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DarlingSavage -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 5:29:19 AM)
Aw! That's so cute! I love that! Me, too! OP, I agree with the others. Why haven't you mentioned her on your profile? It also sounds as though you could just take her or leave her if you're so ready to drop her this easily.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 5:44:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkmike Ok, I realise that this is one of those silly questions and every sub is different but how are other masters out there dealing with Womanitis, female insecurities and jealousy. Say your woman throws a wobley every time she thinks about you interacting with another woman. I've never had this problem. I've never wondered "why not?" until just now, either. I just can't see myself attracted to someone so insecure. I've dated women with "issues" -- once fell in love with a woman who had attempted suicide six months before I met her -- but why should I spend any time at all with someone unable to trust me?

ResidentSadist -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 5:45:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist "hundreds of micro hissy fits" Why would you submit to a bratty Domme that will "throw a hissy" if you look at another woman or talk about it? I just don't understand your choice in relationship partner if what she is doing makes you unhappy. Other way round, RS; he's dominant. And his profile says nothing about already having someone. OP, if you're neglecting to mention her existence is it any wonder she feels insecure? You treat her like that in real life? OMG... my bad. I didn't even think to read his profile... It seemed she obviously runs the show. My bad... ... well... actually.... his bad. He lets a brat run his life and control him with hissy fits. Maybe he needs to examine his role and maybe try a Domme that isn't a bitchy little brat? There are a lot of guys that switch and there are a ton a fine ass Dommes in this world.

DarlingSavage -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 5:48:48 AM)
Just looked at the profile. Well, no wonder she's inssecure.

RedMagic1 -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 5:52:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarlingSavage Just looked at the profile. Well, no wonder she's inssecure. LOL, ok, I won't look, but I bet you're onto something. Calling it "womanitis" was interesting. "All the women in the world seem to have swelling of the insecurity glands! What's up with that?" All the women in the world really means all the women in his world. Either he's attracted to whiny-ass beeches, or he makes them that way.

DarlingSavage -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 5:56:16 AM)
quote: Either he's attracted to whiny-ass beeches, or he makes them that way. Appears to most likely be the latter. edited to fix syntax.

Kana -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 6:32:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkmike Do you keep your mouth shut about your day to day interactions with other women in case she throws a hissy, risking the fact that if she finds out and feels uninformed it will be twice as bad or tell her about every little detail and have hundreds of micro hissy fits. Or just cut loose? Neither. I'm the dominant. I run the relationship. She can trust me or she can be gone, but the one thing I certainly will not do is run around explaining myself to a slave, much less suffering through "hissy fits." And on that note let me mention that a hissy fit might occur once in my house (due to me being so shocked I watched it happen speechlessly), but never again, much less repeatedly. There are ways a person is expected to behave, bare minimum levels and hissy fits are so far under the line that the slave in question would either end up severely chastised and thinking fifteen times before acting in such a fashion again or they are gone.

LaTigresse -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 7:15:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkmike Ok, I realise that this is one of those silly questions and every sub is different but how are other masters out there dealing with Womanitis, female insecurities and jealousy. Say your woman throws a wobley every time she thinks about you interacting with another woman. Do you keep your mouth shut about your day to day interactions with other women in case she throws a hissy, risking the fact that if she finds out and feels uninformed it will be twice as bad or tell her about every little detail and have hundreds of micro hissy fits. Or just cut loose? Whatever one else has already said. Quit 'focusing' on how cool you are but instead, 'focus' on why you've created such a fucked up situation. And then.....put the camera down, quit admiring your image, and do the work. Because I think you've got egoitis.

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 7:24:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist OMG... my bad. I didn't even think to read his profile... It seemed she obviously runs the show. My bad... ... well... actually.... his bad. He lets a brat run his life and control him with hissy fits. Maybe he needs to examine his role and maybe try a Domme that isn't a bitchy little brat? There are a lot of guys that switch and there are a ton a fine ass Dommes in this world. Haha! Everyone is so assured of your wise and sarcastical nature that they assumed you were being satirical [:)][:)][:)] Big compliment, that is. [:D]

domiguy -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 8:41:08 AM)
I once tried to cram my wobley into a woman's ass. It was a rather difficult task, so I had her suck on it and when she put enough starch into me wobley I went right back to work.

pahunkboy -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 9:33:33 AM)
...then it wont work. one has to be secure with self b4 there can be an us.

beej -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 10:02:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level quote: ORIGINAL: divi oops I must still be sleeping I thought Level said Smelling Woman Syndrome lol This I suffer from: [image]http://www.parduephotos.com/stock-photos/4361.jpg[/image] [:D] too adorable. to the OP: quote: if she finds out and feels uninformed it will be twice as bad or tell her about every little detail and have hundreds of micro hissy fits. Or just cut loose? if you're in hot water either way, it doesn't sound like there will be any pleasing this woman no matter what you report. and why should you have to give reports anyway?

Lockit -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 10:15:55 AM)
Reading your profile and journal along with this thread, it isn't hard to assume why you are suffering from womanitis. Yes, I said you. Your attitude about women is disrespectful and if a woman has a hard time with it, you blame the woman and the titles and name calling because you have actually encouraged hurt feelings and insecurity is rather telling. You cannot blame a dog that bites you if you kick it. So if you want to kick women, play the player and blame the woman, what does that say about you? And yes, I have been accused of having womanitis from time to time... mostly from a cheater who had little respect for women or himself.

Blackburn -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 10:50:55 AM)
Damn. Misread this as Dealing with Womantits. Was hoping desperately for wank fodder. Instead got a pic of Level snuffling a neck. Good enough, but not what I expected.. <sigh>

ExquisiteStings -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 11:02:50 AM)
Is there such a thing as MANitis? or is that better known as being an Asshole?

sirsholly -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 11:22:07 AM)
quote: Ok, I realise that this is one of those silly questions and every sub is different but how are other masters out there dealing with Womanitis, female insecurities and jealousy. Say your woman throws a wobley every time she thinks about you interacting with another woman. my guess is you have cheated on her in the past, and will again in the future if your profile gets any type of response. Personally i think she should kick your silly unfaithful ass to the curb.

FukinTroll -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 11:44:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkmike Ok, I realise that this is one of those silly questions and every sub is different but how are other masters out there dealing with Womanitis, female insecurities and jealousy. Say your woman throws a wobley every time she thinks about you interacting with another woman. Do you keep your mouth shut about your day to day interactions with other women in case she throws a hissy, risking the fact that if she finds out and feels uninformed it will be twice as bad or tell her about every little detail and have hundreds of micro hissy fits. Or just cut loose? First thing... womanitis is not a very friendly term. There is nothing you can do for insecurities, its not your issues for you to resolve. The best to avoid these issues is make sure that both you and your companion, property, blah blah blah, are on the same page before... yes before... the relationship begins. The best first step is to open up the closet where all your little monsters hide... sometimes we call this a profile on this site... so he/she can look at your evil little kinky fuckers and say yes or no to them. You do not ever... ever... ever... spring your inner fucker on her as a surprise, when that happens we get all these threads where people are genuinely wounded and hurting because they thought they knew you and when the inner moron came out to play he/she couldn't handle it and split. In the nilla world this is called a divorce. He/she comes here to help understand where they went wrong, what mistake they made because the people here are fucking brilliant! Now sometimes the folks here get frustrated when a rash of these wounded threads come around because we have read a million of them and it all boils down to the same shit; Someone in the dynamic secretly liked fucking goats and the other member of the dynamic couldn't handle it once it came to light... long after becoming deeply invested in the relationship... it was more than they could bear. YMMV

VaguelyCurious -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 11:54:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: FukinTroll ~Good advice~ Troll-I can't slurp you cause I'm a hooming bean. So I'm gonna have to just SMOOCH you.

KITTYLECTRO -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 12:22:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkmike Say your woman throws a wobley every time she thinks about you interacting with another woman. I've seen many people act this way when they are cheating.

MasterSlaveLA -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 1:22:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkmike Do you keep your mouth shut about your day to day interactions with other women in case she throws a hissy, risking the fact that if she finds out and feels uninformed it will be twice as bad or tell her about every little detail and have hundreds of micro hissy fits. Or just cut loose? [image]local://upfiles/687741/F8A9C849EF034C1BBD93D7A0E9C7E9A3.jpg[/image]

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