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littlewonder -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 3:40:48 PM)
Master chooses what to tell me about anything be it other women or anything else. It's his choice...as he says "this isn't a democracy", and if I threw any kind of hissy fit in his house I think I'd be out on my keester in 10 seconds flat. But I also have no reason to throw a hissy fit with him. I trust him.

Phoenixpower -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 5:03:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit Reading your profile and journal along with this thread, it isn't hard to assume why you are suffering from womanitis. Yes, I said you. Your attitude about women is disrespectful and if a woman has a hard time with it, you blame the woman and the titles and name calling because you have actually encouraged hurt feelings and insecurity is rather telling. You cannot blame a dog that bites you if you kick it. So if you want to kick women, play the player and blame the woman, what does that say about you? And yes, I have been accused of having womanitis from time to time... mostly from a cheater who had little respect for women or himself. dito to aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaalllllllllllllllllll what she said....adores Lockit for finding my words [:)]

Phoenixpower -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 5:07:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ExquisiteStings Is there such a thing as MANitis? or is that better known as being an Asshole? Isn't that the fartitist??? Or at least the ones who pretend they can't fart with dignity and think it is great to let it out as often and as loud as possible every single day [8\|] In that respect CM should actually add the option "seperate bedrooms" in the lifestyle choice tick boxes...as with some folks...it certainly would be requested big time!!!

Fitznicely -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 5:13:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkmike Ok, I realise that this is one of those silly questions and every sub is different but how are other masters out there dealing with Womanitis, female insecurities and jealousy. Say your woman throws a wobley every time she thinks about you interacting with another woman. Do you keep your mouth shut about your day to day interactions with other women in case she throws a hissy, risking the fact that if she finds out and feels uninformed it will be twice as bad or tell her about every little detail and have hundreds of micro hissy fits. Or just cut loose? If she's worth it, solve it. It's one of the first things I cured in my girl, and that was 13 years ago before I ever dreamed of putting a collar around her neck. She still has the odd relapse, but she knows damn well it's irrational, gets over it and gets on with life. As an experienced adult (nothing to do with D/s or kink), I have the emotional arsenal and brains to cure a girl of neuroses and insecurities. It's pretty simple, just be reliable and trustworthy, which, lets face it, should come naturally if you're not an arsehole who's not worthy of having a partner in the first place.

Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 5:39:56 PM)
Ball gags can be practical.

zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/11/2010 5:50:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level Swelling woman syndrome? [:D] Inflamed woman syndrome....you know like pms only it lasts longer

wandersalone -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/12/2010 2:14:58 AM)
From Your journal Journal Entries: 3/11/2010 5:58:52 AM Ok just to be clear this is what I am looking for, a NO LIMITS petslave. I dont give a flying fuck about whatever emotional neurosis you may be suffering from, you will be trained as a totally obedient slave with NO RIGHTS. You will know your place which is on your knees. It doesn't state on your profile that you are attached and poly so maybe she has reason to feel insecure

antinomy -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/12/2010 2:55:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Darkmike Ok, I realise that this is one of those silly questions and every sub is different but how are other masters out there dealing with Womanitis, female insecurities and jealousy. Say your woman throws a wobley every time she thinks about you interacting with another woman. Do you keep your mouth shut about your day to day interactions with other women in case she throws a hissy, risking the fact that if she finds out and feels uninformed it will be twice as bad or tell her about every little detail and have hundreds of micro hissy fits. Or just cut loose? So, you offered up your own options? 1) Keep your mouth shut about your day to day interactions with other women in case she throws a hissy. 2) Risk the fact that if she finds out and feels uninformed it will be twice as bad. 3) Tell her about every little detail and have hundreds of micro hissy fits. 4) Or just cut loose? Now, I don't know you- but- I certainly don't see anything in this post that says YOU are willing to work on this problem. As others have mentioned, you don't say anything about being poly in your profile. And I have no doubt that the woman is insecure; I'm going to guess that just about any woman here- looking at the options you have posted- would be in the situation. My gut feeling is that #4 is probably the kindest thing you could do for her. Unless, of course, you are willing to work on yourself a little bit and not push all of this off on her.

Lashra -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/12/2010 5:53:38 AM)
I do not suffer from this, but I have had male subs/slaves who suffer from the male version "manitis", male insecurities and jealousy. How did I deal with it? I tried to work with them and make them see that there was no reason to be insecure and jealous. If there was someone in particular that they seemed to have an issue with, I would have them meet the person and see that they were just a colleague/friend. Usually it would work itself out, but then I had one who never changed. He was always jealous and raging about some guy that had looked at my ass in the mall. So sometimes you win, sometimes you lose and just have to cut them loose if it becomes a problem. ~Lashra

Vendaval -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/12/2010 2:39:16 PM)
Freedom sounds way better than such demonstrations of insecurity.

rockspider -> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis (3/13/2010 2:30:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Level Swelling woman syndrome? [:D] Isn't that is also known as BBW?[sm=evil.gif]

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