RE: Dealiing with Womanitis

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis

Page: << < prev 1 [2] 3 next > >>

Login

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 5:29:19 AM

DarlingSavage

Posts: 2808
Joined: 9/18/2009
Status: offline

Aw! That's so cute! I love that! Me, too!

OP,
I agree with the others. Why haven't you mentioned her on your profile? It also sounds as though you could just take her or leave her if you're so ready to drop her this easily.

_____________________________

<-- Easily amused.
<-- Easily impressed.

Strangers have the BEST candy!

Puppy dogs are my favorite people!

(in reply to Level)

Post #: 21

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 5:44:17 AM

RedMagic1

Posts: 6470
Joined: 5/10/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkmike
Ok, I realise that this is one of those silly questions and every sub is different but how are other masters out there dealing with Womanitis, female insecurities and jealousy.
Say your woman throws a wobley every time she thinks about you interacting with another woman.

I've never had this problem. I've never wondered "why not?" until just now, either.

I just can't see myself attracted to someone so insecure. I've dated women with "issues" -- once fell in love with a woman who had attempted suicide six months before I met her -- but why should I spend any time at all with someone unable to trust me?

_____________________________

Not with envy, not with a twisted heart, shall you feel superior, or go about boasting. Rather in goodness by action make true your song and your word. Thus you shall be highly regarded, and able to live in peace with all others.
- 15th century Aztec

(in reply to Darkmike)

Post #: 22

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 5:45:47 AM

ResidentSadist

Posts: 12580
Joined: 2/11/2007
From: a mean old Daddy, but I like you - Joni Mitchell
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

"hundreds of micro hissy fits"

Why would you submit to a bratty Domme that will "throw a hissy" if you look at another woman or talk about it? I just don't understand your choice in relationship partner if what she is doing makes you unhappy.

Other way round, RS; he's dominant.

And his profile says nothing about already having someone.

OP, if you're neglecting to mention her existence is it any wonder she feels insecure? You treat her like that in real life?

OMG... my bad. I didn't even think to read his profile... It seemed she obviously runs the show. My bad... ... well... actually.... his bad. He lets a brat run his life and control him with hissy fits. Maybe he needs to examine his role and maybe try a Domme that isn't a bitchy little brat? There are a lot of guys that switch and there are a ton a fine ass Dommes in this world.

_____________________________

-=BDSM Book List=- Reading is Fundamental !!!
I give good thread.

(in reply to VaguelyCurious)

Post #: 23

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 5:48:48 AM

DarlingSavage

Posts: 2808
Joined: 9/18/2009
Status: offline

Just looked at the profile. Well, no wonder she's inssecure.

_____________________________

<-- Easily amused.
<-- Easily impressed.

Strangers have the BEST candy!

Puppy dogs are my favorite people!

(in reply to ResidentSadist)

Post #: 24

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 5:52:41 AM

RedMagic1

Posts: 6470
Joined: 5/10/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarlingSavage

Just looked at the profile. Well, no wonder she's inssecure.

LOL, ok, I won't look, but I bet you're onto something. Calling it "womanitis" was interesting. "All the women in the world seem to have swelling of the insecurity glands! What's up with that?" All the women in the world really means all the women in his world. Either he's attracted to whiny-ass beeches, or he makes them that way.

_____________________________

Not with envy, not with a twisted heart, shall you feel superior, or go about boasting. Rather in goodness by action make true your song and your word. Thus you shall be highly regarded, and able to live in peace with all others.
- 15th century Aztec

(in reply to DarlingSavage)

Post #: 25

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 5:56:16 AM

DarlingSavage

Posts: 2808
Joined: 9/18/2009
Status: offline

quote:

Either he's attracted to whiny-ass beeches, or he makes them that way.

Appears to most likely be the latter.

edited to fix syntax.

< Message edited by DarlingSavage -- 3/11/2010 5:57:03 AM >

_____________________________

<-- Easily amused.
<-- Easily impressed.

Strangers have the BEST candy!

Puppy dogs are my favorite people!

(in reply to RedMagic1)

Post #: 26

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 6:32:03 AM

Kana

Posts: 6676
Joined: 10/24/2006
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkmike

Do you keep your mouth shut about your day to day interactions with other women in case she throws a hissy, risking the fact that if she finds out and feels uninformed it will be twice as bad or tell her about every little detail and have hundreds of micro hissy fits. Or just cut loose?

Neither. I'm the dominant. I run the relationship. She can trust me or she can be gone, but the one thing I certainly will not do is run around explaining myself to a slave, much less suffering through "hissy fits."
And on that note let me mention that a hissy fit might occur once in my house (due to me being so shocked I watched it happen speechlessly), but never again, much less repeatedly. There are ways a person is expected to behave, bare minimum levels and hissy fits are so far under the line that the slave in question would either end up severely chastised and thinking fifteen times before acting in such a fashion again or they are gone.

_____________________________

"One of God's own prototypes. A high-powered mutant of some kind never even considered for mass production. Too weird to live, and too rare to die. "
HST

(in reply to Darkmike)

Post #: 27

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 7:15:12 AM

LaTigresse

Posts: 26123
Joined: 1/15/2006
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkmike

Ok, I realise that this is one of those silly questions and every sub is different but how are other masters out there dealing with Womanitis, female insecurities and jealousy.
Say your woman throws a wobley every time she thinks about you interacting with another woman.
Do you keep your mouth shut about your day to day interactions with other women in case she throws a hissy, risking the fact that if she finds out and feels uninformed it will be twice as bad or tell her about every little detail and have hundreds of micro hissy fits. Or just cut loose?

Whatever one else has already said. Quit 'focusing' on how cool you are but instead, 'focus' on why you've created such a fucked up situation. And then.....put the camera down, quit admiring your image, and do the work. Because I think you've got egoitis.

_____________________________

My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

(in reply to Darkmike)

Post #: 28

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 7:24:20 AM

VaguelyCurious

Posts: 5264
Joined: 12/2/2009
From: United Kingdom
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

OMG... my bad. I didn't even think to read his profile... It seemed she obviously runs the show. My bad... ... well... actually.... his bad. He lets a brat run his life and control him with hissy fits. Maybe he needs to examine his role and maybe try a Domme that isn't a bitchy little brat? There are a lot of guys that switch and there are a ton a fine ass Dommes in this world.

Haha! Everyone is so assured of your wise and sarcastical nature that they assumed you were being satirical

Big compliment, that is.

_____________________________

Sthetic on FetLife.

(in reply to ResidentSadist)

Post #: 29

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 8:41:08 AM

domiguy

Posts: 12952
Joined: 5/2/2006
Status: offline

I once tried to cram my wobley into a woman's ass. It was a rather difficult task, so I had her suck on it and when she put enough starch into me wobley I went right back to work.

_____________________________

(in reply to VaguelyCurious)

Post #: 30

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 9:33:33 AM

pahunkboy

Posts: 33061
Joined: 2/26/2006
From: Central Pennsylvania
Status: offline

...then it wont work.

one has to be secure with self b4 there can be an us.

(in reply to domiguy)

Post #: 31

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 10:02:18 AM

beej

Posts: 145
Joined: 1/24/2010
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Level

quote:

ORIGINAL: divi

oops I must still be sleeping I thought Level said Smelling Woman Syndrome lol

This I suffer from:

too adorable.

to the OP:

quote:

if she finds out and feels uninformed it will be twice as bad or tell her about every little detail and have hundreds of micro hissy fits. Or just cut loose?

if you're in hot water either way, it doesn't sound like there will be any pleasing this woman no matter what you report. and why should you have to give reports anyway?

(in reply to Level)

Post #: 32

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 10:15:55 AM

Lockit

Posts: 11292
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline

Reading your profile and journal along with this thread, it isn't hard to assume why you are suffering from womanitis. Yes, I said you. Your attitude about women is disrespectful and if a woman has a hard time with it, you blame the woman and the titles and name calling because you have actually encouraged hurt feelings and insecurity is rather telling. You cannot blame a dog that bites you if you kick it.

So if you want to kick women, play the player and blame the woman, what does that say about you?

And yes, I have been accused of having womanitis from time to time... mostly from a cheater who had little respect for women or himself.

< Message edited by Lockit -- 3/11/2010 10:57:33 AM >

_____________________________

No matter how old a woman gets, some men will think she was born yesterday! ROFL... I love this place!

(in reply to beej)

Post #: 33

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 10:50:55 AM

Blackburn

Posts: 78
Joined: 8/11/2009
Status: offline

Damn. Misread this as Dealing with Womantits. Was hoping desperately for wank fodder. Instead got a pic of Level snuffling a neck. Good enough, but not what I expected.. <sigh>

(in reply to Lockit)

Post #: 34

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 11:02:50 AM

ExquisiteStings

Posts: 391
Joined: 4/10/2007
Status: offline

Is there such a thing as MANitis? or is that better known as being an Asshole?

(in reply to Blackburn)

Post #: 35

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 11:22:07 AM

sirsholly

Posts: 42360
Joined: 9/7/2007
From: Quietville
Status: offline

quote:

Ok, I realise that this is one of those silly questions and every sub is different but how are other masters out there dealing with Womanitis, female insecurities and jealousy.
Say your woman throws a wobley every time she thinks about you interacting with another woman.

my guess is you have cheated on her in the past, and will again in the future if your profile gets any type of response.

Personally i think she should kick your silly unfaithful ass to the curb.

_____________________________

PICKED UPON
TECHNO-DOLT
MEMBER OF THE SUBBIE MAFIA
GRACEFULLY CHALLENGED :::::splat:::::
BOOT WHORE
VAA/S FAN

GIVES GOOD HEART (Lushy)

CREATOR OF MAYHEM (practice)

(in reply to Darkmike)

Post #: 36

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 11:44:28 AM

FukinTroll

Posts: 6277
Joined: 2/6/2007
From: Under a bridge
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkmike

Ok, I realise that this is one of those silly questions and every sub is different but how are other masters out there dealing with Womanitis, female insecurities and jealousy.
Say your woman throws a wobley every time she thinks about you interacting with another woman.
Do you keep your mouth shut about your day to day interactions with other women in case she throws a hissy, risking the fact that if she finds out and feels uninformed it will be twice as bad or tell her about every little detail and have hundreds of micro hissy fits. Or just cut loose?

First thing... womanitis is not a very friendly term. There is nothing you can do for insecurities, its not your issues for you to resolve. The best to avoid these issues is make sure that both you and your companion, property, blah blah blah, are on the same page before... yes before... the relationship begins.

The best first step is to open up the closet where all your little monsters hide... sometimes we call this a profile on this site... so he/she can look at your evil little kinky fuckers and say yes or no to them. You do not ever... ever... ever... spring your inner fucker on her as a surprise, when that happens we get all these threads where people are genuinely wounded and hurting because they thought they knew you and when the inner moron came out to play he/she couldn't handle it and split. In the nilla world this is called a divorce.

He/she comes here to help understand where they went wrong, what mistake they made because the people here are fucking brilliant! Now sometimes the folks here get frustrated when a rash of these wounded threads come around because we have read a million of them and it all boils down to the same shit; Someone in the dynamic secretly liked fucking goats and the other member of the dynamic couldn't handle it once it came to light... long after becoming deeply invested in the relationship... it was more than they could bear.

YMMV

_____________________________

I'm the guy your girl is thinking about when she is fucking you!

TrollTopia
Greedy Groupie!

The Mods have me on speed Spank!! Gotta luv'em.

(in reply to Darkmike)

Post #: 37

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 11:54:31 AM

VaguelyCurious

Posts: 5264
Joined: 12/2/2009
From: United Kingdom
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

~Good advice~

Troll-I can't slurp you cause I'm a hooming bean. So I'm gonna have to just *SMOOCH* you.

< Message edited by VaguelyCurious -- 3/11/2010 11:55:45 AM >

_____________________________

Sthetic on FetLife.

(in reply to FukinTroll)

Post #: 38

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 12:22:25 PM

KITTYLECTRO

Posts: 261
Joined: 10/26/2009
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkmike
Say your woman throws a wobley every time she thinks about you interacting with another woman.

I've seen many people act this way when they are cheating.

_____________________________

Meow =^..^=
www.KittyLectro.com

(in reply to Darkmike)

Post #: 39

RE: Dealiing with Womanitis - 3/11/2010 1:22:12 PM

MasterSlaveLA

Posts: 3991
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkmike

Do you keep your mouth shut about your day to day interactions with other women in case she throws a hissy, risking the fact that if she finds out and feels uninformed it will be twice as bad or tell her about every little detail and have hundreds of micro hissy fits. Or just cut loose?

Attachment (1)

_____________________________

It's only kinky the first time!!!

(in reply to Darkmike)

Post #: 40

Page: << < prev 1 [2] 3 next > >>

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid >> RE: Dealiing with Womanitis

Page: << < prev 1 [2] 3 next > >>

Jump to:

New Messages	No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages	Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages	Locked w/o New Messages

Post New Thread

Reply to Message

Post New Poll

Submit Vote

Delete My Own Post

Delete My Own Thread

Rate Posts

Collarchat.com © 2025

Terms of Service

0.109