guts, that's great. Please spit in my face. We will see who comes out on top. This is not your medium. You are best dealing with those that believe your shit, those that swallow your lies those that give a fuck about your mealy mouth rants and your ridiculous meaningless crusades.

How many of your "admired" posters have left CM? That was a really good one. More complete horse shit. Has anyone else noticed their absence? Go join'em bitch boy...I don't play. I see through you. I can take you apart like a bad sandwich. This is really not what you want to do.

I am fairly consistent. I am an internet prick. I do possess a solid sense of humor..I don't tout myself to being much more than I am. What you see is what you get. You don't take this path. How's that working for you? Make up more shit...Make up stories about your precious lost posters...Prattle on about the injustices of CM. Prop yourself up on a pedestal of shit whenever possible...It's what guys like you do. Someone will buy it.

Let's go this will be fun.

Unlike you I will fuck with a chick on the rag.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/9/2010 12:10:00 AM

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Where do you get this one? I'm probably one of the relatively few adults here who has never complained to a mod about your psychotic shit. In fact, I think I may have even stuck up for you once when someone was making some racially-tinged remarks toward you, by reporting his posts to a mod. But I never reported you, because I don't play that way. I hate your guts, but I won't sneak around fucking with you behind your back. It's more fun to walk right up to you and spit directly in your face. I don't need a mod to fight my fight for me. Especially not with someone as easy as you.

Being fair, I want to thank you for protecting me from those racially-tinged attacks. Sometimes I think that black people can respond rather abruptly simply because they are so sick of taking and listening to all of the shit that transpires out here. I probably have overreacted in certain threads about race, I sometimes just get so tired of white people. Kinda makes me want to kill them. Really. Really kill them...all.

I was born a poor and disadvantaged child and had to grow up on the rough and tumble streets of Neenah, Wisonsin. I must admit that there were times where I wasn't sure where my next piece of quality pussy was coming from.

Thanks for helping a brothah out.

Wurd.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/9/2010 12:27:12 AM

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yes - I've turned down sex with an amazing guy on more than one occasion. We started as FWB (both of us single, him unable/unwilling to commit). I started to fall in love, then realised it would never be reciprocated in the way I wanted. So now we're the F, minus the WB and life is a lot better (for me, anyway).

Although I have seen on da interweb that no sex for a long time makes the vajajay heal over....

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/9/2010 12:27:43 AM

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All this foreplay is difficult for an old broad like me to read.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/9/2010 1:11:41 AM

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I'm just curious here..How many have turned down sex from someone they were attracted to?

What reasons did you do so?

I've done it many times, because "attracted to" and "interested in" aren't always the same thing for me. I don't care for casual sex. If I don't feel an emotional connection with someone, and at least some curiosity about having a relationship with them, I'm not interested in wasting my time having sex with them. I'd rthaer watch television, and i hate television.

Pretty much how I feel, without the television part.

That said, I have been known to have relationships or lovers (which is a regular partner with whom I'm intimate without the more serious relationship part). But one night stands sort of leave me empty so I don't have them (I can count the ones I've had in the past on one hand).

I agree a lot with what RS said about criteria as well. I am pretty picky about who I let touch my body as it is the most valuable thing that I own.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/9/2010 2:44:48 AM

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Please focus your discussion around the opening post of this thread.

If you posted something on this thread, and it disappeared, please take a hint.

Those will not take hints, will receive something more direct.

I am just repeating this for those people who are still posting and ignoring this,before people start getting golden letters.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/9/2010 3:10:40 AM

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[on-topic]

Icarys, if I slept with everyone I knew at a convenient time with whom I shared a mutual attraction, I would have received a few unpleasant surprises by now.

a) I hate surprises
b) Prickly itchy burny feelings in tender places are not sexy.
c) Neither are scary jealous ex-girlfriends/boyfriends out for your blood (that happened once. It's not an experience I would care to repeat).

[/on-topic]

Ok, actually, no. I wrote something here and deleted it because it was too damned catty. I'm a nice person but sometimes my brain is plain nasty to people.

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RE: Turn Down Sex? - 3/9/2010 3:21:52 AM

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I'm just curious here..How many have turned down sex from someone they were attracted to?

What reasons did you do so?

Twice. First time was maybe 20 years ago, I declined because she was the mother of a friend. If I could go back in time, I'd fuck her, until the walls collapsed around us.

Second time, I didn't because she liked me more than I liked her, and I didn't want to mislead her. This, unlike the first example, I would not change.

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