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Hawkwindblues -> RE: Turn Down Sex? (3/9/2010 8:19:54 PM)
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They seem to get a strange look on their face and think I heard them wrong. They "only" want to be flogged, spanked, or share some form of D/s experience with me. They say "That's not sex!". My response is; "It is when I'm doing it."
Another sentence that could and should be used in the next WIITWD is sex/yes or no? thread, because is it so precise and burns down the topic. The only instance to judge what is sex for you is you and the same goes with turning down the oppurtunity to have sex with somebody you are attracted to.
I am a bit overwhelmed by the sheer amount of posters who tell us: I do not do casual sex, because i have a hard time to believe that i am in such a small minority with having had short sexual encounters. Living nearly monogamous for 9 years due to a bunch of reasons but being still the polygamous inclined human being i always was, i am a far cry away from my wild years, but nevertheless.
As i wrote in another thread, the respect and appreciataion, care and interest is for me always the same, the duration of the sexual or non sexual contact has no influence.
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